No Strings Attached?

[NiggerSayWhat]

Ok, I have hardly kept it secret from anyone that I am "looking." What I am looking for seems more elusive that the mythical purple unicorn though. Simply put, I want no strings, no long-term relationship kinky fun. I don't want a dominant, I just want a competent top for certain BDSM activities. I am very clear about that when I talk to new people. With most, you would think that I killed their puppy when I say that I won't submit to them outside of the bedroom, and that I don't want anything more than a FRIEND outside of the bedroom. Why is this?? In "vanilla circles," N.S.A. fun is much more accepted.

What is it about kink that makes people so damn uptight about a one night stand????

Do ya want some nigga cock bitch? I'll tie yo ass up and share you with my homies

 

[Very_Bad_Man]

Do ya want some nigga cock bitch? I'll tie yo ass up and share you with my homies

I see your stupidity has branched off the GB. What's wrong bro everybody there have you on ignore?

 

[shadowheaven]

Do ya want some nigga cock bitch? I'll tie yo ass up and share you with my homies

Do you have anything else to say besides nigga and bitch?

 

[social_morality]

It appears that we have a troll in the vicinity.

 

[BiBunny]

I'm going to go all sterio type here and say women tend to be emotional creatures. While I haven't had much success in finding a man that can seperate sex from love, I've found women are even harder.

Of course, I was fucking her man each time I've had this happen. These were always open relationships, but still, the chick always seemed to get just a tad touchy. Usually it passed, but only after I stepped back a bit displaying what I had been saying all along: I'm not after your man, I just want to play with him a bit.

Oh, God, in my experience, I've found that men are WORSE than women, actually. The single ones all want someone to be their damn Mama.

 

[the captians wench]

Oh, God, in my experience, I've found that men are WORSE than women, actually. The single ones all want someone to be their damn Mama.

Well, in all fairness, I've only carried on any sort of relationship with unattached men (on this side of the pond) 3 or 4 times, or so.

Of those handful of times I've only had one that wanted more from me that what I was willing to offer, and he got all stalkerish crazy on me.

Of course, I don't actually date women, I have fooled around with a few SO's of the man I was in different stages of involvement with, and that's where I'm coming from, so I accept that it's likely a whole nother bag of worms for those that do.

I did actively seek out women for a short period. But that was mainly because the guy I was involved with had this idea of me building him a harrem. *shrug* Man was that whole ordeal a wrong turn!

 

[bone251]

NSA?
Well I have had a few. Discretion requires NSA.
However I have several of those relationships that have short strings attached that don't connect to our real life's.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Do ya want some nigga cock bitch? I'll tie yo ass up and share you with my homies

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[cfuhrer]

My thought process goes along the lines of "since bdsm requires so much trust (on both parts), maybe its just hard for someone to connect one night stand and bdsm?

What she said. *nods*

 

[intothewoods]

I see what you mean, Hotie Mama! I'm still at University and it seems as though every next man I meet wants to hook up (go figure right?) and yet all they want is some cheap, vanilla sex...I say I like it "rough" and they think I mean "just pound me for 10 minutes and I'll come, you'll come and we'll all be happy"....NOT! One Nights are certainly more sought after and acceptable in the mainstream culture.

That's not limited to vanilla sex or partners.

My thought process goes along the lines of "since bdsm requires so much trust (on both parts), maybe its just hard for someone to connect one night stand and bdsm?

Eh, BDSM requires varying levels of trust, depending on what you're doing, but it's not necessarily connected with deep love and romance. Particularly if we're talking bondage and the more physical aspects of BDSM. People play with others in all sorts of arrangements. It's just a matter of connecting with the right person. I think online relationships tend to be more about romantic, long term connections, but there are plenty of real life groups that bring together people for sex and play.

 

[rida]

The problem with NSA between single pople, I think is that, if it is really good for either party, than that party might want it to become more. The party that does not want to is usually the one that find the NSA interaction all right, but not earth-shattering.

So yeah, happily married people usually can be the best candidate for longer term NSA.