need some help please

[amiable]

I'm quite new when it comes to the real thing (sex) and i had some questions which i hope will be answered.

During sex, what could i do with her breasts which could drive her wild?
How do i find her clitoris?
If we're not having sex and just fondling, what could i do with her chest area to ensure that she enjoys herself?

Thanks

 

[solid_]

Just let nature take its cause.

You must be very young to be asking such questions.

 

[amiable]

Not really young, just inexperienced.

 

[alltherage]

Darlin there are no rules in this area. It is trial and era. Making love is like acting in that great actors know that the most important thing they do is listen. Same with making love. You have to be able to sense your partners pleasure. Personally, I love nipple play and at certain points I love it when my nipple is covered by my lovers mouth. They form an o over it and suck pretty hard and into the center of the o there swirling tongue appears. thats very nice and will have me squirming pretty fast.

 

[solid_]

During sex, what could i do with her breasts which could drive her wild?

Lots of kissing and caressing always works for me. Dont dive right in on to the nipples work to them slowly almost teasing with lots of licking kissing and gentle biting, cup her breasts in your hands and compliment them. When you finaly get to sucking her nipples DONT suck to hard Some women's breasts are very sensitive. swirl your tongue round her nipples and ocasionaly lift your mouth off them to gently blow on her saliva coated nipp. You will have her squirming and her juices flowing.

How do i find her clitoris?

The clit is real easy to find. Go down from the navel (belly button) until you get to the slit. There's a little piece of flesh in there that feels like a miniature dick at the top of the inner lips. That's the clit. If you can't find it ask her to show it to you.

The clit must be treated carefully. If you touch it directly touch it softly. But you can rub it indirectly by rubbing the flesh around it. Whenever you are stimulating it watch very closely to see if she's enjoying it or you are hurting her. It's easy to do the wrong thing. One last thing always ensure fingers are wet when touching it.

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Cakegirl]

Hmm yes please...

During foreplay, I like what Solid said - lots of kissing, caressing, licking all around the breast, some suction on the erect nipples, but what drives me crazy is after the foreplay, when the guy is on top of me and puts all of his weight on my chest. It’s feeling completely dominated - almost ‘pinned down’ by my lover, combined with both our passion being so intense that the breasts are getting ‘mashed’ in between us, and whatever friction is created by our movements is sooo intense…
~Cakegirl

 

[sheath]

I think the advice given is already a good start. I could go off on this and that, scientific reasonings why such and such happens, how certain things feel, but that's not what I stopped by to say...

Kudos to you for having the guts to come onto a board and post such an honest and deserving question! So many people are afraid to ask even the most basic things about sex. You are asking, and you know what that indicates to me?

You are on the road to becoming a GREAT lover!

Keep learning, my friend. With honesty like that, you have an explosive sexual future in store.

S.

 

[amiable]

Any advice for hands on chest? As in massaging technique? Stroking? or...???

 

[Cakegirl]

To start off with, lightly running the backs of your fingernails from the outside of the breast towards the nipple... I'm talking about if you think of each individual breast as a circle with a circle nipple inside it, so outside could be anywhere north, south, east, west on the breast... This always gets my nips standing to attention, and the electricity jolting downward...
~Cakegirl

 

[bluespoke]

Maybe the fact that the question comes from someone who's prifile says they are only 17 - answers the question!

 

[Lust Engine]

Maybe the fact that the question comes from someone who's prifile says they are only 17 - answers the question!

ACK! Run away, run away!!!!!

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Maybe the fact that the question comes from someone who's prifile says they are only 17 - answers the question!

Oh dear Bluespoke! 17???!!
Although, I suppose its better that he logs in here rather than go to his mates who are ignorant in how to please a woman. I give him credit for that.



-kym- pondering how to coach a 17 year old about sex

 

[amiable]

i'm not 17...i just turned 18 last november...any one have any more advice?

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

i'm not 17...i just turned 18 last november...any one have any more advice?

Ok, sorry if anything I've said got your kickers all in a bunch Amiable. No hard feelings, OK?
As for pleasing a woman, I'd have to agree with Pinkorchid. Communication between lovers is just as important as foreplay. In fact it's a part of foreplay.
I assume you are with someone close in age to yourself,and she may not be comfortable talking about what she likes. Or maybe you aren't. I dunno. But to become a great lover, all inhibitions need to be put aside and an honest receptive mind be opened to the possibilities.
Best wishes Amiable for your growth. With patience and understanding you shall achieve your goals.


-kym- remembering the days of innocence

 

[amiable]

thanks for the reply...and no i bore no hard feelings against you ever...didn't mean to sound so condescending...my bad..

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Its Ok dear, I still commend you for coming here for your info. Now that the age thingy is out of the way, maybe you'll get some instruction.


-kym- still reminiscing

 

[Trainerman]

I'm quite new when it comes to the real thing (sex) and i had some questions which i hope will be answered.

During sex, what could i do with her breasts which could drive her wild?

Comminicate with the owner of the breasts concerned. That is not only non-verbal communication ("Does she look/sound as if she likes that?") but also be prepared to ASK and LISTEN.

How do i find her clitoris?


Thanks

Buy a book....use a website or ....um......ask the owner of the clitoris concerned what feels good. etc. Communication is SO important !!

Good Luck
Dave