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[destinie21]

I'm so angry right now, I'm physically shaking.

McFbridge...your points about not all men being scum are well taken and I too know that not all men are assholes. But the ones that are, sure as hell ruin it for the rest of you. Maybe you should make it a crusade of yours to teach all of the bad apples out there a little sensitivity and a little less self-centeredness.

It takes a real sonofabitch to stand by and watch tears run down his wife's face over something he caused and not even attempt an apology or go to her.

So I don't know who's in the majority or the minority but I don't really give a shit. I've taken the shaft and am now getting the hell out of here. You'll probably see me later on the pissed thread.

~lucky

Lucky whatever happened I'm sorry. Pm me if you want or need to talk

 

[Guest]

Lucky, I don't know what to say now, except: that sucks!

I badly wish I could hug you right now, but I am sending some virtual hugs your way.

I guess I should count myself as extremely fortunate to know so many good men.

Lou

Once again I feel the need to stick up for my gender. It's is not the vast majority, it is simply a small, noticeable minority.


And we won't comment on the women to whom having a deep conversation involves make-up, hairstyles, or who wore what where.

Mike, I think you read me wrong. I *was* sticking up for your gender. I said the vast MINority, not MAJority.

Not sure what you mean by your last statement, but you'll never catch me talking like that!

Anyway, weren't we going to bed?

Lou

 

[mcfbridge]

I'm so angry right now, I'm physically shaking.

McFbridge...your points about not all men being scum are well taken and I too know that not all men are assholes. But the ones that are, sure as hell ruin it for the rest of you. Maybe you should make it a crusade of yours to teach all of the bad apples out there a little sensitivity and a little less self-centeredness.

It takes a real sonofabitch to stand by and watch tears run down his wife's face over something he caused and not even attempt an apology or go to her.

So I don't know who's in the majority or the minority but I don't really give a shit. I've taken the shaft and am now getting the hell out of here. You'll probably see me later on the pissed thread.

~lucky

I wish I could tell you that maybe you misunderstood your husband, but you probably didn't. Unfortunately, there simply are some bastards out there. Please know that there are any number of people out her, male and female, who care about you and hope you find happiness.

Please remember that for every bastard you find, there are 10 men who would be thrilled to treat you the way a lady should be treated.


Gotta go now, Lou is waiting for me in bed.

 

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Please remember that for every bastard you find, there are 10 men who would be thrilled to treat you the way a lady should be treated.

And at least twenty women

 

[cloudy]

Oh, Lucky, I am so, so sorry, sweetheart.

I've been there, I know how badly it hurts. Want to move in with me instead?

Come here, let me kiss your tears away, or at least hold you while you cry. You can go to sleep, and I'll still be here when you wake up, to snuggle, or talk, or just fix you a nice cup of coffee - whatever it takes to put a smile back on your beautiful face.

seems like it must be national asshole week, or something.

 

[destinie21]

Someone fucking spray painted the word dyke on my front door. I know who it was

 

[cloudy]

Someone fucking spray painted the word dyke on my front door. I know who it was

Want me to find 'em and get 'em? I have a gun........

They're probably just jealous, baby.

 

[destinie21]

Want me to find 'em and get 'em? I have a gun........

They're probably just jealous, baby.

lol no I accidently spilled a bag of sugar in her gas tank thats probably going to ruin the engine of the lexus huh? Oops

 

[cloudy]

lol no I accidently spilled a bag of sugar in her gas tank thats probably going to ruin the engine of the lexus huh? Oops

Don't you just hate when that happens?

 

[destinie21]

Don't you just hate when that happens?

Hey can I help it if an unidetified person paints a slur on my door then through mere coincidence an unidentified perpetrator spills sugar. No I can't help it at all

 

[cloudy]

psst - next time use any orange flavored soda - it's the same color as gas, and the sugar in it works the same way.

 

[destinie21]

IT occurs to me that anyone who walked down the strret and saw me painting my front door in a nightgown and high heeled sandals at nearly 11 at night may have thought I was crazy.

 

[destinie21]

GOd I'm having a panic attack. I think of you guys as friends and femily yeah there's some realatives I'm not crazy about but they still make up part of the family. So heres a list of my conecerns.

What if The baby doesn't love me?

After what happened tonight I know people will judge her by who or maybe what I am. Can we handle that?

What's she going to call me Mommy or my given name ?

