Needing to vent

[misstrust]

First let me say I love my partner however tonight I've had enough of his bullshit and need to rant... just get it out of my system.

We have been together a year now. We have a total of 4 kids. The 2 of mine live with us and the 2 of his we have on the weekends.

Today he gave me $200 and told me this is to get you through until pay day. Cool awesome this helps alot. I put the money in the bank. Got gas in the car and some groceries stoped at sonic and got us all a drink. We work odd hours so when we got home he went to lay down. I've still got $150 of the $200. I woke him up for dinner and was immediately told that he didn't give me the money to blow.

What kind of bullshit is this? He was with me when I spent everything I spent. The whole $50 and besides a needed drink I don't feel like I blew any of the money. We both work full time. We both make the same amount of money per hour. I pay all the bills and he has the spending money...he gets paid weekly I get paid every 2 weeks.


I am not going to fight with him over it. It's not worth it. But I sure the hell will go pull it out of the bank and put it back in his wallet and tell him he can fuck right off. I don't know if he was dreaming about something or what but it's some bullshit.


Rant over

 

[Mtnmike]

First let me say I love my partner however tonight I've had enough of his bullshit and need to rant... just get it out of my system.

We have been together a year now. We have a total of 4 kids. The 2 of mine live with us and the 2 of his we have on the weekends.

Today he gave me $200 and told me this is to get you through until pay day. Cool awesome this helps alot. I put the money in the bank. Got gas in the car and some groceries stoped at sonic and got us all a drink. We work odd hours so when we got home he went to lay down. I've still got $150 of the $200. I woke him up for dinner and was immediately told that he didn't give me the money to blow.

What kind of bullshit is this? He was with me when I spent everything I spent. The whole $50 and besides a needed drink I don't feel like I blew any of the money. We both work full time. We both make the same amount of money per hour. I pay all the bills and he has the spending money...he gets paid weekly I get paid every 2 weeks.


I am not going to fight with him over it. It's not worth it. But I sure the hell will go pull it out of the bank and put it back in his wallet and tell him he can fuck right off. I don't know if he was dreaming about something or what but it's some bullshit.


Rant over

You rant all you want, it's healthy to get things off your chest. I understand times are a little rough on people right now, with sky rocketing prices & some people are having to watch their money, been there done that, but you really need to ask him what he meant by saying that. Don't ask when you're upset, need to when both of you are calm, otherwise it'll only get worse.
If you ever need to rant about something, I'm a good listener, no judgement from me, just an offer of a lending ear. Good luck with everything.

 

[LukSkyFokker]

First let me say I love my partner however tonight I've had enough of his bullshit and need to rant... just get it out of my system.

We have been together a year now. We have a total of 4 kids. The 2 of mine live with us and the 2 of his we have on the weekends.

Today he gave me $200 and told me this is to get you through until pay day. Cool awesome this helps alot. I put the money in the bank. Got gas in the car and some groceries stoped at sonic and got us all a drink. We work odd hours so when we got home he went to lay down. I've still got $150 of the $200. I woke him up for dinner and was immediately told that he didn't give me the money to blow.

What kind of bullshit is this? He was with me when I spent everything I spent. The whole $50 and besides a needed drink I don't feel like I blew any of the money. We both work full time. We both make the same amount of money per hour. I pay all the bills and he has the spending money...he gets paid weekly I get paid every 2 weeks.


I am not going to fight with him over it. It's not worth it. But I sure the hell will go pull it out of the bank and put it back in his wallet and tell him he can fuck right off. I don't know if he was dreaming about something or what but it's some bullshit.


Rant over

Where the fuck do you live that you can get gas, groceries, and Sonic drinks for $50?

 

[Saint_Ann]

Maybe you could sell a couple of those kids are something.

Win-win.

 

[FGB]

Ask the great and wise wizard just how might you Spend HIS money being as yours pays the bills.
Have him explain it to you in detail.

It will probably sound pretty lame even to him and he might get a clue.
Maybe.

