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[thephoenix2k005]

hi everyone, this is my first post but i've been reading here a while, im a virgin, not that i havn't had many chances but for some reason it just never happened, and that don't bother me, but im dating this girl who is experienced, and we have talked about having sex and i really am in love with her, and she says, and i believe she is in love with me. We both are very mature for our age, being young, barely legal adults. She also currently lives a long way away from me because she was forced to move with her parents last year, but im going to go see her and goto her senior prom with her and she has said that she our first time to be afterwards. Im nervous about it though, i've done other stuff with girls but she is special and i just want to be able to please her and im nervous i won't be able to keep up becuase of her extremely high sex drive. any words of advice?

 

[KarenDee]

You're going to think this sounds crazy and you're going to tell yourself "No way in a million years can I do that!" But the best thing you can do is to be right up front with her. Tell her, "I want desperately to make love to you, and I want for it to be the most incredible experience for the both of us. I want to show you a depth of feeling that maybe you didn't realize that I possess, an intensity, and a deep level of passion that shows you how much I love you. I am a virgin, and I realize that due to my inexperience, I may not do or say the right things. What would make the night the most memorable for me would be for you to show me everything that pleases you. I want you to take me, hold me, make love to me, and teach me everything you know. I want to feel every ounce of your love, every fiber of your eroticism. In return I give myself totally to you. My soul is yours, and together we will reach a level of love and passion that neither of us has felt before. Please...do this together with me...for the two of us!

 

[Eilan]

im dating this girl who is experienced

im nervous i won't be able to keep up becuase of her extremely high sex drive.

Obviously you know more about this young lady than we do, but sexual experience doesn't necessarily equal high sex drive.

Be safe and good luck.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Does she know you're a virgin? That would be a good thing to tell her if she doesn't. Then just ask her to show you what she likes.

Play safe. Use a condom.

 

[TBKahuna123]

You're going to think this sounds crazy and you're going to tell yourself "No way in a million years can I do that!" But the best thing you can do is to be right up front with her. Tell her, "I want desperately to make love to you, and I want for it to be the most incredible experience for the both of us. I want to show you a depth of feeling that maybe you didn't realize that I possess, an intensity, and a deep level of passion that shows you how much I love you. I am a virgin, and I realize that due to my inexperience, I may not do or say the right things. What would make the night the most memorable for me would be for you to show me everything that pleases you. I want you to take me, hold me, make love to me, and teach me everything you know. I want to feel every ounce of your love, every fiber of your eroticism. In return I give myself totally to you. My soul is yours, and together we will reach a level of love and passion that neither of us has felt before. Please...do this together with me...for the two of us!

Wow! I mean...Wow!

Seriously dude, she's right. Just tell her I want you but I'm worried I might not please you. Ask her to tell you what she likes, what she wants. This isn't just a lesson for your first time, but a lesson in being a good lover. If you ask her she will cum, I mean tell you what she likes.

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

You're going to think this sounds crazy and you're going to tell yourself "No way in a million years can I do that!" But the best thing you can do is to be right up front with her. Tell her, "I want desperately to make love to you, and I want for it to be the most incredible experience for the both of us. I want to show you a depth of feeling that maybe you didn't realize that I possess, an intensity, and a deep level of passion that shows you how much I love you. I am a virgin, and I realize that due to my inexperience, I may not do or say the right things. What would make the night the most memorable for me would be for you to show me everything that pleases you. I want you to take me, hold me, make love to me, and teach me everything you know. I want to feel every ounce of your love, every fiber of your eroticism. In return I give myself totally to you. My soul is yours, and together we will reach a level of love and passion that neither of us has felt before. Please...do this together with me...for the two of us!

*fanning self*

 

[asian_princess]

You're going to think this sounds crazy and you're going to tell yourself "No way in a million years can I do that!" But the best thing you can do is to be right up front with her. Tell her, "I want desperately to make love to you, and I want for it to be the most incredible experience for the both of us. I want to show you a depth of feeling that maybe you didn't realize that I possess, an intensity, and a deep level of passion that shows you how much I love you. I am a virgin, and I realize that due to my inexperience, I may not do or say the right things. What would make the night the most memorable for me would be for you to show me everything that pleases you. I want you to take me, hold me, make love to me, and teach me everything you know. I want to feel every ounce of your love, every fiber of your eroticism. In return I give myself totally to you. My soul is yours, and together we will reach a level of love and passion that neither of us has felt before. Please...do this together with me...for the two of us!

um...does everyone else want to make love to karendee now too??

 

[phoenix1224]

I really can't add too much more than what has already been said except that, personally, I wouldn't tell her that you're a virgin... If you feel the need, tell her that you're not all that experienced... But do it long before the two of you wind up in the bedroom/back seat of the car/where ever. Otherwise, it can make for a very awkward situation.

Other than that, all I can say is that you need to relax somehow. Stress of this nature can lead to erectile dysfunction... And that's the LAST thing that you want to happen on this special night.

 

[LadyJeanne]

um...does everyone else want to make love to karendee now too??

I think I'd freak out if some guy said all that to me when all I was thinking was prom sex!

 

[TBKahuna123]

I think I'd freak out if some guy said all that to me when all I was thinking was prom sex!

Prom Sex? Is that like Church Tongue?

 

[LadyJeanne]

Prom Sex? Is that like Church Tongue?

If I knew what Church Tongue was, I might be able to answer.


Prom sex is the kind of sex you have on prom night...giddy, flushed, ripping off each other's fancy clothes...it's special occasion sex.

 

[TBKahuna123]

If I knew what Church Tongue was, I might be able to answer.


Prom sex is the kind of sex you have on prom night...giddy, flushed, ripping off each other's fancy clothes...it's special occasion sex.

It's fron the movie the Wedding Singer. They're talking about the perfect wedding kiss. "Not porno tongue, Church Tongue..."

 

[LadyJeanne]

It's fron the movie the Wedding Singer. They're talking about the perfect wedding kiss. "Not porno tongue, Church Tongue..."

Ah, then, NO, prom sex is NOTHING like Church Tongue. Prom sex is the opposite of Church Tongue.

 

[thephoenix2k005]

wow

thank you all for all the advice, she does know iam a virgin, atleast im pretty sure because we really know about each other. I guess i will talk to her, if i get up the nerve, before i go spend the weekend with her in may.

 

[M's girl]

thank you all for all the advice, she does know iam a virgin, atleast im pretty sure because we really know about each other. I guess i will talk to her, if i get up the nerve, before i go spend the weekend with her in may.

May ..... OK, you'll have plenty of time to prepare. Read a lot on Lit (also the blank manual) and you will see no two women are the same. So even for an experienced lover a new love affair will be all about finding out what makes the other one feel good.

Oh.. and talking is good.... Good luck