need some advice

[the_untouched]

well okay i've got this little problem... i don't cum when having sex... it's mainly because my dick is shrinking back to normal lenght after some time... but not because i'm impotent or something it's just that (well that's at least what i think it is) i don't feel enough when using condoms... for example when masturbating i can keep him up forever... let me give you a little example... yesterday i was out and i met that girl that already mentioned last time we met she wants to have sex with me... so i ask her what her opinion on sex in a car was... she said okay and ten minutes later we were in my car and she was pulling my pants down and started blowing... then she was on top of me for like twenty minutes and then i felt how my dick started shrinking so i asked her if she'd blow again and then i was up again ... then i was on top and again we were banging for like ten to twnty minutes as i felt that my dick was shrinking again ... so i asked her again if she could blow it up again and then i fucked her doggie style... not in the ass but still doggie... well this time i really felt something when having sex with her and we were doing it for like fourty minutes if not more but all of a sudden i felt again how my dick was shrinking and i kept on jumping out so after some licking and kissing (she had her fun) i was once again sitting there without enjoying the pleasure of cumming when having sex... she even tried to blow once more but then she got tired of it and we went back to the disco... the problem is mainly because of the condom that's what i think but i'm not gonna have sex with a woman without it except i'm with her for more than half a year... i really don't know what to do about this... and it sucks badly... i haven't cum for over three and a half years now and it wouldn't have come to my mind normally but oh well yesterday brought me back to my little problem... please help me...

 

[the_untouched]

is there really nobody around knowing what i could do about this???

 

[Bobmi357]

Why don't you let her finish you off with a blow job, or a hand job? I can understand your statements about the condom, AND I can sympathize since condoms do pretty much the same thing for me. But I'm afraid your only other option is to enter a relationship where you both trust each other enough to do away with using the condoms entirely.

 

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[peachykeen]

You may be 'overstimulating' yourself with masturbation. I'm not trying to be funny, I am quite sure I have read this before. No woman's vagina, with or without a condom, will be able to provide you with as much stimulus (in terms of pressure) as you are likely getting with your hand. So, lay off it for a bit maybe.

 

[BlueSugar]

put a little lube in the tip of the condom... i heard it helps much.

Or use a thinner condom.

ridges work, and i've tried the new "twist" from trozan... they help.

 

[ReadyOne]

A position that can put maximum pressure on the penis (i.e. friction) is to start missionary and then have her legs/thighs pressed together (and put your legs outside hers).

Her vulva will be pressed together and the tops of her thighs will functionally extend her vagina.

It also presses you against hard against her clit. This position has helped some ladies cum (from stright fucking)when they otherwise couldn't.

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

Glad to hear you're practicing safe sex. Try not to concentrate if your dick is staying hard, and just enjoy the feelings. I think you're fucking entirely too long! My pussy would dry up, and I'd pick up a book to start reading longgg before the first 20 minutes you were going at it were up!