Myth or Fact

[testosterone1]

I go to a forum that is dedicated to increasing the size of the penis.It is a very large site.There is a rumor that has developed that if a girl has sex with a guy with a large penis, then she will always crave the bigger penis.When I say large penis,I am talking about the ones that are capable of hitting the cervix.For example I was reading a thread over at that forum where a guy posted on a thread saying,"Well there goes another girl lost to a big penis."He was suggesting that this wasn't the first time this has happened it plays on the mind of us not so well endowed men that if our other half were ever have sex with a large guy,she would always know that a big penis was better and/or leave a guy to the guy that is the cervix bumper.
So my question is, is this scenario fact or fiction?Oh and I want the truth.Don't worry about hurting egos because depending on how many women reply to this thread,if there seems to be a pattern developing, then I am going to send all the guys,thousands of them to come over here and read what women have to say about this subject.

 

[Cattypuss]

Seriously, and I say this in the spirit of friendship, you need to stop obsessing about penis size.

SERIOUSLY.

Go and get some talking therapy.

SERIOUSLY.

 

[testosterone1]

I am representing many guys here.Actually a few thousand that go to the same forum I do and they all think this.This is a credible thread.Care to express your opinion? Did you ever have a cervix bumper with a big girth that turned you on more than the average to smaller guys?

 

[Cattypuss]

Ummm.. I don't think it's me that needs to lighten up!

Yes, I am a straight, sex-loving woman who has an opinion on cock size. And anyone who gives such an opinion to you (whatever that opinion) is just feeding your unhealthy obsession, so I'm keeping schtum.

 

[testosterone1]

Ummm.. I don't think it's me that needs to lighten up!

Yes, I am a straight, sex-loving woman who has an opinion on cock size. And anyone who gives such an opinion to you (whatever that opinion) is just feeding your unhealthy obsession, so I'm keeping schtum.

You seem to be somewhat hostile to this subject and or myself. So I think it
would be best that you ignore my threads.I also find it inappropriate to try to insult anyone who would think to post on this thread. Thanks much.

 

[bailadora]

There is a rumor that has developed that if a girl has sex with a guy with a large penis, then she will always crave the bigger penis.

Oh so because it's on the 'net, it's gotta be true, right?

When I say large penis,I am talking about the ones that are capable of hitting the cervix.For example I was reading a thread over at that forum where a guy posted on a thread saying,"Well there goes another girl lost to a big penis."He was suggesting that this wasn't the first time this has happened it plays on the mind of us not so well endowed men that if our other half were ever have sex with a large guy,she would always know that a big penis was better and/or leave a guy to the guy that is the cervix bumper. So my question is, is this scenario fact or fiction?

This was already answered in your previous thread, dude. For a lot of women, getting the cervix bumped is downright painful so the above premise is just fucking ridiculous in my opinion.

As for the hostility towards your subject - you've been told over and over ad nauseum that size doesn't matter and yet you still continue to obsess over it, so clearly the problem is all in your head (the big one). You are, of course free to post what you like, but given the free speech mentality of Lit, don't be surprised to find responses from some of those formerly helpful contributors to now be along the lines of "Get a life!"

 

[Eilan]

I've been trying (and kinda failing, unfortunately) to stay out of your threads, but for fuck's sake.

You want the truth? You need a new shtick. No, really. Threads like yours have been done ad nauseam since this forum was created, and, until recently, people have been more than patient with you. You're not going to get answers that are all that different from the several years' worth of answers that have already been posted here. Don't believe me? Do a search.

Would you and your small-dicked brethren prefer for the Lit ladies to tell you to give up sex altogether lest you inflict your laughably ineffective gerbilweenies on us? Because, honestly, it seems to me that what you're really after is validation for your shitty self-esteem. I think the idea of being humiliated for having a small penis turns you on, and you're just pissy because no one's playing your game. If that's the case, I'd suggest you start posting on the General Board.

You've gotten some wonderfully insightful answers to the threads you've started here, but it seems to me that whenever you've gotten an answer that doesn't fit with what you want to hear (IOW, all women are size queens who couldn't possibly be sexually satisfied unless some hung-like-a-porn-star stud is ramming their cervixes into their throats), you argue.

The bottom line? Cock size matters. But mostly to men, size queens, and men pretending to be women online. Those men who "lost another girl to a big penis"? They should try dating women instead. And they might even find sex to be pretty damned enjoyable if they pull their heads out of their asses long enough to enjoy the experience.

Pathetic troll is pathetic, and this is the last time I'm going to feed it.

 

[breezyblue]

I will answer your question from my perspective but I would really like for you to explain why it matters to you? Why do you care what other women think - shouldn't what is important to you be what your wife/SO thinks? In my opinion that should be what matters - in your personal relationships - not random women here who you will probably never have anything to do with sexually.

