Nancy Friday book, "My Secret Garden"

[agedmac]

OK, interesting book a few years ago where she wrote of women's sexual fantasies. Lots of different types, but another author claimed you could classify most women's fantasies. OK, ladies.....can you categorize your sexual fantasies.

So, I'd like to see if this thread will work.

Categorize the 'type' of fantasy you have (some of the types are dominance fantasies (both ways); being seduced one's; seducing the other person ones; etc.

Then tell us a little about that fantasy and why it may remain a 'go to' fantasy for you.

 

[Shelly2inme]

Multiple guy fantasy

I do think that MOST women have had fantasies about doing multiple guys. When I was still in school I walked in on my older sister pulling a train. The mental image stayed in my head and was masturbation fuel for years. When my husband started sharing me a few years ago I was able to live out the DP aspect and I have done my husband and two other guys taking turns with me. It is very rewarding but it is also complicated. My fantasy now is still to someday have a full-scale gangbang. But that is very complex and even though my husband and I would both like it to happen that fantasy might end up remaining just a fantasy. I have read Nancy Friday's book. I think it is a good read and hope that women that have not read it will hunt down a copy. That goes back a few year because it was old when I first read it about 4 years ago.

 

[xhxhxh]

Ohhh this thread has great potential. Great idea

 

[agedmac]

I do think that MOST women have had fantasies about doing multiple guys. When I was still in school I walked in on my older sister pulling a train. The mental image stayed in my head and was masturbation fuel for years. When my husband started sharing me a few years ago I was able to live out the DP aspect and I have done my husband and two other guys taking turns with me. It is very rewarding but it is also complicated. My fantasy now is still to someday have a full-scale gangbang. But that is very complex and even though my husband and I would both like it to happen that fantasy might end up remaining just a fantasy. I have read Nancy Friday's book. I think it is a good read and hope that women that have not read it will hunt down a copy. That goes back a few year because it was old when I first read it about 4 years ago.

True, it's a bit old, but the honesty of the fantasies was terrific. Congrats in living them out, but...>I confess some of the sexiest fantasies shared with me by women here on Lit remain fantasies, but are wonderful little windows into their sexuality. And ladies, if you'd rather not share them 'here'.....I'll take PM's.....grin. I try to write stories about women 'discovering' the kinkier side of life....fantasy or not. Good luck on the gang bang.......IF it happens, share it.....if it doesn't, share the fantasy! GRIN

 

[agedmac]

Ohhh this thread has great potential. Great idea

Love your tag line..it is at the core of what I want on this thread... a woman discovering her sexuality.

 

[Emmcee20]

I found the Women's Erotic Fantasies edited by Sonia Florens (2011 publ) a very stmulating and insghtful read. Contributions from women around the world - mostly UK and USA) on all manner of fantasy topics.

 

[jehoram]

Ms. Friday did another book some years later, showing how women's fantasies have changed.

She also did a book on male sexual fantasies. It was like Penthouse Letters, but more real.

 

[agedmac]

surely there are more responses

bump come on folks (especially ladies),

Tell us 1-2 favorite fantasies you have

 

[Sheana_V]

I'd be interested to know what the classifications the author claims there are.

For me I can think of:
- Seductress
- Tease
- Fucking a Stranger
- Being the mistress

 

[agedmac]

I'd be interested to know what the classifications the author claims there are.

For me I can think of:
- Seductress
- Tease
- Fucking a Stranger
- Being the mistress

Hmm, those seem like 'take control' women.....maybe even a tad 'Dom'?