nerdy chicks

[bashfull]

Re: Re: local nerds

Welcome angst......not from your area either, but don't give up, there are lots of us out there

bashfull......been thinking about your question....I think you can be a virgin in any of those areas....but for the main virgin title, I think for me it would be actual penetration. LOL I remember when I was a "technical" virgin, meaning I had done all but penetration.

Mysti

I agree with virginity in all areas, but what about the big V? and if penetration is the barrier (pun intended), then does a woman take her own virginity if she inserts during masturbation? I know a woman who took her own virginity (her words) with a vibe. And if masturbation takes virginity, then I lost mine 10X day when I was but a youngin'.

 

[XXXmandieXXX]

Re: Mandie

Howdy,

Just one of your original cultist here. Hope you have fun. Will be thinking about ya'.

BTW, open input from everyone on the definition of virgin. What constitutes virginity in men and women. Does a broken hymen count or is it actual penetration with a man? Does oral count? Anal? How about mutual masturbation. Just thinking....

Aww, love ya, Bashfull, you sexy thang! Turns out I'm not going out after all, so you won't hafta miss me.

When I say virgin, I'm thinking of actual penetration. But I'd include anal penetration in that, too. Oral too... but I can't include that or it confuses me in my own sexual status. There was an unfortunate incident in a car last year when I lost my balance, fell over into the driver's lap... and um, my mouth happened to be opened... and his coc- okok. You get the picture. So I consider myself a virgin - no one but me has ever even touched my pussy - but the oral part... I mean, I guess I can say, "I'm still a virgin, but my mouth's not." (Which is actually how I broke the news to my mom when I decided to tell her.) As for the hymen, I've done something I can never undo, and I cry if I think about it for too long. My hymen was broken in a biking accident. *gives the most serious look she can muster* No, I just got carried away with myself while masturbating, and most of my hymen has been torn over time. Very gradually - I didn't even realize it was happening, really, until it was too late.

But 'virginity' is not all that matters to me. I want as much innocence as I can preserve until I'm married. That would cover all of the above. Unfortunately, I've screwed that up pretty good. I've been reading/writing erotica since I was about 16, cybering since about 17, and having phone sex since I was about 18... As far as 'real' experience, other than that one bj, I've only let one guy, my first bf, kiss me, and that was when I was fifteen! Jamison, the guy I went down on, kissed me, too, afterward. So kissed two guys, given head once, and that's the extent of my in-person sexual experience. Besides that I haven't even really seen a guy with a hard-on. I'm a strange mix, methinx. :S I just told a friend the account of how I came to 'accidentally' give head, because honestly, I didn't mean to. I might post it, if anyone's interested.

Mandie

 

[triman AZ]

question

What kind of underwear do nerdy chicks wear anyway? It strikes me that a thong is not worn by a nerd?

Inquiring minds want to know...

 

[HomerPindar]

LOL sounds delightful, but one question for you? Where do we find a place to meet that will allow us to indulge in both activities?

I happen to know an art gallery where we could sit out on the deck (the gallery has a large yard, with some impressive murals and sculptures), drink wine, massage, relaxe...and yes, it has privacy too.

Or, I know a bar/resturant where we could have a few drinks, a discrete neck rub, and excelent food if you rather.

As a massage does entail a certain amount of relaxation, and comfort, what makes you comfortable in this situation certainly accounts for a great deal.

HomerPindar

 

[XXXmandieXXX]

Re: question

What kind of underwear do nerdy chicks wear anyway? It strikes me that a thong is not worn by a nerd?

Inquiring minds want to know...

LOL, I hafta admit, tri, this one crackled me up a bit... I posted a while back on this thread about this very topic - well, about what I like to wear beneath my clothes. Since I didn't go into too much detail, I'll give you a few more hints:

I absolutely adore lingerie! Shopping for sexy underwear and pajammies is something I do at least once every two weeks, more often when I have more money to spare. If I don't have any money that I can be spending at the moment, I window shop and plan ahead so I can save for something worth a splurge. Thongs, bikinis panties, and no panties are what you'll find on me on the average day. I love it all - satin, lace, cotton, patterned, plain, colored or white.... ooh, and red and black look particularly good on me, so I tend to wear those colors a lot. Pink and baby blue are for the days that I feel really girly but a little more demure, the bolder colors are for when I feel more on the slutty side, and various other determinants for what I end up wearing - or not wearing, whatever the case may be. When I go without a bra, I love knowing a guy can tell that he's turned me on (or that it's cold ) by seeing my hard nipples poking through the material.

So, there ya go. That's MY answer, at least. I have a strong sneaking suspicion that it goes for the other rad chicas who've been posting on this thread. Mysti, Sarcasm, and all my other girly-friends? Let's prove Mr. Tri wrong.

