New Beginnings

Okay so who wants to give me boy advice? Because apparently I don't understand the male species as well as I thought I did...

So I've had a hard core crush on this guy at work, but I haven't been my usual aggressive self with him. I've slowly started talking and flirting, waiting to see what he would do. And he started stepping to me a bit flirty...I added him on Facebook about a month ago, but in the last few days he's been all up my grill on my page.

This is a conversation between myself and two work associates...Nathan is the one I like. And he did bring me a cupcake...and he came in 4 hours before his shift to give it to me. I've been contemplating asking him out...but I'm not 100% that it's mutual. Yeah I kinda told him I needed a cupcake, but he didn't have to do it.

DUDES...you wouldn't do that for just anyone right? Should I step up and ask him out, or wait it out and see what happens????????? He makes me nervous, which for me is a good thing because only guys I REALLY like make me nervous, otherwise I sort of railroad the situation and am a cocky little bitch. LOL.

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I wish you the best.

1) a guy does not come into work 4 hours early to make a modest, token gift if he is not interested.
2) a cup cake is small, but significant gift. If yo relatioship does not work out, the cup cake was a modest gift and easily explain as just a "nice thing" to do for someone at work.
3) Invite him for a drink after work at a local "hangout". Someplace that is noisy and has a number of people. If it goes well, move to a more secluded table.
4) Maybe joke with him and say the next drink is "on him". This will make it easy for him to make an offer. Let him suggest dinner.

Hope all goes well for you.

You are a sweet treasure and we all wish you well.
 
I wish you the best.

1) a guy does not come into work 4 hours early to make a modest, token gift if he is not interested.
2) a cup cake is small, but significant gift. If yo relatioship does not work out, the cup cake was a modest gift and easily explain as just a "nice thing" to do for someone at work.
3) Invite him for a drink after work at a local "hangout". Someplace that is noisy and has a number of people. If it goes well, move to a more secluded table.
4) Maybe joke with him and say the next drink is "on him". This will make it easy for him to make an offer. Let him suggest dinner.

Hope all goes well for you.

You are a sweet treasure and we all wish you well.

good points here :)
 
From one retail worker to another, I hope you survived this weekend with your sanity intact. I did, just barely. :p
 
So I survived Thanksgiving and Black Friday...and then I got strep throat :/

So here you are my woefully neglected followers...have some half assed selfies.
 
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So I survived Thanksgiving and Black Friday...and then I got strep throat :/

So here you are my woefully neglected followers...have some half assed selfies.

Honey, you are fucking gorgeous. Love these. Sorry I was aggravating yesterday. :(
 
So I survived Thanksgiving and Black Friday...and then I got strep throat :/

So here you are my woefully neglected followers...have some half assed selfies.

Sorry you're feeling under the weather, but even half assed these are amazing. How do you keep getting MORE beautiful every time you post? lol
 
So I survived Thanksgiving and Black Friday...and then I got strep throat :/

So here you are my woefully neglected followers...have some half assed selfies.

I've had strep throat once that I know of. It wasn't fun. Glad you're feeling better.

Your half assed selfies are hotter than most women's best.

My offer to move and be your boy toy (or more, if you like) still stands :D I'm still sorta impressionable
 
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