Not this weekend but next weekend..... Jade takes the plunge!

[Jade]

Okay, this is completely unrelated to my other thread but... I just had to share with one of my favorite little families this news.

Next weekend.. the first one in November... I will be meeting someone from online for the first time ever in my life.

We have been talking for over 3 years and on the phone for over 2 years. I think we are ready for this step in our friendship. NO.. this is not about sex... however, I do plan on giving him a HUGE hug!

I am a slew of emotions at the moment: nervous, excited, curious, worried.

I am afraid that he will be dissappointed. The fact that erotic literature without visual aids can be so exillerating to us, proves how imagintive humans can be (not all hehe.. but many) and I am concerned that, despite the fact that this is not a "romantic" relationship, that there are still expectations of me and I doubts as to whether or not he will enjoy my company in person, b/c how can I live up to what he has imagined me to be?

I just wondered how many of you have actually MET in person, someone from the internet.. and overall.. was your experience positive?

Thanks in advance; I appreciate your responses.

 

[Ambrosious]

Three years?! Yeah but do you REALLY know him??

 

[catlover]

cyber friends?

I did - got the puter and got online and found the games site on Netscape- it is now called Pogo and is the same on Lycos and Excite too. Playing backgammon on line was a blast, I was turned on by playing with people all over the world, and especially in eastern US and Canada.

One Sun afternoon i was playing against a girl in NY. Dont know how but we got to chatting (typed on the bottom of the game board) about fantacies.She talked about being into bondage etc. Nothing much happenned then, but within a week or so I played a girl in Michigan using the name Sexyass. Before long, in our chat, she said she needed to get some sleep. When our game ended I asked "do you want to go to bed or play?" She said, in Cap letters BOTH. We did - we had cybersex for several months and before long i counted 16 different women on that net with whom I had cybersex, two of them professional sex workers. Several mentioned having clandestine meetings with on-line partners. Soon I ran across a girl from across my state. We were into it as well and we figured out a way for me to visit her. It fell apart when my wife said "you're just going to meet some broad!" She was right, and the excuse for the trip (a baseball game) had evaporated. A week or so later she had a business committment on my side, for a seminar. She drove over for her meeting, and we met for lunch. We never made it to the dining room- we started and ended on the dessert. I missed saying that in her office she had an 800 number and a private office so while we played backgammon we talked on the phone too, and we fell in love with each other's voices. She was 29, a LOT younger than me, but I had told her the truth about me etc & i assume she did the same. She was in a divorce that was messy, and in a very small town, and ready for a little action. At my age I couldnt do a lot for her but she did have several orgasms and we did have a great chemistry. As it evolved tho- she got pretty possessive and I couldnt play backgammon with anyone else or she got upset. Also, my wife caught us on the phone more than once, so I had to back off. We emailed and talked later several times but the spell was broken and im sure she has many other better opportunities.

My advice = meet on neutral ground and let it go its course- let your mind and heart guide you- wherever it may take you. Best wishes

[Edited by catlover on 10-27-2000 at 10:44 AM]

 

[Roll-One]

Jade

You will have alot of different emotions, but don't let that discourage you, I have met alot of ladies on here, and it was great...
we had alot of fun, and enjoyed each others company very much.


Just be careful.....k... and meet in a public place first, have dinner, relax, and enjoy your visit....

 

[Earthmuffin]

*wow* 3 years! Don't worry about other's expectations, you probably have met or exceeded them LONG ago. Have fun, be safe and for goodness sakes, PLEASE tell us how it goes!

 

[Ezzy]

Jade...

If he is dissapointed, buy his seeing eye dog a new battery for it's hearing aid.


EZ http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm2/sleep.gif


Ps I hope he is worthy of knowing you.

 

[Guest]

Good luck and have fun Jade! This past summer (when I made that journey to Akron, Oh) I ended out meeting my best (male) friend (Ezzie is my best female friend, luv ya hon!). He is also the honorary God Father to my son (my son was born on his birthday), and my soul mate. Anyway, we've known each other for close to 4 years and had FINALLY met. It was a lot of fun and great to finally see him.

