No more Mr. Nice Guy!!!

[His Whimsicality]

Finally had enough of my old me, time for a change. I finally conclude that my problem with women have resulted from being too nice (in the sense of boring, probably).

I think I had a key occurence that day: two young and attractive ladies quite some years younger than I had been sitting near the bus exit. I had to get off the bus, so I pressed one of the numerous buttons, went to the doors and stood right in front of the two girls. From the corner of my eyes I could feel them watching me (they simply had to look straight ahead as I had stepped into their view).

Normally, I´d have gone out of the bus without a second glance, but this time I didn´t give a shit for what they were thinking and simply looked the more attractive one squarely into the eyes. That wont seem much to many of you, I know, but this 'don´t give a shit' is what I´ve been missing, I always put females sorta on a mental podestal because my desire was so great - but that´s gonna end, has ended.

 

[bluntforcemama]

Good for you, you sound as disillusioned as I feel at this moment! I could say the same thing about men, and how they treat nice women. I'm tired of being nice to people who don't deserve it!

 

[LordMagicMan]

*sigh, pouty lip*

 

[His Whimsicality]

Good for you, you sound as disillusioned as I feel at this moment! I could say the same thing about men, and how they treat nice women. I'm tired of being nice to people who don't deserve it!

Yes, you´re right. My former me always paid too much respect to women (not that respect is a bad thing), and I continued to disappoint myself through my high expectations. Now my respect range towards solo-ladies will be like equal-to-inferior.

 

[Starfish]

Sweetie, Don't turn bitter. Be assertive, but don't ditch respect just because you are upset. (which I understand, and am sorry you have to go through). I like the 'new' you, just don't ever loose sight of being loving, and goodhearted.

Hey, I wasn't going to say this but.....
I would honestly fuck you the minute I got my hands on you, whether you looked me square in the eyes or not. But then again I love alienating/shocking shy men.

*thinks of His Whimsicality, and melts"

 

[GuyJD]

More power to you and thanks for calling me Nice..........LOL

 

[His Whimsicality]

Sweetie, Don't turn bitter. Be assertive, but don't ditch respect just because you are upset. (which I understand, and am sorry you have to go through). I like the 'new' you, just don't ever loose sight of being loving, and goodhearted.

Hey, I don´t want to turn from nice to mean, but rather from too nice to normal. Thanks for the compliments, you´re a rather good-looking redhead and if I could lay my hands on you... could be fun.