normal people

[Hecate]

To be or not to be .. normal .. that is the question!

I would consider myself quite normal, having a ordinary life, being respected by the neighbours *chuckles* and doing a decent job for a living ... I do not consider any of my sexual preferences abnormal either (I guess this is what the question was mainly aiming at

) ... but then again - this based on my point of view. I assume some people would consider me a weirdo just for the fact of posting here *chuckles*

To sum it up: I consider myself normal - you are welcome to proove me wrong though

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[Irontoto]

after reading the thread about the lady who fucks her husbands son, really got me thinking, how many whack - jobs and how many "normal people" visit this site on a daily basis.now lets be honest and classify your self as a nut or a normal person. please, also give a brief explanation on why you chose the choosen answer.i bet when its all said and done, theres more nuts than normal people.

 

[Sammyjo]

I think I'm fairly normal. I am sure that there is something about me that someone would classify as nuts, but over all, I'm pretty normal.

For example, I do not sleep with anyone's husband...that's against my rules. I do not get married and carry on affairs with my husband's children. I would never have sex with my child, or my brother or sisters, or mother, or father...I think you can see a pattern here. (I should probably include the family pets here, too...none of that for me thanks)

I am straight forward and honest. I haven't had sex in 5 months (now, that might be nuts), but for good reason...which I will choose to leave out, as some of it is rather graphic in nature.

As you can see, I am "normal"...whatever that means...of course, the person that comes on here and says the exact opposite of me may be normal...at least in their own eyes.

 

[Endlessly]

I wouldn't consider myself normal, but I wouldn't consider myself a nutjob, either. So let me put it this way: I strike my friends and family here in the real world as 'normal,' whether or not that's true.

I'm your typical nerdy college freshman.. I spend most of my time with my nose in a book, sleeping through classes, grumbling with my friends about an acute lack of lovelife (I finally gave Himself the boot :O ). I do NOT spend my spare time screwing siblings, other people's husbands\boyfriends\girlfriends\pets.

Basically, I'm the me you see on the BB every day.. Only boring. *Wry smile*

 

[Slut_boy]

I actually don't think that I am nut either, but I do know that I am not 'normal'. I think that I have said this before, but I am a bit of a misfit. Do I try to be normal? Not anymore: I used to try that shit but it doesn't work for me. Anyway, half the time I am misunderstood, so what's the point?

 

[Bossy Aussie]

Hmm...I'm gonna have to go with normal on this one. LoL, except that I'm a 20 year old virgin...that's not so normal anymore, huh?

I work hard and take care of two bratty teenage siblings

Anyhow, yeah...normal here.

Bossy

 

[Hurley_International]

I am very normal thank you
and I am a 18 yr old guy who has never been with anyone either. Well I have messed around but never given/recived oral, or actually had sex

 

[ShyGuy68]

I think I'll have to agree with most of the other people that have replied to this post.

I'm not a very exciting person myself, and despite being 31, I haven't had the luck of finding the woman of my dreams.

Other wise I'm quite normal too. I battle with my weight, like probably a lot other people do, but that's life.


ShyGuy

 

[John1965]

I would have to say that I am pretty normal. I am your typical all American nice guy. Went to school, work, have friends and hobbies. The subject matter tends to make you wonder sometimes. But that is what this place is for, to cut loose from the norms of everyday life and indulge a little.

 

[Xander]

Normal or not normal. It's kinda a vague concept isen't it.
Anyway, I think I'm pretty normal and boring. But others have told me I'm a crazy fucker.

Oh, what the hell. gyh gyh gyh gyh Mamma mamma. *waving arms in the air*

 

[Weird Harold]

I think my handle answers the question up front. <G>

Actually in the 30+ years I've been known as Weird Harold, I've always claimed that I'm no weirder than anyone else, I just admit it.

Numerous people over the years have asked me why I cling to that nickname. Each and everyone has has some point finally admitted "Harold, You're weird". Every one of them picked something different to comment on as being weird.

I'm not 'normal' and I'm not 'average.' Those are both phantasms created by manipulation of numbers. Even if they were attainable conditions I wouldn't be interested.

I'm just me, and I'm weird. 'Nuff said.

 

[Fallen Angel]

First, why didn't you state what you thought you were?

Me I'm nuts. I am trying to make a living farming and ranching in the desert. Prices for what I sell are what they were 50 years ago when my daddy was farming and ranching. The cost of everything I buy is sky high and rising. I still won't give it up though, it is a great life but a sorry living.

Sex wise uh what is normal?
I have been married 17 years, have 4 kids, go to church on Sunday, have an imaginary dog named Zeke (who gets more strange stuff than me), never had sex with guys animals fish or kinfolk,

never been with more than one girl at a time, volunteers?

, always tended to chase the girls who acted lady like even though I enjoyed the company of the ones who weren't more. Thank goodness I put in ten long hard years of sowing wild oats and living on the edge before settling down.

 

[Laurel]

I'm a total whack job. I went from running an indie record label to running a porn site. I'm 28 (as of today, it's my birthday) and I'm so childlike people think I'm 19. I sleep 5 hours a day. I eat cereal for dinner sometimes. I talk to my cat.

