New Dom - Any tips? Please keep it respectful and classy

[OleSarge]

Hi all,

MY dirty girl and I are starting to experiment with rope bondage. She loves submitting to my wishes and pleasing me. It is truly amazing and I never thought it could feel so caring to dominate someone else but it is.
I used to think it would feel like I would be using her... but it is wonderful knowing she couldn't be any happier than when she is pleasing me. She is mine and I am hers.

I am looking for any help in finding ways I can tie her up. We like breast bondage and want to explore that more.

Please send any advice you might have and also on long distance D/s relationships.

Thanks!!!

 

[catalina_francisco]

If you do search, you will find plenty of threads here.


Catalina

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Try "thumbing" through the BDSM Library. While it may not be as organized as the Librarian hopes to have it before too long, there is a wealth of information available there.

 

[shy slave]

Colour me suspicious.

The OP has six posts in past month, one here, one in am pics, four in lit personals.

Either a HNG or a left handed typist....

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Colour me suspicious.

The OP has six posts in past month, one here, one in am pics, four in lit personals.

Either a HNG or a left handed typist....

That's pretty much why I suggested he do his own research in the Library, rather than asking folks here to provide his wank material.

 

[shy slave]

Re: He

That's pretty much why I suggested he do his own research in the Library, rather than asking folks here to provide his wank material.

Makes sense

 

[OleSarge]

I'd like to "thank" those that posted such helpful information. I did thumb thru and did a few searches but didn't find what she and I are looking for. I was hoping to get some help on how to route the ropes. I can figure out the safety don'ts. I've never tried this and frankly never been turned on by it until she came into my life.

Thankfully, I don't need "sank material". She provides me with enough of that. She is an amazing woman and makes me feel like shouting it from the tallest building.

Sorry if this offends but yes, I'm new and have few posts but look at when I joined. I stated I was new.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

.... I was hoping to get some help on how to route the ropes.

You might look into the following threads in the Café:

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=701563
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=609646
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=543827

You can do a search for threads containing the word "Rope," and find more. Some of the few I listed above have links to other threads and/or sites with more information. You could also Google or Bing for Shibari.

Thankfully, I don't need "sank material". She provides me with enough of that. She is an amazing woman and makes me feel like shouting it from the tallest building.

Sorry if this offends but yes, I'm new and have few posts but look at when I joined. I stated I was new.

Sorry if you were offended by some of the responses you got here, including mine, but we've suffered quite a few folks coming in here seeking wank material, or who come in and want those who have spent years learning about WIITWD to share their knowledge in a few sentences, rather than making any real effort to learn on their own. This has led to some of us tending to be a bit suspicious when a recent member with few posts pops up with complex questions or requesting "stories" or "experiences."

 

[Etoile]

Yeah, I'd say getting a book on the subject would be better than asking on a discussion board. It's hard to describe rope ties in text. A book would have lots of nice pictures for inspiration! Or check out websites like http://www.rope-bondage.com/ that have lots of pictures, see where that leads your imagination.

 

[fettpett1]

http://www.tootimid.com/Beginners-Guide-To-Bondage_b_130.html

I found this article on it, might help as well, my wife and I are getting into the whole BDSM thing (me being the Dom and her the Sub) and this looks like another helpful sight

 

[DVS]

Hey, don't forget this one! Homburg's Ropework