Newly found desires?

Art H.

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All my life I've been the "nice guy", but ever since I met my slut, I've had thoughts that I've never experienced. I want to degrade, humiliate, collar and leash this woman among other things...

Are such changes in desires seen as 'normal?'
 
All my life I've been the "nice guy", but ever since I met my slut, I've had thoughts that I've never experienced. I want to degrade, humiliate, collar and leash this woman among other things...

Are such changes in desires seen as 'normal?'

Depends on who you ask. :p

It's totally normal here. It's not so normal in the 'nilla world. But you don't care what those folks think, do you? ;)
 
Fine..I'll be the voice of reason. *sighs*

Depends.

Have these feelings always been there, just dormant? Do you have any history of anger or resentment towards women or is this newfound interest pure and positive towards pleasing another and meeting their desires as well as meeting your own?

Or is it all about degredation, subjugation and misery for the other and happiness for you asd a result?

Eitherway...so long as your partner is happy consenting....so long as you establish safe words and limits and then respect them...then by all means knock youself out.

Welcome to the club.
 
Depends.

Have these feelings always been there, just dormant? Do you have any history of anger or resentment towards women or is this newfound interest pure and positive towards pleasing another and meeting their desires as well as meeting your own?

Or is it all about degredation, subjugation and misery for the other and happiness for you asd a result?

Eitherway...so long as your partner is happy consenting....so long as you establish safe words and limits and then respect them...then by all means knock youself out.

Welcome to the club.

I can assure you it is pure and pleasing with no desire to truly hurt anyone
 
Then definitely keep us posted. Maybe you can add a little sadistic element to lit.
 
All my life I've been the "nice guy", but ever since I met my slut, I've had thoughts that I've never experienced. I want to degrade, humiliate, collar and leash this woman among other things...

Are such changes in desires seen as 'normal?'

Sounds pretty normal to me.

But then again, I'm a sadistic, evil, twisted, perverted kinda guy... :devil:
 
I have also been the “nice guy”. A bit off topic, but related, you might want to read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Glover.

As I started reading about D/s I found that I also had an interest in doing things to others which would have repulsed me before. I would love to tell you that you are normal, but I honestly do not know what 'normal' is anymore. And frankly, I am not convinced I care.
 
Personally I don't think I'd know normal if it came up and bit me in the face. But that's me...
 
All my life I've been the "nice guy", but ever since I met my slut, I've had thoughts that I've never experienced. I want to degrade, humiliate, collar and leash this woman among other things...

Are such changes in desires seen as 'normal?'
I could easily say the same thing lol. All my life I've been the "good girl" but since I get to know my curent Sir I am spoiled. I want to be degraded, humiliated, treated as his slut and all that.

What have you done to me Sir?!?? :eek: ( :D )

:heart::kiss:
 
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