New Shower massager

[liz3030]

Hurray, I am finally going to have my own shower massager.

our showerhead hasn't worked too well and my husband purchased one of those hand held attachments. He plans on installing it this weekend.

While I will primarily use it for showering. I do have some other activities that I have wanted to use since I was 12 (and that was a long time ago)

so for those gals who regularly masturbate with one of these, what is the best way to get off?

Do I spray directly onto my clit? Do I change the setting to pulsating or leave as is?

What works best? How about water temp?

I cannot wait to try

 

[EJFan]

not a woman... not even a pre-op... but anyway...

play. experiment. see what YOU enjoy best. (and take/submit pictures if you're so inclined )

 

[Eilan]

I have to admit that I've never done this, but I've gotta figure that it's like masturbating in general. You do what feels good to you; you might not like what other ladies do, and vice versa.

Experiment and have fun with it!

 

[LadyJeanne]

...what is the best way to get off?

Do I spray directly onto my clit? Do I change the setting to pulsating or leave as is?

What works best? How about water temp?

Yes.




Try it all. That's part of the fun.

 

[bisexplicit]

Wait, no one else has heard about how this can potentially damage nerve endings and decrease sensation?

I mean, if its a myth, I don't want to freak you out...but...I've heard that direct stimulation like that can be harmful.

 

[EJFan]

Wait, no one else has heard about how this can potentially damage nerve endings and decrease sensation?

I mean, if its a myth, I don't want to freak you out...but...I've heard that direct stimulation like that can be harmful.

it's a new one on me bi... but that doesn't mean much. i can neither confirm nor deny.

 

[Quoll]

Wait, no one else has heard about how this can potentially damage nerve endings and decrease sensation?

I mean, if its a myth, I don't want to freak you out...but...I've heard that direct stimulation like that can be harmful.

I did a bit of searching and really couldn't come up with many negatives except for "Dr Lin" who coincidentally just happens to sell a product that helps revitalise your nerve endings.
The main cautions were against very hard pressure and squirting water into your vagina. I guess just like using super strong vibes on your clit you could possibly desensitise yourself for awhile.

Nice av btw.

 

[boston_bbw]

umm.. expect to need to urinate a little more frequently after.. thats my only complaint.

 

[INeedLove]

Welcome to the world of water orgasm!!

Shower head massagers are great. I recommend you have a place to lean or sit when you use it the first time. For me, the pleasure can be so intense that I need to lean or sit to recover.

I don't use mine often-I don't want to desensitize myself (I heard the same thing Bi). I save the shower for when I really need an intense orgasm.

I set mine to a directed spray. Keep the heat down-the hot water can dry out the sensitive skin in that area. Also, be sure you have plenty of hot water in the tank-it stinks to be close to cumming and then the hot water runs out!! I don't put continual spray on my clit rather I make circles occasionally grazing the clit. As several others have mentioned, you'll need to experiment to find what you like.

I hope you enjoy it tremendously! Maybe your hubbie will join you in the fun! Best wishes!!