Objet d'sex

wildsweetone

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A coincidence just occured to me.

In Riles' 'Descriptive Passage' thread, both Riles and dr_mabeuse mentioned curtains billowing. I too have written curtains being blown by the breeze into one (probably more) of my stories.

What is it that is erotic about the curtains? Is it the shape as the breeze blows gently against them? Is it that we cannot see the force that moves the material?

I've heard it said that a woman's pony tail (long hair tied up at the back) is an erotic sight for men (please excuse the generalisation).

Are there any other specific 'objects' that trick the mind into a sexual frenzy?
 
on the curtains, i think it *is* that the fabric is manipulated by the wind, an ever present force that we can not see. it is given body when it blows through the curtains, and i think that that is why we like it so much.

plus, sounds good, don't it?

oh and women drinking from bottles (another generalization)
 
I don't find billowing curtains particulary erotic.
I did find dr_mabeuse's cheap motel scene erotic, though i may have changed the scene slightly. I picture it as a woman or man, laying on a bed, clothed only in there underwear, on a hot muggy summer's night,alone. Looking at a phone or maybe even trying to decide it they should pick it up. Now that scene i find intrguing and sexy.


Now my sweetie's think that when i wear my hear in a ponytail pulled through the back of a baseball cap as very sexy.


Ms M.
 
Many varieties of fruit I, esp the eating thereof... I think it has to do with that whole idea of ripeness, fertility, appealing to all the senses, etc.

Think about the following:

peaches :)D personal fave)
grapes
bananas
strawberries
mango

what sorts of images come to mind, eh?
 
is it just me or are there similarities in the shapes of these objects with the human body?

a billowing curtain...
the roundness of fruit...
the shape of fruit, gently rounded like a buttock or breast...
the smoothness of the edges on a telephone...

does anybody else see it?
 
I was with you all the way up to the telephone. I must admit, I've never been aroused by a telephone.

The Earl
 
Earl my dear chap...
now what comment can i make to you that wont get me into trouble? ;)


actually... i was trying to see what it was about dr_m's motel scene that ms.m found erotic... thought it could have been the curves on the phone... each to his or her own.
 
Dammit WSO; now I've got a mental picture that just won't go away! :D

I've heard that the sight of men shaving is very erotic to some women. Yes, hair in ponytails is very arousing. My own personal favourite is a women chewing on her bottom lip; I find that just so enticing.

The Earl
 
enjoy the vision dear.... i'm not sure a bottom lip is an object though. you'll have to think again on that one.
 
Technically it's an object... Okay I admit it, I misread. How about a paperclip?

The Earl
 
a paperclip reminds you of the human body in a sexual manner?

...must be the english air...
 
I will admit i misread too. I was thinking of the scene and not the phone as a object:)

lol.. now though i am thinking of what picture Earl has in his mind. hmm. i bite my lip, wear my hear in a ponytail on occasion and i use the phone! but only to talk into :devil:

So now to go even further off subject. The thing i find the sexiest in the world is men holding the hand or playing with a child.Nothng gets me hotter than that.


Ms.M
 
wildsweetone said:
What is it that is erotic about the curtains? Is it the shape as the breeze blows gently against them? Is it that we cannot see the force that moves the material?

A few of theories about erotic curtains:

Curtains gently moving with the wind can sometimes resemble two bodies moving together under a blanket.

Curtains moving in the wind implies an open window where interesting things might be overheard or spied upon.

People who find moving curtains erotic just have dirty minds. :p
 
I find a man just brushing his fingers through his hair, moving it off his face highly erotic.

I agree with the fruit thing, but i think it has to be something soft and juicy though......


I find satin sexy. the sight of it makes me hot.
 
Ponytails, etc.

A ponytail per se doesn't do all that much for me. Poke it through the gap at the back of a cap and things begin to heat up.

Then have a young woman (All women younger than me are young!);) jog by with ponytail protruding through the gap and bouncing with each step and...

Thinking about it, the billowing curtains also bring to mind a certain...um, perhaps I should quit before I get my mother's son in deep do do.

JT
 
Love It!

I LOVE this topic! How we see sex in ostensibly non-sexual objects. Humans are just so cool!

Curtains: My take is not that it's so much visual as it is symbolic. It's like a woman with her blouse undone. It means the house is in disarray? Arer they as sexy blowing in as they are blowing out? I know a woman who finds the sight of curtains blowing out of windows depressing. Go figure.

Telephone: the act of talking into a phone is very erotic, very intimate. Cell phones aren't sexy at all. Not close enough to the lips. The image of a telephone ringing in an empty room is very sad, but very erotic for me too. I heard that Alfred Hitchcock also loved this image.