~Tiggs~
http://www.freebackgrounds.com/kit12.gif

 

[Jade]

For the few of you that actually replied, thank you.

For those who demonstrated a show of concern, thanks. Don't worry please, I really trust this guy and he means something to me. I treasure his friendship in my life and I know you can never be too careful... but honestly, I dont know why.. but it just feels right somehow.

Ezzy.. (hugs) thanks hehe... I dont know.. he is sweet and yet HORRIBLY picky!!

Tiggs: 4 years! Egads I have been outdone.. I had better call him up and tell him he has to wait another half a year and an extra DAY! hehe (that would make our wait a day longer! lol) Thanks for sharing cutie!

ANYWAY I just had my very first white russian EVER.. and boy was it good, but boy am I dizzy... so off to bed I go.

Fare thee well all.
Night and sweet dreams.

 

[Guest]

Jade... C'mere! lol http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm/la.gif

 

[Vlad]

If you have been e-mailing and talking on the phone for 3 years then you should know each other very well.

Good luck and be extremely careful--Vlad

 

[Angel]

Okay, this is completely unrelated to my other thread but... I just had to share with one of my favorite little families this news.

Next weekend.. the first one in November... I will be meeting someone from online for the first time ever in my life.

We have been talking for over 3 years and on the phone for over 2 years. I think we are ready for this step in our friendship. NO.. this is not about sex... however, I do plan on giving him a HUGE hug!

I am a slew of emotions at the moment: nervous, excited, curious, worried.

I am afraid that he will be dissappointed. The fact that erotic literature without visual aids can be so exillerating to us, proves how imagintive humans can be (not all hehe.. but many) and I am concerned that, despite the fact that this is not a "romantic" relationship, that there are still expectations of me and I doubts as to whether or not he will enjoy my company in person, b/c how can I live up to what he has imagined me to be?

I just wondered how many of you have actually MET in person, someone from the internet.. and overall.. was your experience positive?

Thanks in advance; I appreciate your responses.

It really depends on the person...I've met a ton of local people from the internet. In fact I get together with a group every friday at the bookstore. It's great. A year ago I met a guy I was good friends with and we ended up becoming the best of friends. I once met a guy I talked to from 96-99 who lived downstate, when I went down there for a week with my friend who was recording an album and we hit it off like we'd been buddies forever. Each time I was scared as hell but it all worked out great and I still keep in touch with all of them.

Good Luck Have Fun and STAY SAFE!

 

[Artguy]

Jade you'll just have to be yourself because there is no need at all here to break the ice as in the case of other first meetings. And don't make any conscious effort to talk about sex. And if it moves in that direction don't stop it. Most importantly don't build up too many expectations because the best guy in the world can fall short of a pre-meeting build up. Let your hug say it all...how much you enjoyed his friendship all along, how he has managed to get into the inner recesses of your thinking etc. Please don't make the hug a casual one..please. The warmth of the hug here is worth a thousand words and a will have the depth of a river. All the best.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Good Jade so now you will be broken in for my visit next year!

Babe I wish you well and I wish that it was I getting the hug.

Da chef

 

[Ezzy]

Da Chef

Good Jade so now you will be broken in for my visit next year!

Babe I wish you well and I wish that it was I getting the hug.

Da chef

(((((((((((HUG)))))))))))

Hope that helps, LMAO


EZ http://smilecwm.tripod.com/cwm2/sleep.gif

 

[wolfie69]

relax, relax, relax....lol

Jade I am sitting in the living room of some online friends I just met after 2 years. I had some extra time on this trip, called them and whoooshh here I am.

I have met several others from online, also. Some of the people were greaat and we have kept in touch, a few just did not work out and a couple have turned into close relationships.

I guess my advice is this, go into it with an open mind, take the sensible precautions and have fun. If you relly like the person, the rest doesn't matter