Oh lord.

 

[lucky-E-leven]

Des - I admire your strength of self and ability to be honest about who you love, regardless of what it may mean to others. And you have always been there for me.

Tatelou - I'll take the hug and squeeze you back. I'm lucky to know some very decent men as well, but the one I live with is falling way short these days. I'm so glad that this is not the case with you...but if you ever need a softer shoulder, you know where to find me.

Mike - My husband is not a bastard. He is simply incapable of seeing past the end of his own goddamn nose. He's an incredible person, a wonderful father and pretty damn worthless as a husband/partner. Thanks for being upstanding and keeping me aware that this is not the standard.

Abs - I don't need twenty women. Just one that knows my soul and cares enough about it not to break it in half. Thankfully I know someone just like this.

Cloudy - I'm not going anywhere. This is MY house and before too damn long I'm going to claim it as such. So please, feel free to schedule a visit so we can discuss those hugs and kisses.

**It never ceases to amaze me that a computer page full of 'virtual' friends could make me feel more whole and more loved than a real life full of people. Thank you all for being who you are and for giving so freely of yourselves.**

I'm a little embarassed for having ranted so outrageously earlier, but I did feel better afterwards, went out and got stinking drunk with a friend, smoked until my damn lungs ached and happily came home to find my Lit family waiting for me with open arms.

Thanks again.

Much love,
lucky

 

[lucky-E-leven]

GOd I'm having a panic attack. I think of you guys as friends and femily yeah there's some realatives I'm not crazy about but they still make up part of the family. So heres a list of my conecerns.

What if The baby doesn't love me?

After what happened tonight I know people will judge her by who or maybe what I am. Can we handle that?

What's she going to call me Mommy or my given name ?

Oh lord.

In case of panic attack: Call lucky for mouth to mouth!

What if The baby doesn't love me?
The baby will press you to your absolute furthest limits and just when you think you can't take anymore, she'll turn to you with huge brown eyes filled with the truest love you've ever seen and say, "I love you, Mommy." Her loving you has nothing to do with the woman you are at work or the things you've done in the past. Her loving you will have everything to do with the fact that you love her. You love her already and she will learn love simply by being in your presence. Hell, I've learned a thing or two about love, just getting to know you and your wife. If I can see and feel it over a thousand miles away, there's not a chance in hell that she's going to miss it living right down the hall.

After what happened tonight I know people will judge her by who or maybe what I am. Can we handle that?
People who judge based on lifestyle are idiots and there is no doubt in my mind that your little diva will know exactly where she stands in the world. Not according to who you and Renza are, but according to the fact that you both love her with all your hearts and that will make her invincible.

What's she going to call me Mommy or my given name ?
That kid's got it made, I tell ya! I wish I could've cried 'Mommy' and had two gorgeous women running to fulfill my every need. You're her mother. I don't see any reason for her to call you anything other than Mommy. Afterall, I think she outta call you something along the lines of what you called your mother to make you feel comfortable with it.

Hokay! Lucky's wordy when she's been drinking. If this doesn't make a lick of sense, disregard it entirely.



~lucky

 

[Honey123]

Lucky....I am not sure what happened to you yesterday...but knowing you in order to make you that angry it had to be a duzey (did I spell that right??) and compounded with the fact that you are trying to do what's right for you and your child sometimes makes it harder to just stand by and not do anything about it. (By that I mean leaving.)

You are a wonderful, warm person. You are intelligent, funny and so capable of handling yourself in situations that have occurred in your life, that I am in awe of you considering your age. I think it takes courage to be so strong and I admire that in you.

We can all sit here, read what you write and give you advice, but ultimately the decision is yours to make and I think no matter what decision you make, it will be the best and the correct choice.

Everyday we learn little lessons which make us who we are and who we will be.

You know I am your friend and should you ever need to just vent - IM away or pick up that phone and call me. I can tell you so many things to comfort you, but there is only one voice that you should listen to and it's the one inside your head.

Chin up, love....Love you lots.

Des - I admire your strength of self and ability to be honest about who you love, regardless of what it may mean to others. And you have always been there for me.

Tatelou - I'll take the hug and squeeze you back. I'm lucky to know some very decent men as well, but the one I live with is falling way short these days. I'm so glad that this is not the case with you...but if you ever need a softer shoulder, you know where to find me.

