Introducing myself
I found Literotica years ago, and I have enjoyed many stories involving BDSM. I only recently became a member here and created a profile. I jumped into the BDSM forum and posted a few comments before finding this section devoted to introductions. Here is a brief description of my experiences with BDSM.
At age 13 I saw my first image of a lady bound and gagged. I was in a bookstore, and it was a paperback book cover of a clothed woman with hands and feet tied, a cleave gag in her mouth, and ropes tied across her buxom chest. I remember immediately feeling a naughty guilty thrill, and my masturbatory fantasies featured tied and gagged women from then on. Three years later I found a discarded April 1978 issue of Hustler magazine that included two articles about bondage and BDSM. This was a revelation because I realized I was not alone in my fascination with gagging and tying women for sexual pleasure. It cemented my sexual preference for bondage, and I still have that magazine.
After I turned 18, I went to adult bookstores and bought bondage magazines that expanded my knowledge of bondage positions, different types of gags, and introduced me to the wonders of crotch ropes. I preferred the bondage magazines that emphasized bondage and discipline (B&D). In those days before the internet, I discovered a phone sex service and began to explore my bondage fantasies with real women. As I told them what to do and how I wanted them to be tied, I became comfortable with giving instructions, administering discipline, and being in command.
When the internet arrived it vastly expanded my ability to explore the world of BDSM. Dominance and submission caught my attention, and I was attracted to the concepts of safe, sane and consensual D/s. I engaged in cyber BDSM play. I identify as a scene/bedroom Dom, and I like strong intelligent women who freely choose to be my sexual submissive and enjoy being bound and gagged. I have been fortunate to share D/s bondage experiences with five such women over time.
I recognize and respect that everyone has their own beliefs, preferences and opinions. I intend that my forum posts and comments will reflect that spirit of live and let live. I look forward to sharing ideas and experiences.
I found Literotica years ago, and I have enjoyed many stories involving BDSM. I only recently became a member here and created a profile. I jumped into the BDSM forum and posted a few comments before finding this section devoted to introductions. Here is a brief description of my experiences with BDSM.
At age 13 I saw my first image of a lady bound and gagged. I was in a bookstore, and it was a paperback book cover of a clothed woman with hands and feet tied, a cleave gag in her mouth, and ropes tied across her buxom chest. I remember immediately feeling a naughty guilty thrill, and my masturbatory fantasies featured tied and gagged women from then on. Three years later I found a discarded April 1978 issue of Hustler magazine that included two articles about bondage and BDSM. This was a revelation because I realized I was not alone in my fascination with gagging and tying women for sexual pleasure. It cemented my sexual preference for bondage, and I still have that magazine.
After I turned 18, I went to adult bookstores and bought bondage magazines that expanded my knowledge of bondage positions, different types of gags, and introduced me to the wonders of crotch ropes. I preferred the bondage magazines that emphasized bondage and discipline (B&D). In those days before the internet, I discovered a phone sex service and began to explore my bondage fantasies with real women. As I told them what to do and how I wanted them to be tied, I became comfortable with giving instructions, administering discipline, and being in command.
When the internet arrived it vastly expanded my ability to explore the world of BDSM. Dominance and submission caught my attention, and I was attracted to the concepts of safe, sane and consensual D/s. I engaged in cyber BDSM play. I identify as a scene/bedroom Dom, and I like strong intelligent women who freely choose to be my sexual submissive and enjoy being bound and gagged. I have been fortunate to share D/s bondage experiences with five such women over time.
I recognize and respect that everyone has their own beliefs, preferences and opinions. I intend that my forum posts and comments will reflect that spirit of live and let live. I look forward to sharing ideas and experiences.