Never to Have a Chance...

[Hornymama]

Whspr, I don't know you but I do know where you're coming from and I want you to know I feel for you. I know no one has the answers for you. You have to make your own decision, but please think hard before you put those walls up so high you don't have the chance to grab something wonderful when it does come along. I know it hurts so bad you never want to take the chance of going through that kind of pain again but hopefully you will come out of it a stronger person. I wish you the best and know you will find that special something you're looking for.
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[1sexylady]

Whspr.... I have a new motto.....If you don't expect anything you can't get hurt..

 

[whspr]

Whspr, I don't know you but I do know where you're coming from and I want you to know I feel for you. I know no one has the answers for you. You have to make your own decision, but please think hard before you put those walls up so high you don't have the chance to grab something wonderful when it does come along. I know it hurts so bad you never want to take the chance of going through that kind of pain again but hopefully you will come out of it a stronger person. I wish you the best and know you will find that special something you're looking for.
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Nice to meet you Hornymama.....

I'm hoping I'll feel better soon...this can't go on too long...I hope....thank you for the reply...making new friends helps alot.

soft kisses,
whspr

 

[whspr]

Whspr.... I have a new motto.....If you don't expect anything you can't get hurt..

That is a good one, SexyOne....
I'll try to think of that often...

soft kisses,
whspr

 

[Hornymama]

Nice to meet you Hornymama.....

I'm hoping I'll feel better soon...this can't go on too long...I hope....thank you for the reply...making new friends helps alot.

soft kisses,
whspr

Yes, friends help a lot so if you ever need one pm me. These things take time so don't get discouraged. I know it's hard to believe and you probably get tired of hearing it but it does get better. It hurts to think about it but yet you can't let go.

P.S. You're a very beautiful person....such a friendly smile

 

[whspr]

Yes, friends help a lot so if you ever need one pm me. These things take time so don't get discouraged. I know it's hard to believe and you probably get tired of hearing it but it does get better. It hurts to think about it but yet you can't let go.

P.S. You're a very beautiful person....such a friendly smile

Feel free to PM me anytime you need, too. I'm having a hard time letting go but I think I'll survive. Thank you for the compliment.
You are very pretty yourself.

soft kisses,
whspr

 

[1sexylady]

HE'S BACK...........

 

[sirgary]

My own thread...

...this was a bad idea...

 

[SecretLove69]

.......
Then with one sentence, the whole thing changes. Without a chance to really explain, he just backs up and says ...no can do.
You bare your soul to him...but he doesn't hear what you
really said.

Maybe the best thing to do would be....build up walls and don't let anyone close. This hurts too bad.

whspr

Yep - been there, done that. Because typing isn't talking so meanings get all mixed up. Things get said, feelings get hurt and then it's just over even before it got started.
So the walls go higher and the heart gets harder and you move on - hoping it won't happen again and yet knowing that it probably will. We do what we have to to protect ourselves.

Take care - I'll think of you now and again but I won't bother you anymore.

 

[sirgary]

Yep - been there, done that. Because typing isn't talking so meanings get all mixed up. Things get said, feelings get hurt and then it's just over even before it got started.
So the walls go higher and the heart gets harder and you move on - hoping it won't happen again and yet knowing that it probably will. We do what we have to to protect ourselves.

Take care - I'll think of you now and again but I won't bother you anymore.

... ...

 

[Daizie]

Boy do I know how you feel. It sucks to be at the mercy of someone else's feelings, or lack thereof. It sucks that I can talk to someone halfway around the world, thanks to all this wonderful technology. And yet someone I thought would understand and hear me, doesn't get my meaning at all. How the hell did I get myself into this?

Hope you find some inner peace, Sirgary.

I apologize for intruding on your thread.

 

[sirgary]

Boy do I know how you feel. It sucks to be at the mercy of someone else's feelings, or lack thereof. It sucks that I can talk to someone halfway around the world, thanks to all this wonderful technology. And yet someone I thought would understand and hear me, doesn't get my meaning at all. How the hell did I get myself into this?

Hope you find some inner peace, Sirgary.

I apologize for intruding on your thread.