Mike - My husband is not a bastard. He is simply incapable of seeing past the end of his own goddamn nose. He's an incredible person, a wonderful father and pretty damn worthless as a husband/partner. Thanks for being upstanding and keeping me aware that this is not the standard.

Abs - I don't need twenty women. Just one that knows my soul and cares enough about it not to break it in half. Thankfully I know someone just like this.

Cloudy - I'm not going anywhere. This is MY house and before too damn long I'm going to claim it as such. So please, feel free to schedule a visit so we can discuss those hugs and kisses.

**It never ceases to amaze me that a computer page full of 'virtual' friends could make me feel more whole and more loved than a real life full of people. Thank you all for being who you are and for giving so freely of yourselves.**

I'm a little embarassed for having ranted so outrageously earlier, but I did feel better afterwards, went out and got stinking drunk with a friend, smoked until my damn lungs ached and happily came home to find my Lit family waiting for me with open arms.

Thanks again.

Much love,
lucky

 

[minsue]

Tulips for Des & Lucky

http://www.tulips.com/flowers/100%20MixedTulips%20250x250.jpg

 

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Someone fucking spray painted the word dyke on my front door. I know who it was

Do you need me to sit outside and do a watch?, I'm not working so you can pay me cash, I have a baseball bat in case I need to break their legs and I know a lot of people here that will give me a watertight alibi...

Any way sweets, it's probably the only big word they know and besides you're not a dyke, you're hetro-challenged.

~A~body guard for hire

ps. I used to be a bouncer!

 

[minsue]

GOd I'm having a panic attack. I think of you guys as friends and femily yeah there's some realatives I'm not crazy about but they still make up part of the family. So heres a list of my conecerns.

What if The baby doesn't love me?

After what happened tonight I know people will judge her by who or maybe what I am. Can we handle that?

What's she going to call me Mommy or my given name ?

Oh lord.

Yes, there will be asses who will judge your daughter by who you are and who you love. I've no doubt in my mind, though, that you and Renza will raise your child with love and strength and that she will be better equipped than most to handle the bullshit that life throws her way. No parent is able to keep the world from hurting their child. I can't even imagine the heartbreak each time it happens. Not every parent loves their child as fully as you, though, and that makes a world of difference.

 

[cloudy]

GOd I'm having a panic attack. I think of you guys as friends and femily yeah there's some realatives I'm not crazy about but they still make up part of the family. So heres a list of my conecerns.
Panic is pretty normal, Des, for parents, I promise. All of us with kids have felt it at one time or another, if that helps any. Raising a child is a joy, but it's also a huge job. I think if you didn't have some apprehension, you wouldn't care as much as you obviously do.

What if The baby doesn't love me?
This child will literally think you hung the moon! Honest! There will be nothing broken you can't fix, no hurt you can't kiss and make better, and no place she'd rather be than with you and Renza. She will love you no matter what mood you're in, no matter how your day went, whatever. It's unconditional.

After what happened tonight I know people will judge her by who or maybe what I am. Can we handle that?
Yes, you can. You and Renza are strong, beautiful, intelligent women, and there's no doubt that this little one will be the same. People are always judged by idiots - for sexual orientation, for race, for lots of really silly things. You will know what to say when you have to say it, and a strong sense of identity, and knowing that you love her will give this baby everything she needs.

What's she going to call me Mommy or my given name ?
Probably "Mommy." Here in the south it's "Mama," but I agree with Lucky when she said how fortunate this baby is to have two "mommys." She will eventually devise her own method to differentiate between you and Renza, but I'm sure it will be something along those lines.

To me, it's a sign of just how much you already love this precious baby that you're worried about these things. It will be okay, I promise. You're starting a journey that will bring you more love than you've ever imagined.

 

[Lauren Hynde]

Fuck. Someone just 1'd my new illustrated poem twice.

 

[cloudy]

Fuck. Someone just 1'd my new illustrated poem twice.

Do you need the snerts, sweetie?

 

[Guest]

Bastards.

That goes for the coward(s) who spray painted Des's door, too.



Lou

 

[minsue]

Fuck. Someone just 1'd my new illustrated poem twice.

Well, you know it must have been Charley, Colly, or Eve. After all, they left comments on your poem.

 

[Lauren Hynde]

Lou

Lou! How cool, your new story is up! I must read.

Have you seen what we copycats did at the Poetry Forum?

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