No strings cunnilingus

this is really hot to me... i've never done it before but i fantasize about it constantly!! :heart:

I'm sure there are many women that feel the same way that you do. Come on ladies stand up and raise your hand. Is this something that turns you on?

Have tongue will travel. lol
 
I wonder how many women have only experienced men who are reluctant to go down and therefore don't understand how many of us really love to?

Any thoughts anybody?
 
I wonder how many women have only experienced men who are reluctant to go down and therefore don't understand how many of us really love to?

Any thoughts anybody?

This is a good point. I'm betting there are tons of women who haven't run in to guys like us. I know I've met quite a few of them my self.
 
no one here is offering this service.
I love to eat pussy... would I do it without expectation of returning the favor???? Hmmmmmm

I might... but really it would be more fun to get as well as I give... <wink>

james
atlanta
 
I love to eat pussy... would I do it without expectation of returning the favor???? Hmmmmmm

I might... but really it would be more fun to get as well as I give... <wink>

james
atlanta

It's people like you that make people unsure about genuine givers who really don't require reciprocation.
 
You can count me as one of those who would love to DITY without reciprocation. I love to eat pussy, and unfortunatley don't get many chances to do it. Of course, nobody who would want to do that is out in my area :(
 
I wonder how many women have only experienced men who are reluctant to go down and therefore don't understand how many of us really love to?

Any thoughts anybody?

That might be part of it. But to be honest, I would think the reluctance might have more to do with questioning the "no strings" portion of this offer. A woman might wonder if a guy is offering this "service" only to then try to convince her to return the favor once he's done. A way to get his foot in the door, if you will. ;)

Also, to me safety and trust would be a big issue, just as it would be with any hookup of a sexual nature. Is he clean? Is he sane? Is he going to force himself on me in any way? Chop me up into little pieces? etc.

The fantasy is very erotic, though. Making it a reality is probably a bit tougher. Though there is a lady on here who successfully did this via Craigslist and recounted her experience, and it was so hot to read! Does make a girl want to go place an ad. :D
 
The thought is a major turn on, meeting someone randomly and having them lick you without wanting anything in return.
 
Where are the they?

How cum I only meet the enthusiastic pussy eater online? Where are the live tongues??? I WANT a talented tongue between my thighs.....aaaahhhhh
 
Actually, I'm not at all turned on by the thought of a guy who doesn't want reciprocation. Half the fun (hell, maybe more than half) is in giving pleasure, as well as receiving it. I'm not a selfish lover, and am turned off by the thought of a guy who would want me to be.
Just my opinion, of course. YMMV.
 
I understand what you're saying, heartoftexasgrl, but it depends on the angle that you're coming at it from. As much as you enjoy giving pleasure, I'm sure you can understand that sometimes it's fun to do ALL the giving. It can even be fun to stay dressed yourself while slowly undressing and pleasuring your partner.

For most, though, I think that this is largely a fantasy about sexual satisfaction with some of the risk - both emotional and physical - mitigated.

It might not sound like such a great deal for the guy but remember how visual we are and how strongly our egos are tied into our sexuality. In general, any day that we get to see and touch a woman, and ultimately bring her to orgasm, is a good day.
 
I can see why other women might be into the thought- I'm not saying that. But for me, it's not a turn-on.
I have no issue with the random hook-up aspect of it. Sometimes a one night stand is exactly what you need. But, my ego is tied pretty closely to my sexuality as well, and my ability to please my partner. (I've been accused on more than one occasion of thinking like a man.) I think in another way, sending a man away unsatisfied seems somewhat emasculating to me, which is just not something I'm into.
Like I said- just an opinion. :)
 
I can see why other women might be into the thought- I'm not saying that. But for me, it's not a turn-on.
I have no issue with the random hook-up aspect of it. Sometimes a one night stand is exactly what you need. But, my ego is tied pretty closely to my sexuality as well, and my ability to please my partner. (I've been accused on more than one occasion of thinking like a man.) I think in another way, sending a man away unsatisfied seems somewhat emasculating to me, which is just not something I'm into.
Like I said- just an opinion. :)

that surely is a manly idea
 
That might be part of it. But to be honest, I would think the reluctance might have more to do with questioning the "no strings" portion of this offer. A woman might wonder if a guy is offering this "service" only to then try to convince her to return the favor once he's done. A way to get his foot in the door, if you will. ;)

Also, to me safety and trust would be a big issue, just as it would be with any hookup of a sexual nature. Is he clean? Is he sane? Is he going to force himself on me in any way? Chop me up into little pieces? etc.

The fantasy is very erotic, though. Making it a reality is probably a bit tougher. Though there is a lady on here who successfully did this via Craigslist and recounted her experience, and it was so hot to read! Does make a girl want to go place an ad. :D

The thought is a major turn on, meeting someone randomly and having them lick you without wanting anything in return.

In the past (and continuing) I offer the No Obligation Orgasm. For me I think it is the satisfaction of a job well done. It's good karma too.

I do think I'd want to get to know my partner a little first, half the fun is in the planning, and yet, the anticipation . . .

I understand what you're saying, heartoftexasgrl, but it depends on the angle that you're coming at it from. As much as you enjoy giving pleasure, I'm sure you can understand that sometimes it's fun to do ALL the giving. It can even be fun to stay dressed yourself while slowly undressing and pleasuring your partner.

For most, though, I think that this is largely a fantasy about sexual satisfaction with some of the risk - both emotional and physical - mitigated.

It might not sound like such a great deal for the guy but remember how visual we are and how strongly our egos are tied into our sexuality. In general, any day that we get to see and touch a woman, and ultimately bring her to orgasm, is a good day.

Even in a relationship you can take turns. That can be fun, as can deferred gratification.
 
Taking turns is another animal altogether. My understanding of the OP was that we were discussing something completely unreciprocated.
 
I think some people are missing the point that the pleasure of the giver IS the act of giving pleasure. The giving of pleasure is the sexual reward. Sex doesn't have to be tit-for-tat. Every sexual act for our partner must be followed by the same exact act? How boring.

Sounds pretty hot to me!
 
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