New to toys- suggestions?

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In my 20+ years of marriage, we never used toys. I feel silly going into an adult store by myself knowing nothing. So, I’m going to shop online. I’m looking for reputable sites to shop from and toy suggestions.

Thanks!
 
In my 20+ years of marriage, we never used toys. I feel silly going into an adult store by myself knowing nothing. So, I’m going to shop online. I’m looking for reputable sites to shop from and toy suggestions.

Thanks!
You must have an idea what you fancy trying?

Something big, something to make you tingle, something for your bottom, maam :devil:?
 
You must have an idea what you fancy trying?

Something big, something to make you tingle, something for your bottom, maam :devil:?

My marriage was quite vanilla. My ex was never able to bring me to orgasm. I relied on fingers and pillows to get off. So, no, I don’t know what I want. All I know is that I want to explore. I want to feel good.
 
In my 20+ years of marriage, we never used toys. I feel silly going into an adult store by myself knowing nothing. So, I’m going to shop online. I’m looking for reputable sites to shop from and toy suggestions.

Thanks!

My trifecta is a medium sized butt plug (smaller if you haven't tried before), a nice quiet vibrating wand, and a dildo with a suction cup.
 
My marriage was quite vanilla. My ex was never able to bring me to orgasm. I relied on fingers and pillows to get off. So, no, I don’t know what I want. All I know is that I want to explore. I want to feel good.
We've used Lovehoney in the past, look for a beginners kit and experiment. To feel really good try a vibrator in your pussy and a bullet vibrator.

Ideally just keep treating yourself to a new toy every few weeks until you find whatever really turns you on the most :D
 
We go to adult stores mostly when we’re on vacation. The ladies are very knowledgeable and super helpful. Not saying you have to go on vacation to go in just that they are nice & extremely helpful.
 
It just depends what you like! Clitoral stimulation, vaginal stimulation, anal, an assortment? It just all depends on what feels good for you. A hitachi wand is string, but is non insertable, and it will stimulate the whole vulva area. A good life like dildo is great for someone who wants to simulate a good fuck, a rabbit type will both fill you and stimulate your clit. Dont buy cheap. Its well worth the money if the toy consistantly gets you to the point of no return with as little effort as possible. We shop Amazon. Quick easy and discreet. We also have over 200 dildos, vibes and plugs! We just love our toys, and our Orgasms! :)
 
my wife lusts for her magic wand each week, she needs it, she would like something more powerful and not as heavy, anything out there?
 
If you play with anyone online, a Lovense toy they can control is lots of fun. Also, a womanizer is a powerful little clit sucker. Cheaper knock offs are out there and I’ve heard good things about them.
~SB
 
If you never had a toy before,you have to go for a Hitachi wand,, you can buy them from lovehoney,even amazon or ebay.They are the best toy out there and with multi speeds you can go from a pleasant feeling to seeing stars. I use mine everyday,they are the ones to go for
 
My suggestion is try a few different less expensive ones first. I like something on my clitoris and use a bullet toy mostly when I am alone. Others include ones that go inside if that is best for you. Some people like a rabbit - both inside and clit, but that doesn't do a lot for me. With a man a small butt plug is good if you like that. A girlfriend loves nipple clamps but again not really for me.

So - experiment. Then get a really good version of your favourite.
 
It's good that you made up your mind. Toys help you discover your body, find out what you like best. I recommend that you start with a vibro wand. It's easy to use and helps you get more pleasure alone or with a partner. It's small, so it's easy to keep in your purse and take with you when you travel. Believe me, you will be satisfied.*
 
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