Need help conviencing my wife to experiment.

[Hubby-looking-for-fun]

I've read tons of stories of wives that perform in public, have sex with other men while their husbands watch, tease strangers and expose them selfselves in public. Any ideas how I can get my wife to start opening up more and perform some of these acts. I've tried but she's very closed minded to the idea. Just looking to add some excitment to our sex lives. Please help me.

 

[Andra_Jenny]

Divorce her.
Then you will both go wild and crazy for a while.

 

[Nicole]

You've READ stories, and sorry to say it but writers open up to their Fantasy worlds in their writing's.

Talk to your wife, that's the best thing to do, but remember that you both have to be comfortable with what you are doing. Sex in public isn't for everyone and no matter what you do say or beg, if she isn't comfortable then she isn't going to do it.

I mean come on people write about their wife's having sex with dogs, would you really want your wife to do that?

Good Luck.

 

[Docgtvt]

once again i agree with nicole. communication between spouses is the cornerstone of any viable relationship. it may take years before she consents, if she does. then again, it may be that it is just too against her moral grain. if you press it, it could ruin your relationship.
i have been blessed with an extrodinary wife. we began swinging less than a year after we got together, and our relationship has just grown and blossomed since. it has now been over 11 year since we got together, and in may we celebrate our sixth wedding anniversary. we hope to renew our vows in a few years.

 

[Docgtvt]

ps, i have missed my self imposed exile from the bb, but i am back now!

 

[Nicole]

Thank-you it's nice to be agreed with

Welcome back by the way.

 

[jcgirl]

You been reading too many Penthouse stories?

 

[Ambrosious]

I've read tons of stories of wives that perform in public, have sex with other men while their husbands watch, tease strangers and expose them selfselves in public. Any ideas how I can get my wife to start opening up more and perform some of these acts. I've tried but she's very closed minded to the idea. Just looking to add some excitment to our sex lives. Please help me.

Tie her up, or use mind altering substances like Tequila, then invite a local basketball team in to have a go at her. If she protests, she doesn't mean it, she'll learn to like it.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Yes of course writers "create."

But that does not mean that "all" the writers here "don't practice what they write about."

I do - we do (my wife and I) -

I tend to lean toward Nicole's observation though - "most" probably don't. They don't have "very wild" sexual lives.

Most people don't have very wild sexual lives.

But, but, but - that doesn't mean that "the experimenters" are so few - you can't find them.

When the Shebabe (my wife) and I go out - to one of our clubs - and it's got 70 or 80 couples on a given night - covorting and having fun - well, there's a bunch of folks out there having experimental fun.

My wife was raised and still is - Catholic. Even though our first shared sexual experiences were extremely hot - even though she was far from "a good girl," she had never overtly expressed any desire for such experimentation as you suggest. We worked into what and who we are now - over time - quite a few years really.

We started very slowly - in a bar we might play - "who would you do?" We'd talk about sex a lot. We began to rent porno movies and talk about them. This went on and on for years. Then one day you just make a pact to take the plunge - we decided to "investigate" a Swinger's club. Not do anything but investigate - kind of like undercover. We watched only. The next time - stuff happened.

Today I would not say in the least that we treat it casually - we don't. There is still a comfort barrier that must be hurdled before we can relax and have some serious fun.

But - we can talk about swinging and all that entails without a problem.

We're going on 11 or 12 years now and have had swinging experiences for about the past 6 - but you know, only a few per year.