No cum?

[sissinabra]

Is the lack of a big sticky load during sex a problem for most partners?
Due to prostate surgery I have retrograde ejaculation. Lack of liquid leaving the penis at climax.
I still feel the cum and my partner feels the throb of my dick inside them.
My wife says she does miss the feeling of liquid but not the taste during oral.

I am in the exact situation . Thanks for letting me know I am not alone .

 

[1960curious]

My prostate cancer surgery is next month, I will definitely miss shooting cum.
My wife will probably be ok with out the mess.
I have orgasms now with out cumming, so hopefully they still happen.

 

[womaneater58]

I don't miss the cum very often except when receiving oral. I use to love watching a woman take my cum in her mouth or catching it on her tits but, I do find it convenient that I can now masturbate in my shorts through the pockets when I see a sexy woman and not have the wet spot visible.

 

[sissinabra]

I loved masterbation . I cannot achieve areal erection or ejaculation as I knew .

 

[1960curious]

Well I had my prostate removed and now have ED. My cock is starting to get hard again, but when I masterbate and have a orgasm, its weird cuz there is no cum that shoots out of my cock anymore.

 

[rc1989]

Two years I sucked a guy in his truck on 2 occasions and he couldn't cum but got hard and really enjoyed just getting his cock sucked and he had a nice veiny cock. He jacked me off after each time.

 

[herrdrier]

Well I had my prostate removed and now have ED. My cock is starting to get hard again, but when I masterbate and have a orgasm, its weird cuz there is no cum that shoots out of my cock anymore.

Hang in there, I had mine removed 4 years ago. It took several months before I could get a usable erection. 5mg of Tadalafil, (from MenMd). The troche worked well when the pill didn't. Now the pill does fine.
I too miss ejaculating but I do have some pre-cum. Last night I passed some thick sticky fluid during oral sex. No complaints about the taste although I was terrified that it was urine at first. I feel that my orgasms are more intense now.

 

[Phatfeet]

For me, I like older men, so as I age, those I am with have aged as well so I understand not every time is going to be textbook-ideal.

That being said, not being able to cum would bother me a little bit. I like cum, so to swallow him down is a sense of pride for me, something I do that maybe a woman in his life did not, and goodness knows me it’s the ultimate in proof that he really liked my oral or anal skills.

But I am not so shallow that to not be able to do so would stop me from continuing. I would hope the man would not just get up and leave after I was done, but really take the time to assert that he liked what I did. I would at least hope he reassured me that what I did for him was still really, really pleasurable. As long as I got that, I would continue to have sex with him. Sex is so much more than just being about cum. I am not that shallow.