Need help, Love ROUGH sex, but I got Raped.

[TexDex1105]

So I have always had a healthy sex life. I love rough sex. Nibbling, scratching, control (to an extent), and sometimes to be choked. I got raped 2 weeks ago. I am afraid that I will never get my normal sexual desires back. I've always liked that sort of thing since I was 12. Am I screwed????

 

[RoryN]

It's an issue of guilt. If you don't feel any guilt over being raped, you have nothing to worry re: desiring rough sex.

The good news is that you can deal with feelings of guilt. They're very common for rape victims to have. (Cliff notes version: don't blame yourself.)

The bad news is that you are in the wrong forum for this. Run.

 

[PutitinYOmouth]

"you can't rape the willing"

 

[RobDownSouth]

Karen?

 

[badbabysitter]

So I have always had a healthy sex life. I love rough sex. Nibbling, scratching, control (to an extent), and sometimes to be choked. I got raped 2 weeks ago. I am afraid that I will never get my normal sexual desires back. I've always liked that sort of thing since I was 12. Am I screwed????

Nope,

dudes pretending to be chicks to talk about rape fantasies will never be screwed

you're safe

 

[Wok]

So I have always had a healthy sex life. I love rough sex. Nibbling, scratching, control (to an extent), and sometimes to be choked. I got raped 2 weeks ago. I am afraid that I will never get my normal sexual desires back. I've always liked that sort of thing since I was 12. Am I screwed????

Have you tried calling the police?

 

[redheadedtxn]

that is fucked up, man. did you call the cops?

 

[islandman]

So I have always had a healthy sex life. I love rough sex. Nibbling, scratching, control (to an extent), and sometimes to be choked. I got raped 2 weeks ago. I am afraid that I will never get my normal sexual desires back. I've always liked that sort of thing since I was 12. Am I screwed????

Since you were 12....

Another dude pretending to be a woman. Tsk, tsk.

 

[blobfish]

How do you know this person is pretending to be a woman? Men can also be raped. Assuming this person is female is evidence of latent misogyny.

 

[fgarvb1]

After a few years here one gets ...let us say cautious? about Newbies and their claims.

And for Damned good reasons!

 

[badbabysitter]

How do you know this person is pretending to be a woman? Men can also be raped. Assuming this person is female is evidence of latent misogyny.

Because in thier very first post on the site they claimed to have been raped two weeks ago

then they tell us they have always liked rough sex since they were 12... yes...TWELVE

then they wonder why they arent horny

somehow this person lives in the only place in North America where sexual assault victims dont get counselling

then they post in personals how horny they are, and how they're looking for a bi girl for thier " boyfriend"

most men who are raped, dont also claim to be women

 

[phrodeau]

So I have always had a healthy sex life. I love rough sex. Nibbling, scratching, control (to an extent), and sometimes to be choked. I got raped 2 weeks ago. I am afraid that I will never get my normal sexual desires back. I've always liked that sort of thing since I was 12. Am I screwed????

Yes, being raped generally means being screwed.