No lecture needed...I do need some opinions

[PacificBlue]

Let's see...how to start...

I was messing around with a guy. Things got hot and heavy. Blah, blah, blah. Fast forward...he penetrated me before we got a condom on him. We stopped almost immediately. He did not ejaculate and although I didn't have a stopwatch on me, I'm going to "guesstimate" 30-40 seconds at the maximum.

I have heard that you can get pregnant with just precum. True? False?

Do I have reason to be concerned?

 

[Rubyfruit]

Yes, you can get pregnant with pre-come, but it's unlikely.

What day were you on in your cycle, PB?

 

[penguindance]

 

[Guest]

There is a possibility for sperm to be present in in precum.

Do you have to be concerned? Well, monitor when you get your period.

 

[estevie]

While its possible, Blue, I think its unlikely. Get an early pregnancy test or go see your doc.

Good Luck!

 

[PacificBlue]

Yes, you can get pregnant with pre-come, but it's unlikely.

What day were you on in your cycle, PB?

My last period ended on December 29th. It didn't seem like he had a lot of precum but it is so hard to tell at that point.

 

[The Heretic]

I have heard that you can get pregnant with just precum. True? False?

True, but not as likely as with cum from an orgasm.

Do I have reason to be concerned?

Yes, but don't panic.

BTW, congrats on "messing around" - just be more careful next time.

 

[Mischka]

I was messing around with a guy. Things got hot and heavy. Blah, blah, blah. Fast forward...he penetrated me before we got a condom on him.

OK, enough with the sound advice. Is there more penetration in your future?

 

[lickerish]

Hate to scare you honey, but a woman can get pregnant even when she's wearing panties and the guy's been rubbing it (while dripping with precum) on her over them.

Scary stuff indeed.

 

[penguindance]

 

[PacificBlue]

OK, enough with the sound advice. Is there more penetration in your future?

*blush* Ummm... yes. BUT, we both agreed today that last night got out of errr, umm... out of hand and it wouldn't happen again until I was on the pill and we had condoms readily available.

Last night was soooo unplanned...he was walking out the door when he grabbed me, kissed me so hard it took my breath away, and then blah, blah, blah. I'm sure you don't need anymore details.

 

[Killswitch]

I dont want to scare you either but I know a girl that got pregnant just because she washed her panties in the same load with her guys underwear......Its not safe!

 

[Killswitch]

*blush* Ummm, I'm sure you don't need anymore details.

Im pretty sure we do........

 

[fingers_larue]

my experience is from true life lived...YES you can get preggers from pre-cum But now you will be much more creative in the future and that will make you into a better lover, Once the guy is into you the race is about 2/3 over, take your time getting to the finish line.....smile

 

[morninggirl5]

PB, the important date to consider is when did your last period START, that's day 1 and you're most fertile between days 12-18 (wide range to be very, very safe).


Congrtulations on finding a potential keeper! (He is a potential keeper, right?)

 

[morninggirl5]

I dont want to scare you either but I know a girl that got pregnant just because she washed her panties in the same load with her guys underwear......Its not safe!

She used cold water, right????


Damn, i wish my parents were that gullible.

 

[Mischka]

Last night was soooo unplanned...he was walking out the door when he grabbed me, kissed me so hard it took my breath away, and then blah, blah, blah. I'm sure you don't need anymore details.

We'd be happy with any details you wish to provide, but it's more important that you're happy. And with that night, I bet you are. Wow - I bet it was a toe tingler!

 

[BlueDaisy]

Just be careful...there are plenty of "birth control pill" kids around. My 9 year old son is one of them.

Blue

 

[lickerish]

Are you speaking from experience?

No.

 

[FunJohnny]

yep yep

*blush* Ummm... yes. BUT, we both agreed today that last night got out of errr, umm... out of hand and it wouldn't happen again until I was on the pill and we had condoms readily available.

Last night was soooo unplanned...he was walking out the door when he grabbed me, kissed me so hard it took my breath away, and then blah, blah, blah. I'm sure you don't need anymore details.

Need them? No.

Want them? Most definitely.

I agree with all that has been said above. It's possible, but not likely. You are wise to abstain until you have condoms available and are on the pill. If you can hold to that and resist the temptation, I respect that. If it's going to be longer than expected, don't worry... there ARE other things you can do with each other in the meantime. Why else were we given tongues... ?? ;-Þ~

By the way... let us not forget that condoms help to prevent more than just pregnancy. Naturally, the possible spread of STD's is not a pleasant thought, but it IS a reality.

(okay... this turned into a lecture and you didn't ask for one... I apologize - that is not how I intended - honest!)

Happy Sexing, PacificBlue!

FJ

 

[penguindance]

 

[penguindance]

 

[PacificBlue]

End of story...

I have 72 hours to take emergency contraception, if needed. I have a message in with my Dr. to make a recommendation.

Yes, yes...I know about STDs and condom use being important. We've also had "the talk" and been tested.

 

[PacificBlue]

Closing the loop.

I'm sure you all give a flying rip too...

Talked to the Dr. today. Better to take the emergency birth control than be sorry later and have to make a harder decision. I'm all hyped up on progesterone.

Geez...sex is difficult.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

LOL>...great line!!!

Just be careful...there are plenty of "birth control pill" kids around. My 9 year old son is one of them.

Blue

Very funny (even if true)....however, I am willing to help get a sitter to help you out...because I am SUCH a nice guy...lol...wanna date?