Need help spicing it up.

[mudvayne16]

I will be with my wife 10 years this February. I'm looking for ideas to spice things up not into swinging but open to anything else. Hopefully going to make a sex bucket list from this

 

[cynsue]

hmmmm, there are many things you can try. toys, machines. perhaps some fetishes. depends are what you are into. my husband and i enjoy fisting, and presently we are stretching my vagina. he loves to see me take big toys, etc. have you tried role playing? maybe some light bondage? try looking online for what turns both of you on. there are many sites out there with different fetishes. I know just learning what my husband is into, many times turns me on.

 

[DarkPleasures]

We need to know what you two have done/tried/like before we know what may be "spicy" and new.

 

[DarkPleasures]

Just found this gem!

How To thread

Hello this is my first post. I need sex advice lol. I'm married been with my wife for 9yrs married for 2yrs. We are both in our 20s, we normally have. Sex 4-5 times a week. My problem is trining to have more sex with my wife lol. We have no problem making each other climax, she doesn't feel like playing anymore after words and I will. She is fine with getting off once a day but I need to multipule times. I have no problem going down on her to get her ready or any other type of warming up. I'm also having a problem with only me anishiating sex. Any tips and advice. Is welcome thAnk you very much and sorry for the great wall o text lol.

If you're having sex four to five times a week, what other spice do you need? You also had a thread about having sex in front a friend with a camera, too.

 

[angel2612]

Well maybe forget about what you were doing and start fresh.....

Maybe send her pics on a cell.. introduce New porn, New toys, etc. Buy her something sexy she would look hot in.

Or even start discussing your fantasies and see if she bites... Sometimes the same.thing over years gets boring and once your done your done. Sex should be thrilling and exciting. It's what makes you crave more afterward...

Hubby and I play games.. ill text him or he will text me with something new to try. New positions or some hot scenario we roleplay later.. keep it simple. Sex isn't complicated. But if you add new visualizations it can heat things up a lot more.

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

Well maybe forget about what you were doing and start fresh.....

Maybe send her pics on a cell.. introduce New porn, New toys, etc. Buy her something sexy she would look hot in.

Or even start discussing your fantasies and see if she bites... Sometimes the same.thing over years gets boring and once your done your done. Sex should be thrilling and exciting. It's what makes you crave more afterward...

Hubby and I play games.. ill text him or he will text me with something new to try. New positions or some hot scenario we roleplay later.. keep it simple. Sex isn't complicated. But if you add new visualizations it can heat things up a lot more.

I agree Angel. The key is opening communication... talking will get you a lot more enjoyment than guessing