 

[Zephreck]

Seems realistic that you need to vent and to let yourself get all that off your chest (so to speak). Without knowing him it is impossible to guess why he reacted the way he did. Maybe he is just stressed with the cost of everything going up. I hope he spends some time talking with you and that you are both able to move on from this. I hope things get better.

 

[MKvDeepSea]

Ask the great and wise wizard just how might you Spend HIS money being as yours pays the bills.
Have him explain it to you in detail.

It will probably sound pretty lame even to him and he might get a clue.
Maybe.

How long has y'all been married? Is this just a "one-off" occurrence? I agree with FGB; an open and frank discussion may be in order.

First, calm down, don't enter into a discussion angry. Second, and this will be hard, but don't be accusive. Third, no name calling. Fourth, feelings are valid.

And, no, I'm not a counselor, or any such thing, I'm just bringing experience to the table. The above has always worked for my wife and I.

Good luck!

 

[Hipshot1554]

To me, it's a bad omen.

 

[rockcasbah]

To me, it's a bad omen.

Speaking of omens, his woman is on Lit complaining about him.

On the upside, sounds like you can have her for $200.

 

[Hipshot1554]

That's cold!

 

[slutindianwife]

First let me say I love my partner however tonight I've had enough of his bullshit and need to rant... just get it out of my system.

We have been together a year now. We have a total of 4 kids. The 2 of mine live with us and the 2 of his we have on the weekends.

Today he gave me $200 and told me this is to get you through until pay day. Cool awesome this helps alot. I put the money in the bank. Got gas in the car and some groceries stoped at sonic and got us all a drink. We work odd hours so when we got home he went to lay down. I've still got $150 of the $200. I woke him up for dinner and was immediately told that he didn't give me the money to blow.

What kind of bullshit is this? He was with me when I spent everything I spent. The whole $50 and besides a needed drink I don't feel like I blew any of the money. We both work full time. We both make the same amount of money per hour. I pay all the bills and he has the spending money...he gets paid weekly I get paid every 2 weeks.


I am not going to fight with him over it. It's not worth it. But I sure the hell will go pull it out of the bank and put it back in his wallet and tell him he can fuck right off. I don't know if he was dreaming about something or what but it's some bullshit.


Rant over

is he a psycho??

 

[rockcasbah]

That's cold!

It is what it is…. Bitch is on a sex site complaining about the $200 her man gave her.

You do the math.

 

[slutindianwife]

It is what it is…. Bitch is on a sex site complaining about the $200 her man gave her.

You do the math.

lol

 

[IsItBad]

First let me say I love my partner however tonight I've had enough of his bullshit and need to rant... just get it out of my system.

We have been together a year now. We have a total of 4 kids. The 2 of mine live with us and the 2 of his we have on the weekends.

Today he gave me $200 and told me this is to get you through until pay day. Cool awesome this helps alot. I put the money in the bank. Got gas in the car and some groceries stoped at sonic and got us all a drink. We work odd hours so when we got home he went to lay down. I've still got $150 of the $200. I woke him up for dinner and was immediately told that he didn't give me the money to blow.

What kind of bullshit is this? He was with me when I spent everything I spent. The whole $50 and besides a needed drink I don't feel like I blew any of the money. We both work full time. We both make the same amount of money per hour. I pay all the bills and he has the spending money...he gets paid weekly I get paid every 2 weeks.


I am not going to fight with him over it. It's not worth it. But I sure the hell will go pull it out of the bank and put it back in his wallet and tell him he can fuck right off. I don't know if he was dreaming about something or what but it's some bullshit.


Rant over

maybe just find a good time when things are not egregious and talk about finances. the #2 reason for divorces if finances. couples need to work on finances together and be on the same page. sounds like you need to know what he thinks is reasonable and what he doesn't and he needs to know what you think as well. the only way to get on the same page is to sit down and actually discuss it and find some middle ground. otherwise, you will just go on and on disagreeing, being frustrated, and it could, at some point, end in the big D.

 

[HOG57head]

You pay all the bills! You all need a come to Jesus talk. You are allowing this cheap bastard to live in a fantasy world. He needs to be more than a life support system for a penis. Blow this you tight lazy bastard