New guy wanting help

[Fresh_Blood]

Okay so here is how it is... My wife and I are wanting to explore things to help better our sex life. I don't know if this would be the right group or anything but I need help. I am wanting to become a Dom for her and she wants me to. She wants to explore her submissive side and I want to explore my dominate side. If anyone at all could talk to me and help me answer some questions it would be much appreciated. I have many questions about the lifestyle and what to do and what not to do and where to start. Training may be very helpful too. I am willing to do anything to see this through for the both of us. I want to be the best that I can be for her. She is the love of my life and I want to make her happy and satisfy her in the way she wants. Thanks.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

How does she want to submit? Does she want pain, does she want to serve, does she want bondage and the same for you as a Dom, what do you want from it. If you both get an idea of what it is you are looking for it gives a better jumping off point in asking for help.
Both areas are so broad. But keep asking questions and read the older threads, there are lots of similar inquiries over the years

 

[Loverskitten]

I'm just going to guess here, she probably wants some rough sex every now and then.

Take charge, push her against a wall, yank her shirt up, kiss her deeply, growl that you "need her now", and take her. Women need this from time to time.

 

[Stella_Omega]

You have to ask a question, before anyone acn answer it for you.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

You have to ask a question, before anyone acn answer it for you.

It would help if you didn't fill up the front page of the forum with three different threads essentially asking the same question in very similar ways. People who frequent this forum read *all* the serious threads and, if they have something to contribute, do so to the best of their ability.

I think the mods would be well served to combine these three threads into one so you don't get confused as to which one (or more) has actually provided you with information you can use.