needs advice please

[domandsassy]

My husband and I have been talking about a 3 sum FFM for a long time now. I have always been BI curous. But I have also dreamed of having a 3 sum MMF. Hubby has no desire for that. I have told him I would do the 3 sum FFM. Ok here is where I need advice. We found someone and I like her allot. We have exchanged pictures and talked on the phone and computer. But she is into doing different things that I can't do but it totally turns my husband on. So in the back of my mind I am affraid this 3 sum could bite me in the ass. He chats with her on the computer and they talk about what they fantasize about. Which is something him and I don't do that often. I feel there is becoming a conection there. But he says no and when I talked to him about this he got mad and told me to forget the 3 sum. Any suggestions would help. Thanks,
Sassy

 

[Kitte]

Forget the threesome. Work on you two...communicate more with each other before you even consider bringing someone into your bedroom and relationship

 

[Saint Peter]

But she is into doing different things that I can't do but it totally turns my husband on.

Tell us about this. How can we offer help without the facts maam?

 

[Starfish]

Be careful. Why would he get mad if there was nothing to worry about? Weird if you ask me.


I don't know what to say, other than that you should really only do what you feel okay with and not put yourself in a situation you don't want to be in.

 

[alexandraaah]

I'm guessing it's anal.

 

[domandsassy]

Re: Re: needs advice please

Tell us about this. How can we offer help without the facts maam?

The lady gets into the rough stuff it turns her on. Its also is a turn on for my husband. I don't know if that is the answer your looking for.

 

[Saint Peter]

I'm guessing it's anal.

Rough anal?


Call me collect alexandraaah.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

The fact that she likes things that you don't...or is willing to do things that you won't do is a warning sign.

Take Kitte's advice and work on the relationship with just the two of you. It sounds like you would be better off leaving this as a fantasy in your relationship. Maybe eventually your man will get over his hangups. He doesn't seem to be hung up on getting what he wants though.

Good luck.

 

[domandsassy]

re:anal

Rough anal?


Call me collect alexandraaah.

BDSM is what she likes and yes anal is a big part as well.

 

[Saint Peter]

Re: re:anal

BDSM is what she likes and yes anal is a big part as well.

Have her call me collect domandsassy.

 

[domandsassy]

Thanks

Thanks all for who responded. I really do like this girl. And she is very understanding and tells me she won't do anything I don't want her to do. And my hubby says the same he won't do anything I don't want him to do. I love my husband so much. I want to make this happen for us. Just don't know how to get over my jealousy. The computer conversation happened last night. I was standing over him and watching what was being said. i noticed he became very uncomfortable. He was loosing his consentration so easy. The only thing I ever asked was he keep me involved. But if he is uncomfortable then you guys are right just work on my relationship and keep this a fantasy. Thanks all.

Sassy

 

[Rambling Rose]

But she is into doing different things that I can't do but it totally turns my husband on....

The lady gets into the rough stuff it turns her on.

You don't exactly put the 'dom' in domandsassy, do ya?

 

[glamorilla]

you should try two men!

 

[domandsassy]

re: dom

You don't exactly put the 'dom' in domandsassy, do ya?

dom is for dominic my hubby lol and sassy is a nick I like to you.