..<bewildered>.....

 

[SecretLove69]

....you bothered me once....and then the sky fell and it was too much for me...I want you to bother me...we are not done, or I am not done...only making sure I am better protected next time...

...I know I am open for an easy kill right now and I am trying to hide until I know I can withstand an attack...I must sound a melodramatic but I hope you understand...

how did you find this thread anyway...it's been dead for five years...even the chrickets stopped chirping here...

Just so you know the blade had two sharp edges and yours was not the only heart that was cut.
I've got some new bricks and mortar for my wall too.

I don't want to be done with you either and I don't know if we can ever go back to what we were to each other before. I won't beg - I'll never beg.

I followed a mouse here - he said it was quiet and safe - silly mouse.

 

[sirgary]

Just so you know the blade had two sharp edges and yours was not the only heart that was cut.
I've got some new bricks and mortar for my wall too.

... ...

 

[SecretLove69]

...hope you understand your talking with a little boy right now...

I always knew you were. Bravado is easily seen through - it's a very transparent sheet.

Part of me is still unprotected where you are concerned and tears are shed easily.

 

[sirgary]

I always knew you were. Bravado is easily seen through - it's a very transparent sheet.

Part of me is still unprotected where you are concerned and tears are shed easily.

...you are correct, Bravado is easily seen through and if you think I possess it, you have read me wrong...

... ...

 

[SecretLove69]

...you have managed to drive every friend you had on lit away...

I have been a supportive friend

If that is the way you offer support - then I guess I can do without.

 

[LittleLadyLove]

As Daizie said... been there done that. Almost 7 years ago I was seeing someone and then one day out of the blue he turned on me. Said some things that hurt so bad that I built walls around myself and never stepped foot out side that wall for 6 long years then.....

Last April, I found the forums and in a matter of a few weeks I met someone. We had a great time talking and one thing led to another until one night back in Spetember when I needed him the most he turned on me. Needless to say I went to ground again... slowly but surely I can back. I still hold back but I do have a host of friends here that have helped me through alot.... and more to come.

LL

 

[Lorelei_11]

Thank you Slowfingers. Those walls are hard not to put up. I'm going to try and get by this. I don't mean to make him sound insensitive because he isn't. It is a situation which is actually
hurting us both. He will still be my friend....he just can't offer
me more.

I hope some sweet thing is making you happy now....

soft kisses,
whspr

I heard those words too, just a few minutes before he left, dissapeared actually. It hurts, but I tried, he was just no where near the guy for me.

 

[sirgary]

...I took a few minutes to re-read this thread....though it has been a long time, I sort of remember some of the drama discribed here...I have forgotten that most the path's we walk in life have been travelled before..

...better days are coming...

 

[LittleLadyLove]

...I took a few minutes to re-read this thread....though it has been a long time, I sort of remember some of the drama discribed here...I have forgotten that most the path's we walk in life have been travelled before..

...better days are coming...

... glad to hear that sweetie

 

[sirgary]

Thanks Whspr for the use of this thread...

 

[au_man]

Have you ever met someone and things just really clicked?
You think this is the person who can change your life. You
fall in love and things are going perfect....

Then with one sentence, the whole thing changes. Without a
chance to really explain, he just backs up and says ...no can do.
You bare your soul to him...but he doesn't hear what you
really said.

I hope you never have to hear that....it hurts like hell. Maybe
the best thing to do would be....build up walls and don't let anyone close. This hurts too bad.

whspr

I'm sorry sweet (((((((((((((((whspr))))))))))))))))...

Please don't build defensive walls because they can be impossible to tear down later. Please trust me on this because I am one who is incapable of doing so myself.

I would much rather deal with the pain of love lost than to feel so emotionally isolated.

As always I wish the very best for you...

ETA...

After posting I noticed the original date of 2002...

I was so excited to see a post by my friend that I didn't read it as closely as I should...

 

[sirgary]

...this is a really old thread...makes me wonder how Whsprs faired from those old days...

 

[ima6uldv8]

I have but it's a hurt of a different kind. He is no longer on this earth Whomever comes along next has some mighty big shoes to fill.