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[Mysticcal]

Hey bashfull hun, empty your PM box please.....

 

[bashfull]

Hey bashfull hun, empty your PM box please.....

I'd think I'd rather empty yours. How are ya'?

 

[Mysticcal]

I'd think I'd rather empty yours. How are ya'?

hmmmm, could be a bit of a wet and messy job

I am doing good.....how are you?

 

[bashfull]

hmmmm, could be a bit of a wet and messy job

I am doing good.....how are you?

Hey, I've gotta' do what I've gotta' do. lol

 

[Mysticcal]

Hey, I've gotta' do what I've gotta' do. lol

LOL what are you waiting for then.....dive right in and get to work

 

[va_angel2u]

Hey bashfull hun, empty your PM box please.....

so bashfull, you been busy huh?? LOL

VA

 

[bashfull]

VA~not really. just never deleted anything. Didn't get enough to make a difference--or so I thought. Hmmm...guess you saw the "table" reference?

 

[va_angel2u]

VA~not really. just never deleted anything. Didn't get enough to make a difference--or so I thought. Hmmm...guess you saw the "table" reference?

which of the table references?? (I've seen a few)

 

[Mysticcal]

Good Sunday all my beloved nerdy ones

Hope everyone is having a great day. hugs and kisses all around.

 

[RomanHans]

Anime nerds

Any nerdy chicks here like anime (Japanese animation)? Just went to see Miyazaki's 'Spirited Away'--it was mind-bending, surreal, unsettling, in other words great! Three thumbs up.

Wait, where did that extra thumb come from?

Roman

 

[mtnbkr]

Wow, looks like I missed some things this week......LOL I have always appreciated some creative stalking

Welcome to nerds-r-us Goblin


mtnbkr.....I am always up for a de-briefing....who is going to be de-briefed though? LOL

Hugs, Mysti

mtnbkr.....I am always up for a de-briefing....who is going to be de-briefed though? LOL

Hugs, Mysti [/B][/QUOTE]

Mysti, you will be debriefed. Ladies first...of course. Being that the purpose of a debriefing is to get "hot, juicy information" I must make sure the subject is nice and relaxed. I will do whatever I have to in order get this information out of you.
First I will go "downtown"... to my office and get background information on you. I will use this information to finger errrr....figure out what I can do to you to get the information that I need. I must do my research, because cumming to any premature conclusions wouldn't be a good thing.

By the way mysti did you check your pm?

 

[jdu]

HI all you nerdy ladies..under valued for your passion, but well worth the wait when you are discovered

I've been off for a few days. Lots of new pages. Glad to hear everyone is well..and that even discussions about emptying message boxes can be sexy

 

[TheCyberPoet]

Intelligence, imagination, knowledge, being well read, able to communicate strongly about ideas, ideals... combined with a small tad of not-always-as-graceful-as-possible [could be physical, or socially] (to remind us you are indeed still just human): geek girl, nerd, nerdy, introverted extrovert. All very attractive. Personally, I would infinitely prefer to spend my time with a mentally stimulating woman than one who merely has captured my eyes for a short duration with her physical charms. Charm me with you ability to banter with the best of them, to know what I mean when I say I truly want to grok you (and no, that doesn't mean fuck for those who aren't in the know), to be able to take a stance and defend it intelligently without resorting to insults out of frustration.
Perhaps the best form of geekism is the pure ability to dispense with bullshit and truly say what's on your mind without the emotional baggage and headgames that often go with such communications in our society; to be blunt, and therefore to be considered socially inept (but I value this beyond measure, whether you call it direct, outspoken or socially inept).

 

[RomanHans]

What he said.

Roman

 

[Mysticcal]

Good evening everyone. Hugs and kisses.

Loved your words CyberPoet.....they were eloquently said....and I know they are what I strive to achieve.

 

[RomanHans]

A merry Wednesday to all, and to all a good night!

 

[TheCyberPoet]

Time to earn My name yet again...

I know you're there, for I see you constantly,
I know what you are, or what you mean to be,
that outward brassiness, so full of life,
easily misread, internally full of strife.
Finding solace in a calculation or the pages of a book,
yet, if I keep up My gander, will My look be mistook?
Are you waiting for Me to step up and flatly say,
would you do Me the honor of going out some day?
Or would, that I but stay and stare from the corner of my eye,
some nameless, fascinated, but still distant guy?
I find your intelligence not threatening but a temptation;
your ability to quickly order thoughts with careful orchestration,
and yet I feel some how inept at how to ask you out,
for the signs you show don't tell me whether you'll joy or pout...