Sexually? I'm so boring it'll sicken you. I've been living in sin with Manu for years now, but that's about as quirky as it gets (and that's not that quirky nowadays). I've never slept with a family member or a pet, never crossdressed or asked Manu to crossdress, never beat anyone with a whip.

But I disagree with you, 'toto. I think most of the people here ARE normal, in that they represent the population. I don't think fantasizing about family members is all that uncommon (though I never have, and if you saw my family you'd know why). I think many men and women have rape fantasies. I think what is considered the sexual "norm" IS uncommon. All those people you see in the supermarket or at work every day - the ones who look so well-adjusted - they're HERE, right now! So look around you - this IS society.

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[Xander]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LAUREL!!!!!!!!

 

[Dakota Ryan]

First... Happy Birthday Laurel!!!!! and many more to cum.. no that's come...LOL
Normal? Me? Humm depends on who you ask that question. I have been married for 28 years, I have three kids and 4 birds... I haven't had sex with any of them...LOL... I hope that's normal. I haven't cheated on my wife ever... (I know that's not normal)... I play golf for fun and write for the enjoyment of having people read my thoughts... woohooo and they aren't normal...hahahaha... now lets see... That's one normal and one not normal... Hell I guess that means I am boring

 

[Guest]

Normal. Christ man I havent killed anyone in 30 fucking years. Once the White Album came out on cd it all made so much fucking sense.

 

[Hecate]

Happy Birthday Laurel - Herzlichen Glückwunsch !!!!!

 

[Endlessly]

Happy birthday, Laurel! We love you!

 

[ShyGuy68]

Laurel happy birthday wishes from Denmark, and many more too!

ShyGuy

PS. I also talk to my cat, and sometimes I think he understands me!

 

[Ravenloft]

Yep, Laurel is DA B-DAY girl! Everybody! Strike up a chorus!

We love you Laurel, oh yes we do-oo!
We love you Laurel, indeedy do-oo!!!

Come on! Everybody together! And add a verse while your at it!!!

And as far as me being "normal"... Welll... I think I just proved my position on the matter with the above, non?

 

[Bossy Aussie]

Happy Birthday, Laurel!! BTW -- I talk to all of my dogs...and once in a while, one of 'em will even "ah-woo-woo-woo" back at me.

Bossy

 

[Deborah]

I'm normal. My shrink told me so.

My condolences on yet another birthday, Laurel. I have a present for you. I know what you like!

 

[Hal Jordan]

Happy Birthday Laurel - May the best of your past be the worst of your future.

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As for this thread…..

Have you ever noticed that we base our assessment on the normality of others almost entirely on how closely their thinking and actions match our own. I’m sure there are people out there who violently disagree with me on most things, and I’m broad-minded enough to concede that they might possibly not be complete idiots, but I much prefer the company of people that agree with me.

What I think I’m trying to say is that normality has yet to be properly defined

Whenever I meet people especially women they seem to think that I am very strange (In a bad way). Nobody ever gets me. As a result people always seem to avoid me. The funny thing is that once they get to know me I’m the nicest person they know (Those are usually the words they use).

I don’t think that I am a normal male, but not because of any sexual deviance (I’m just as screwed up as the rest of you on that score) but because I would like to think that I see and react differently to the social stimuli that has a large part in governing our actions. I have the worst temper in the world and the demons that it spawns make the devil edgy . Luckily I hardly ever lose it. The strange thing is that my “weirdness” comes from the utmost respect I have for everything and everybody around me especially women. I think that people take “offence” to the fact that I’m interested in them as a person and that I’m willing to go out of my way to try and make them happy when I’ve only just met them. Whatever happened to trust. People always expect that once you do something for them they owe you something. And because of that I’m initially viewed as a someone who is a few sandwiches short of a picnic.

Another reason they might be scared of me is that I’m an agent of Satan. I always tell them not to worry because my duties are largely ceremonial, but do you think they’ll listen.

Before I go I have a question.Why is it that most women always seem to think that you are coming on to them when in reality you are just trying to be nice?

I'm out of my mind, but feel free to leave a message...

 

[Hurley_International]

I am one frazy cucker
heheh Serious I do some of the most random stuff. I think I am just sexually abnomral

 

[Golden]

normal?
Well normal as in "usual" as in "like most of the rest of the population" ... well hardly! I sit here at nearly 3am reading your stories and posts and posting to all you great folks on this BB, listening to Bob Dylan and Van Morrison (went to see him in London yesterday - man, fuckin' A) while my family all sleep thinking I'm actually at my desk working ... yeah this is like what 50% plus of the peeps do every day! not! I think NORMAL is - upstairs in bed snoring away!

But normal as in in - healthy of mind and spirit, harmless to others, not needing to be locked up for the benefit of society (not even muzzled thanks Deborah!) ... yeah in that I'm normal! And are my sexual desires and fantasies normal? Who cares - but none of them involve causing pain or doing harm; rather the reverse!