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[Cranberry_cola]

Hi, i'm a girl who enjoys masturbating. (FYI, i am virgin and have no boyfriend). I usually find release by clitorial stimulation (i hope i got the right term there

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As i was saying, i want to learn on how to improve my sessions. Ok, you guys may laugh but I once tried to insert a banana in myself but was afraid of the penetration, since i don't want to break my cherry just yet (it is possible to break it that way?)
And oh, another question. Since I'm used to having orgasms by clitoral stimulation, will i have problems when i experience penetration in the future?
Thanks a bunch.

[This message has been edited by cranberry_cola (edited 03-19-2000).]

 

[Golden]

the fact you masturbate to orgasm with clitoral stimulation will make no difference to your enjoyment of penetrative sex once you lose your virginity; fact is the vast majority of women only reach orgasm with clitoral stimulation ... that said, this could be direct or indirect - often the act of rubbing the pubic bone against your guy will be enough to stimulate the clit because it pulls the lips and hood back and forth over it; or you may want to work a position e.g. with you kneeling on top where you can directly stimulate the clit against his body, or you may need a finger on your clit during intercourse - Mrs Golden is partial to both of these...

Main thing to note is - the more you masturbate and truly explore your own sexuality before getting it on with guys, the better you will be able to enjoy partner sex - you'll know what you want him to do and you'll hopefully feel comfident to tell/show him! Every body is different... unlike in hollywood versions, good sex comes with practice and communication... which is one of the fun things about all this!

Now how to improve your sessions? Well I'm probably the wrong person to ask, not having a vagina and clit... so expect the girls on this BB to let you know... but while preserving your "cherry" i.e. the hymen which is the membrane which forms a barrier to full insertion of a penis or a banana ... you can still stimulate around the lips and entrance to the vagina with fingers, or dildo or soft items ... and don't forget to explore your anus with a lubed finger or two. Also read the HOW TO thread on sex toys started by Armygirl.

oh and hey, welcome to the Board!!

[This message has been edited by golden (edited 03-16-2000).]

 

[Cranberry_cola]

Thank you for responding to me, Golden. Really appreciate it...however, there is a wee bit problem with the toys -they are not easily available here. That's where the banana idea came in.

p/s: Say hello to the Mrs. from me!

 

[Whispersecret]

Cranberry, I ONLY masturbate with clitoral stimulation. I don't own any toys and bananas have that hard knobby part on the ends! I don't blame you for abandoning the fruit. (A nice English hothouse cucumber might be better, but I've never tried that either.) When I was younger I would rub my clit through my silky underwear, which offered a nice smooth surface. I still do it that way sometimes, but if my pussy is really really wet, I'll ditch the panties and touch my clit directly.

I agree with Golden that the more you explore your own sexuality the better you will be able to enjoy it when you finally find that special person. And PLEASE do make sure it's someone special who knows what they're doing. Don't do what I did and let some yutz teenager do it. Let the man know that it's your first time. If he's a nice guy, he'll try all the harder to make it nice.

 

[Guest]

hey, everyones gotta start somewhere. looking down at inexperience will make people afraid to try at all

 

[Gus]

I use the babana (on her

) peeled its much nicer and tasty. Same with the English cuecumber, it is very cool and slippy.
As for -cola's cherry, use the slim banana but don't push it. Some hymans are wide.

Whilst I'm here, what does "razz - stick out tongue" mean to you people? Is it rude?

[This message has been edited by Gus (edited 04-02-2000).]

 

[Weird Harold]

Originally posted by Gus:
Whilst I'm here, what does "razz - stick out tongue" mean to you people? Is it rude?

It's also known as a 'raspberry' If I remember correctly, it's was shortened from "Chicago Raspbery"

It's sticking out your tongue and making a rude noise. Depending on the context it can be rude, but mostly it's a childish kind of gesture.

 

[Firesprite]

Speaking as one virgin to another, I have read that bicycle riding, horse riding and other activites like this can break your hymen. I decided to find out one day, as I too enjoy masturbation, and lo and behold, the article was correct.. I must say I was a little dissapointed, but it has opened a whole new realm for me.. I now have vibrators, and have experimented with cucmbers.. I wouldn't try a banana myself because of the hard bit, and with the skin off I would be too afraid of it squashing inside me.. what a mess. I have found cucumbers are quite a bit bigger than my vibrators, so if your going to try them, I'd suggest to go easy..
but.. the moral of the story is... Are you sure you still have a cherry??

 

[MADDOG]

Try using a corn cob. The nodules apparently feel awesome. (I don't have a vagina, but I have it on good authority!)

MADDOG

 

[Renee]

MADDOG damn it!! I told you not give my secrets out!

Now this summer I will see a shortage in corn cobs and what am I to do then

 

[Cranberry_cola]

Well, the corn idea is something I haven't thought of...though Renee doesn't have to worry. There's plenty from where I come from...all year round supply..

I must apologise for not posting for quite some time already. Truth is I'm quite occupied nowadays.
As to your question firesprite, I am quite certain that my cherry has yet to be "plucked". Besides not having any intercourse before, I have never experienced penetration. Although I was an active fencer and other sports, I think the cherry is still intact.

And oh, what is the definition of a VIRGIN? Does it mean that once you lose your hymen, you're not a virgin any longer? Even if you haven't had any sexual intercourse? Oh heck, now I'm even more confused.
BTW whisper, golden and the rest of the people who have responded, thank ewe very much!!


[This message has been edited by cranberry_cola (edited 04-05-2000).]

 

[Guest]

A good curved banana hits my g-spot just the way I like it. A condom over it takes care of the rough spot nicely.

As far as hymens and virginity are concerned, I think it is up to the individual to decide when she is no longer a virgin. Think about it, is a lesbian with a hot sex life still a virgin if she's never been penetrated?

Cranberry, you own YOUR sexuality.

 

[Cranberry_cola]

Hello everyone!
I think I just reached that 'new height'.
I came across a promotion for arm massagers at a mall. It's a small gadget that vibrates. Works to soothe those stressed muscles. I swear that I never thought of anything but a nice massage for my back until I got home and a sheepish idea came to my mind.... Basically it's a vibrator. The great thing is that it has 4 types of massage heads. So I think you guys know what happened shortly after that fateful day.

smooches - cran

 

[Thephantomprincess]

YAY! Someone else who realized what I've been saying all along! PLain old muscle massagers make the best vibrators. They are cheaper, and come with a reputable repair policy! And you don't have to risk ordering online or going to a sleazy store to buy them! Go Brookstones! Just be careful about the ones that plug into the wall. I am an addict, and I never have to change the batteries. It packs a powerful punch!

 

[Megumi]

I love massagers too. But my all-time favorite is a good moveable showerhead with adjustable streams. The first time I tried this I had the most amazing orgasms. If you don't have one of these, positioning yourself under the tub faucet works just fine too....although people will think you're odd if they catch you!