And the reality, at least for me, is that I won't cross your path,
not because it's not meant to be, nor that I fear your wrath,
but that my line of work keeps me from asking, it's improper,
so I am just waiting for the words from you: go ahead and offer.
Instead, I shall post here and hope you read the words, dear,
and know that I seek you out wherever I can find you.




=-= The CyberPoet

 

[jdu]

Opening a new discussion..trying to reach a higher level of consciousness.

Question..many girls who may think they are nerdy seem to be either unaware of their bodies or very shy about them..so when they get complimented they get defensive. It doesn't seem to make them feel good.

Is that a trend..or..do you believe inside that you are pretty but are a bit insecure in that area

 

[va_angel2u]

Opening a new discussion..trying to reach a higher level of consciousness.

Question..many girls who may think they are nerdy seem to be either unaware of their bodies or very shy about them..so when they get complimented they get defensive. It doesn't seem to make them feel good.

Is that a trend..or..do you believe inside that you are pretty but are a bit insecure in that area

You're forgetting another option on that, jdu. Overall, our society doesn't teach us how to accept compliments. Ex.--comment,"that s a pretty sweater ". reply,"this old thing?" Instead of a simple, "why thank you." (smile)
Then add a more personnal note to it, and really warp the wires.

but that's just my .02 worth.

VA

 

[jdu]

You're forgetting another option on that, jdu. Overall, our society doesn't teach us how to accept compliments. Ex.--comment,"that s a pretty sweater ". reply,"this old thing?" Instead of a simple, "why thank you." (smile)
Then add a more personnal note to it, and really warp the wires.

but that's just my .02 worth.

VA

Good point. Why is that? I would like to be able to compliment a women without them feeling put down or somehow inferior. Lets start fresh.. If I complement you.its meant to make you feel better.

 

[RomanHans]

You're forgetting another option on that, jdu. Overall, our society doesn't teach us how to accept compliments. Ex.--comment,"that s a pretty sweater ". reply,"this old thing?" Instead of a simple, "why thank you." (smile)
Then add a more personnal note to it, and really warp the wires.

but that's just my .02 worth.

VA

Another phenomenon wrapped up in the whole thing is the difficulty of complimenting someone on their physical features without it sounding like a come-on...which, if you're nerdy (at least as a guy), might seem either aggressive or might be interpreted as some kind of practical joke.

In my most nerdiest of days, if a girl complimented me, I often ran away in a panic. Good thing I got over that.

Roman

 

[jdu]

Another phenomenon wrapped up in the whole thing is the difficulty of complimenting someone on their physical features without it sounding like a come-on...which, if you're nerdy (at least as a guy), might seem either aggressive or might be interpreted as some kind of practical joke.

In my most nerdiest of days, if a girl complimented me, I often ran away in a panic. Good thing I got over that.

Roman

Does this part get easier as we get older? Certainly teens and twenty's are very sensitive about what they look like, and very defensive about their person. Its gotten a lot easier for me to both take and give a complment as I mature (will I ever BECOME mature--thats what my friends want to know )

 

[RomanHans]

Does this part get easier as we get older? Certainly teens and twenty's are very sensitive about what they look like, and very defensive about their person. Its gotten a lot easier for me to both take and give a complment as I mature (will I ever BECOME mature--thats what my friends want to know )

I think it was Oscar Wilde who once said, 'You can be young only once, but you can be immature forever.'

I know some people who view that as a bad thing and others who view it as a good thing.

Certainly adolescence is a time when I'd suppose that most people are hyper-sensitive about their appearance, and especially others' impressions of their appearance. And one distinguishing feature of nerds (nerdy girls in particular) is that they can be sexy (in mind and body) without having to obsess over whether or not they are sexy.

 

[TheCyberPoet]

Odds are that your own maturing is changing the very nature of your nerdy/geekiness, mellowing it out and reducing it's effects.

Or to put it a different way: when I was 16, I was a certified genius (IQ: 199, tested) and felt that it was rare to meet anyone who was even close to being my mental equal among my age group (my peer group?). As I've aged and the intervening years have come and gone, I haven't gotten any stupider (at least not by much), but my peer group has slowly gotten smarter a whole (having gone off to college, learned lessons from life, reading, schools).

So, perhaps your peer groups have gotten more adept at delivering compliments, or more likely, you have gotten more socially adept and comfortable at being complimented

Does this part get easier as we get older? Certainly teens and twenty's are very sensitive about what they look like, and very defensive about their person. Its gotten a lot easier for me to both take and give a complment as I mature (will I ever BECOME mature--thats what my friends want to know )

 

[HomerPindar]

I was going to return to this thread (hi folks!) with a comment on sexism and the state of compliments...

...then I turned on this extreme variety show. Now, THESE FOLKS ARE DANGEROUS GEEKS!

HomerPindar