It's puzzling. Scan the websites, personals, etc. All "dominated" by sub males. Weed out the professional dommes-- playacting for cash, and what do you have left? Many times, it seems, you have women who are "acting" dominant to increase their chances of attracting a guy. Then they "dominate" him by having him do exactly what he wants -- serving his submissive needs, if you will. Are there really any attractive dominant women who enjoy the control for it's own sake, who demand to be in charge at least in part for their own gratification rather than their submissive partner's? I'm beginning to doubt it. Are you "dominant" ladies merely sheep in wolf's clothing? I'm beginning to think so.