Mandiepants

Btw, Tri, you're still a sexy love-god far as I'm concerned! Love ya, honey!

 

[QuietHurricane]

Re: Re: nerd memories

For the first time since I discovered this thread, I've felt a little outta place with all the sci-fi talk, as I actually not only am not a fan, I almost despise most sci-fi and fantasy.

Whew. I guess I can come out of the closet too. I'm a geek that can't stand sci-fi. 2001 is one of my favorite movies ever, and I like the first Star Wars, but I think that's pretty much it. If it has a wizard, a unicorn, or a midget in it, I probably don't like it. I know everyone that likes Tolkien just gasped, heh. In my defense though, I like Rush, I play in a fantasy football league, and I have over 175 episodes of The Simpsons on videotape. That should be more than enough to keep my geek status!

-QH

 

[Beethoven'sFire]

Re: question

This nerdy chick prefers not to wear them

What kind of underwear do nerdy chicks wear anyway? It strikes me that a thong is not worn by a nerd?

Inquiring minds want to know...

 

[Mysticcal]

Re: question

What kind of underwear do nerdy chicks wear anyway? It strikes me that a thong is not worn by a nerd?

Inquiring minds want to know...

LOL.....loved your answer Mandiepants.....and I am with you on the lingerie. I also love sexy nighties and undies. And anything that I feel good in works for me, and that includes everything from thongs to nothing. I lean towards black, but have the pinks for girlie days too. LOL.....one thing I always seem to have to do is having matching bra and underwear...or at least complimentary.

Mysti

 

[bashfull]

Welcome, Beethoven!

Mandi--Your future man is in for one phenomenal ride! Warn him in advance and make sure the honeymoon is two weeks!

Mysti--

Ladies, I graciously offer my services (sigh) to judge if your choice of undies disqualifies you for nerdiness. Just let me know when the judging is to be held. Three events--sight, touch, and smell. The way of the gentleman is to place himself at the service of ladies with no thought for himself. But I will do this for you

 

[HomerPindar]

Do we really need to disqualify folks...?

Let's consider, if you think you're a nerd, are smart enough to back up that belief, and ~ most importantly ~ want to attract the sort of individual who likes that in their choice of dates, I think you'd probably qualify.

Or fail miserably at convincing those of us who've been geeks, nerds and whatnot all our lives...

Another thing, 4111 people have looked in on this thread as of posting this. Perhaps a dozen or more have answered. Do I detect some closest nerdness out there? Maybe some of you who aren't nerds wanna know what the appeal is...? Wanna give a nerd a try, huh? Well, damnit, NOWS YOUR CHANCE!

HomerPindar

 

[XXXmandieXXX]

LOL.....loved your answer Mandiepants.....and I am with you on the lingerie. LOL.....one thing I always seem to have to do is having matching bra and underwear...or at least complimentary.

Mysti

Me too! I have several matching bra and panties, that come in sets, but I love to mix it up now and then, too. Then there are the panties that I'll find on a sale rack that are too sexy to pass up, or the bra that's irresistible but doesn't have a matching pair of panties, and then I just wear something complementary, like you said, or forego a bra and wear just the panties, or vice versa. No matter what, I always have fun with it! It makes me feel so seductive to have something feminine and sexy against my skin, even when I'm just wearing shorts and a t-shirt or something.

I'm glad you liked my answer, Mysti. You're such a rad chick! Love ya!

Mandie

 

[XXXmandieXXX]

Mandi -- Your future man is in for one phenomenal ride! Warn him in advance and make sure the honeymoon is two weeks!

Ladies, I graciously offer my services (sigh) to judge if your choice of undies disqualifies you for nerdiness. Just let me know when the judging is to be held. Three events--sight, touch, and smell. The way of the gentleman is to place himself at the service of ladies with no thought for himself. But I will do this for you

Aww... you're too sweet, bashfull!!! Not only buttering me up - of which I'm very shushpishoush, by the way. - but also volunteering to help us girls out in such a generous manner! Unbelievably unselfish of you.

I'll warn you though, I'm a nerdy chick no matter what I wear. I wish I could remember who said it, but I'm too lazy to go back and check: one of the women who posted a while back said that her friends called her a nerd in siren's clothing. That's kinda how I am, sometimes. There are times I don't look like a nerd at all, save for the glasses, maybe. But you could strip me nakey and I'll still be a nerd at the core. lol

Y'know, a couple of you guys are making me wish I wasn't waiting till I'm married... Tempting. Very tempting, you are.

Mandie

 

[bashfull]

Just got back from the Renaissance Faire! Wonder if I saw any of you there? hmmm.....