Other sexy things to me: A swimming pool at dusk when no one's been in the water and it's as still as glass.

Almost any abandoned building that's not a wreck

Neon signs reflecting in a wet street at night

Silent suburban lawns on a hot night with a sprinkler going

Train stations. Not airports, not bus stations.

Beaches. Not mountains.

Sailboats. Not powerboats (there's that wind again)

Okay, now I get weird and show my fetish: chrome plated hardware. (Earl's paperclip? I could see the paper clip as a symbol for the vagina too. The bigger space topped by the smaller space (the clit?))

More?

---dr.M.
 
When I think of a billowing curtain, it sort of brings to mind the image of a woman's long hair flowing in a breeze. On some guys with longer hair, I can find it sexy too. Also, I think of things like Marilyn Monroe's skirt being blown upwards in that famous image.
 
Re: Re: Objet d'sex

Weird Harold said:
People who find moving curtains erotic just have dirty minds. :p

does it count that i didn't realise it until i read the other two passages containing billowing curtains?

okay it doesn't count. darn, now you know ;)


hey Justin... welcome to the land of do do ;)

hmm i'm beginning to think that the eroticness is to do with concave/convex shapes...

even the reflection of neon lights... they have to reflect in something, hence a puddle of water... why is the puddle there? because there is a sunken portion of the road... concave. see what i mean?

the ponytail through the cap hole... hole = concave (okay stretch your mind there folks ;) )

telephone - the handset in some cases is concave (the mouthpiece)... or perhaps it's the thought of having a voice whispering in a supposed ear, ear = concave see?

train stations... tunnels, or movement of large penis shaped object coming or going...?

beaches - concave - hold water...?

sailboats - the curve of the sail as it catches the wind... i bet it's the concave side that appeals most.

wow this is cool! what a thread! who started it? oh geez it was me. how did i manage that? ;)

the odd one for me dr_m is the garden lawns with sprinklers... okay freshly cut grass is a known aphrodisiac maybe that's it. but thinking about it, the water spurts from sprinklers in a curved arc, yes? concave ;)

wow!

long hair in the breeze... the breeze gently lifting (curve) the hair from the body, billowing a little, then flicking the loose ends out and away... i bet there's concave in there too with the billowing!
 
The paperclip was a reference to WSO's other thread. Can anyone get all of these things into a scene?

I always find a wood fire quite nice. Anyone else noticed that or am I just a lone pyromaniac?

The Earl
 
I think lying in front of a fireplace is very romantic. I even like the idea of sitting with your lover along with other friends near a bonfire on a beach is romantic as well.

Paper clips ... hmmmm ... I guess to those that are fans of s/m, paper clips could be a very romantic object. ;)
 
fire - yeah but i bet it's not the wood that's the erotic thing... i bet it's the flames, the way they curl and curve around the wood...?
 
Lets see what we have:

Billowing curtains
Pony tails
Fruit
Women drinking from bottles
Telephones
Women chewing bottom lips
Paperclips
Beaches
Sailboats
Chrome plated hardware
Fire

Come on we must be able to fit all of those in a scene.

The Earl
 
I think you are right. I think it is also the way the fire flows cozily along the wood, consuming it, like lovers. I think it is also the idea of the heat that is produced by the fire that is flowing against the wood too ... like two lovers generating their own warmth.
 
wow i've only just seen the chrome plated hardware comment

Okay, now I get weird and show my fetish: chrome plated hardware. (Earl's paperclip? I could see the paper clip as a symbol for the vagina too. The bigger space topped by the smaller space (the clit?)) ...---dr.M.


you mean like knife and fork? or the chrome on a car's bumper? the paperclip? lmbo i have a feeling nobody is ever gonna look at a paperclip the old way again ;)

you do realise that i'm searching around my house looking for chrome things now, don't you? hmm

oh yeah the clips on briefcases! male and female! wow

how odd, my kettle and my toaster are both chrome and they've got those beautiful smooth edges... ohh golly.

hmm Earl... fancy a louau? (think i spelled it wrong... luau?) lavalava - the name for the wrap around skirts?

Driftwood piled high on a white sand beach, burning in the twilight. Flames licking skyward sparks climbing to the stars. Men in long bright beach shorts and women dressed in lavalava, the red and orange flower painted material glowing in the firelight. A group of virile young men playing music, guitar, drums... singing. A woman with coconut shells for a bikini top and a bright blue and yellow lavalava dances the hula, moving forward toward the Earl. Her hips gyrating, his eyes unblinking... She turns and he watches her curved bottom moving the material from side to side. The music tempo increases, she wiggles faster and faster... her lavalava falls to the ground. The paperclip has broken.

edited to add:

ALOHA ;)
 
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