new at it

[party_princess2]

my boyfriend and i have been together for a little while now and i'd like to something i've never done before. i want to give him a blow job. the only problem is i don't really know how. its my first time doing it and i don't want to do it wrong. and if possible i'd like to give him a good one. its not his first and i'd like to better then all the rest. i was raised really sheltered so i'm finally able to try all the things i've wondered about. can anyone help me. tips. anything. thanx

 

[Weird Harold]

my boyfriend and i have been together for a little while now and i'd like to something i've never done before. i want to give him a blow job. the only problem is i don't really know how. its my first time doing it and i don't want to do it wrong. and if possible i'd like to give him a good one. its not his first and i'd like to better then all the rest. i was raised really sheltered so i'm finally able to try all the things i've wondered about. can anyone help me. tips. anything. thanx

There are at least two essays in the How To category of stories on how to give blowjobs.

Having never given one and recieved very few, I can't give more personal advice. However, I'm sure there will be a few people along shortly to give you more suggestions.

 

[Bandit58]

I was 43 years old when I gave my first blow job (18 months ago). My lover at the time knew I was inexperienced and didn't expect miracles, but that I was willing and enthusiastic about learning made it very special to us both. In fact he came in my mouth (he warned me first but I kept on going) and we shared his cum in a kiss afterwards.

Technique isn't everything.......if he sees that you enjoy what you are doing it's a big turn on for him. Don't be scared to experiment.....licks, nibbles, stroke with your hands as well as sucking and using your tongue on the head.....I never thought I'd ever be able to take a cock almost all the way but I nearly managed it last week, and I'm still not THAT experienced yet. I'm hoping I can learn how to deep throat in the next 6 months

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

Start out by taking a drink of something so your mouth is wet. Lick up and down his length to get him wet. Be sure to keep your lips over your teeth so you don't knick him. Some guys like little nibbles, but you're just learning. Hold his cock down by the base so he doesn't suddenly thrust up and gag you. You should be able to tell what he likes by his reactions.....tensing, moaning, etc. If not, don't be afraid to ask him what feels best to him. The cockhead is especially sensitive. Experiment with licks, sucking....softly and more firmly, swirl your tongue around his head. If you're feeling particularly adventurous, move down into his ball sac......get that wet too......gently suck each ball into your mouth.

Have fun with it, most likely he'll enjoy whatever you do to him orally!

 

[bharman4102]

4" Heels -- thats great advice, i'm guessing you have a very happy guy!

and as for the curious girl -- sometimes your desire to just do it and do it well is a hot aphrodisiac! theres something hot about a girl with your cock in her mouth looking you in the eyes...

 

[peachykeen]

Stop putting pressure on yourself to feel like you have to be really great, "the best ever" at it right away. I mean, come on, if you'd never picked up a paintbrush before, would you expect to be able to paint like Van Gogh the first time you tried? If you've never had a music lesson, would you expect to bang out a Mozart concerto when you sat down at a piano?

If your guy is even halfway worthy of your attention, then he will be so damn appreciative that you are willing to do this for him that he will be patient with you and let you take your time to work out what's right for you, and tell you what feels good and what doesn't for him.

As for the 'practical' things, I believe Four_Inch has already done an excellent job outlining those.

 

[N8Dreams]

Re: Re: new at it

There are at least two essays in the How To category of stories on how to give blowjobs.

Having never given one and recieved very few, I can't give more personal advice. However, I'm sure there will be a few people along shortly to give you more suggestions.

Hum. I agree to Harold

 

[N8Dreams]

is it Harold and Maud?????????????

 

[ldlarry52]

Don't stress out over being the best he's ever had. You have no idea how good his previous lovers were or what made them good.

I would suggest watching some oral porn films. Those should give you lots of ideas on technique and read some how to aritcles form both men and women. There are several posted on the How to page in the story section.

In my opinion the most important part to a blow job is to enjoy doing it and making sure your boyfriend knows you are enjoying his cock in your mouth. Tell him you want to suck him, taste him and have him fill your mouth with cum.

Just relax and enjoy the sensual contact of his cock with your mouth and tongue. Explore his cocks texture, lick it, engulf it with your mouth, carress it with your lips, make eye contact with him, kiss the tip and if he wants to let him fuck your mouth. Go with the flow you'll know what's working and what's not.

Have fun it's not a contest. LDLarry52

 

[Weird Harold]

is it Harold and Maud?????????????

Nope.

My grandmother, Maude died in 1968 and there hs been no Maude in my life since then. (I can't even recall having met another Maude.)

 

[fgarvb1]

One of the best things in life is to be able to teach a girlfriend, wife, lover, etc. how to give blow jobs.

The reason for this is that he can teach you exactly how he likes it with out having to unteach you things that other guys liked more than he does.

Trust me on this I have customized a few over the years.

Don't be impatient with practice you will soon be the greatest he has ever had.

 

[Ylvie]

Before you start, take a good look at his dick and "get to know" it. There are certain places that are especially sensitive, and you could try and focus on those. I'm sure it varies from man to man, so I will just tell you how my own boyfriend wants it. Licking up the vein that goes up the underside of his dick is often sensitive, and also the area where he has a "string", just by the head of his dick. You will recognise it when you see his dick or when you suck it, it feels rather natural to lick just there. Apparently this place has a lot of nerves, or something, which should make it good for him. My b/f loves it when I lick and suck the head of his dick, but he doesn't cum before I start taking more inside my mouth. I have really exaggerated gag reflexes which makes it a bit difficult, but I usually manage fine anyway. You could try to use your hand at the same time, but be a bit careful with that in the beginning. It's better to start off just sucking, or else it's so easy to lose track of that hand and lose all rhythm, plus hit with your teeth. You wouldn't want that to happen, so get a bit experienced with your mouth first. Be aware of his reactions, and do what he seems to enjoy the most. You can also tease a bit; look into his eyes as you lick just the tip of your tongue around the head of his dick. It's fun to explore by using your tongue.

 

[tbon45]

ah hell just stick it in your mouth like its a sucker and go to town and when you get there youll get a suprise.

 

[TxRED450]

Every man is different. What works for one may not work for another. As I have found going down on different women, it takes time to find what she likes. One good sure way of learning what your partner likes is have them masturbate for you while you watch. Only we know what we like best. If you watch their hand in how they please themselves you learn the type of touch they like and the areas that bring the most pleasure to them. One thing for me is to vary what you do. If you do the same thing too long, the sensitivity is lost. By changing things up you keep that good feeling going. And finally, the most important thing is to talk about the experience together.

Have fun, good luck, and enjoy

 

[BlueSugar]

I reconmend looking up the Cocksucking 101 thread