We need to develop some secret signal or sign for Lit members. No need to say anything to each, just acknowledge with a grin and showing our sign.

Maybe a logo for hat, T's, etc? Lit keeps it simple, recognizable, and appears to be a corp. logo so won't raise questions...

Welcome any input here.

 

[XXXmandieXXX]

Lit logo!

Just got back from the Renaissance Faire! Wonder if I saw any of you there? hmmm.....

We need to develop some secret signal or sign for Lit members. No need to say anything to each, just acknowledge with a grin and showing our sign.

Maybe a logo for hat, T's, etc? Lit keeps it simple, recognizable, and appears to be a corp. logo so won't raise questions...

Welcome any input here.

I'm leaving Lit any day now, but for the rest of you, I think that would be such a great idea - especially for long-time members! I agree that "Lit" is subtle and also simpler and therefore easier to work with, than Literotica, not to mention inconspicuous enough to allow members to wear it without feeling awkward. lol I was thinking that the ideal design for a Lit-logo would definitely have flames incorporated into it somehow. To me, it not only sounds like it has to do with fire (as in the past tense of the word "light"), it also would be appropriate because this website is designed to make us hot... I'd love to work on this, but seeing as how the only artistic talents I have are with words and 'other' visuals (I'm no good at drawing, so-so at painting, but a master at paint-by-number!!! ) I'll leave that to you guys. Have fun with it!

Love ya tons,
Mandie

P.S. Maybe you could include some kind of slogan... "C'mon baby, light my fire..." LOL

 

[bashfull]

Mandi

What do you mean you are leaving Lit? Say it isn't so! Darlin', don't make me fly out all the way out to AZ. I will have to turn you over my knee, bare your bottom, and...well, please stay?

 

[bashfull]

mandi

Just letting you know your box if full--your email and PM box. *shaking head due to others having minds in gutter***

 

[Mountain Mama]

I would be very interested in the new instrument you'd like to have me learn. My drum major uniform had long sleeves and a high neck, but it also had short shorts.

I wear comfy underwear, but I do like the feel of soft, satiny lingerie as well.

I enjoy SF and fantasy, though I don't read it as much as I used to.

I love to dance, but I dance poorly, so I think I'm safe.

 

[Guest]

Nerdy chicks... hmmm

Hi all, Ita appears to me that all women have somehing special to offer a uniquness that makes them special.

My adivse, Find this specialness, Embrase it, be consumed by it, Then Shag the life out of it.

All women are beautifull in there own way appreciate this and get laid alot. LOL

Salad. A fresh Cucumber kind of guy.

 

[XXXmandieXXX]

Re: mandi

Just letting you know your box if full--your email and PM box. *shaking head due to others having minds in gutter***

LOL, see, now this is one of those things I wouldn't have gotten less than a month ago... I'm sure I could've figured it out, if I'd tried, but I wasn't familiar with that particular slang term.

I erased quite a few, so you should be able to get through now.

Mandie

 

[XXXmandieXXX]

Re: mandi

Just letting you know your box if full--your email and PM box. *shaking head due to others having minds in gutter***

LOL, see, now this is one of those things I wouldn't have gotten less than a month ago... I'm sure I could've figured it out, if I'd tried, but I wasn't familiar with that particular slang term.

I erased quite a few, so you should be able to get through now.

Mandie

 

[bashfull]

I would be very interested in the new instrument you'd like to have me learn. My drum major uniform had long sleeves and a high neck, but it also had short shorts.

I wear comfy underwear, but I do like the feel of soft, satiny lingerie as well.

I enjoy SF and fantasy, though I don't read it as much as I used to.

I love to dance, but I dance poorly, so I think I'm safe.

Hmmm...How about the uniform sans panties? and I'll bet that you are very efficient with a new instrument.

 

[Mountain Mama]

That's a thought!

I love a challenge and learning new things....do you think you have anything to teach me?

 

[RomanHans]

Re: Re: question

This nerdy chick prefers not to wear them

I assume you're referring to underwear in general, and not just thongs...so under what conditions do you succumb to your preference???


Roman

 

[XXXmandieXXX]

I assume you're referring to underwear in general, and not just thongs...so under what conditions do you succumb to your preference???


Roman

I like to suck 'em too! Oh wait. My mistake. I misheard you, I guess. *blushing*

(Hey, they DO sound a lot alike!!!! )

Mandie

 

[RomanHans]

I like to suck 'em too! Oh wait. My mistake. I misheard you, I guess. *blushing*

(Hey, they DO sound a lot alike!!!! )

Mandie

Well, since YOU brought it up, what would be your preference in that regard?



Roman