Of course the scenario you suggested is factual - it has happened before and it will certainly happen again. On the other hand does it happen to each and every guy who's SO has had a larger cock? of course not! This is why it is important to discuss this issue with your wife and her opinion is the only one that matters. Larger cocks are necessary to completely satisfy some women for whom size is very important/a turn on but I would say for the majority of women it is about the complete package of a lover and not only the size of the cock.

Also I might add that you should try to just be content and happy the way you are and not obsess over this topic anymore. Self confidence is sexy - you don't need validation from forum ladies to tell you small cocks are acceptable - believe it yourself and stop feeling inadequate, it will just wear your self esteem down.

 

[PoeticMusings53]

I am representing many guys here.

You're speaking for a tiny minority that have watched far too much porn and have distorted perceptions of what 'average' is on a neuroassociative level.

Actually a few thousand that go to the same forum I do and they all think this.This is a credible thread.

No it isn't. This is your third "my cock is small the world may as well have ended" thread.

Stop watching porn, get some help.

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

Why can't some of you people just answer the question or stfu. Be supportive or back off. You'd want support if your fucking twat was so big that you couldn't get any guy off.

To answer your question, it's a myth. Just as men, women are shaped differently. I'm a very small girl inside and anything average and above tears up the cervix and that shit is painful. It's like having labor pains all over again.

 

[bailadora]

Because the question has been answered many times over and he has received many insightful, thoughtful, patient and caring replies on his two other threads about the same fucking subject. He chooses not to believe the opinions he's already been given. And while it's been my experience that the regular posters on this board are generally good about being supportive, they are also not shy about telling someone they are being stupid and enough is enough!

 

[tonethebone]

It's heating up around here a bit

To answer the question. Size is all in the mind. My wife was with a few others before me. And all of them were bigger than me. She was not "ruined" for life LOL.

I'm on the short side of average. And we feel perfect together. The onlt one who ever worried about my size was me

 

[bailadora]

It's heating up around here a bit

Well, he did ask for opinions - he's just not getting the ones he wants to hear.

 

[tonethebone]

Well, he did ask for opinions - he's just not getting the ones he wants to hear.

As in seeking humiliation of some sort? Being cucked in the forum?

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

Because the question has been answered many times over and he has received many insightful, thoughtful, patient and caring replies on his two other threads about the same fucking subject. He chooses not to believe the opinions he's already been given. And while it's been my experience that the regular posters on this board are generally good about being supportive, they are also not shy about telling someone they are being stupid and enough is enough!

Then the adult thing to do would be to just not answer his post if his questions have been answered. Don't you think?

Also, with all due respect to senior citizen site members (I mean in membership age.) There are new site members everyday, some can potentionally become regular posters such as myself.

I have never personally seen the guy post a thread, so just because other members have does that mean my opinion doesn't matter and the rest of you need to hound him about it. If he does have a small penis complex the negative responses are of no help to him.

 

[Cattypuss]

You would understand if you looked at his other threads.

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

I'm new, so that's sort of irrelevent.

It's like demanding every new member that it's a requirement to read every thread before they speak. That is utterly ridiculous.

 

[CWatson]

Sir, I think I have good news for you.

Scientists have recently discovered that confidence and self-esteem are related to penis size. The more you fret and worry, the smaller it is. Conversely, the more cheerful and capable you feel, the larger it gets. Yes, it will actually grow in correspondence to your self-esteem. But that means you have to stop focusing on what hurts you and ails you, and start focusing on the good parts of your life. You need to abandon the clouds and admit the silver linings.

Try it sometime.

~CWatson
(in deadly earnest)

 

[SweetErika]

For example I was reading a thread over at that forum where a guy posted on a thread saying,"Well there goes another girl lost to a big penis."He was suggesting that this wasn't the first time this has happened it plays on the mind of us not so well endowed men that if our other half were ever have sex with a large guy,she would always know that a big penis was better and/or leave a guy to the guy that is the cervix bumper.

These women are probably leaving the penis forum guys for guys with bigger cocks because the forum guys have confidence issues. Women like confidence, and if a guy is always worried about his size (to the point where he feels the need to talk about it on a penis forum), he likely isn't going to have the confidence to be terribly attractive or fun to be around.

After all, wouldn't you (and your penis forum buddies) prefer to be with a woman who wasn't always down on herself, obsessed with how her body looked and didn't feel the need to bitch & moan about her body ad nauseum? Wouldn't you potentially consider leaving a woman who was obsessed with something like her labia or clit size for a woman who was confident in the way she looked, functioned and spent her time doing things that were productive, rather than wasting a bunch of time on a female genital forum?

In the example you gave, it's highly likely the woman left the small cock guy because she wanted someone with a better personality, more confidence or just a guy who wasn't obsessed with the size of his cock to the exclusion to the important things in life. Her new partner probably doesn't have those problems -- not because he has a bigger cock, but because he chooses to feel good (or at least better) about what he does have, how he conducts himself in bed and elsewhere, and he doesn't waste a bunch of time and energy worrying about one part of his body. If another guy with a smaller cock happened to have the same confidence and outlook, she probably would have left your penis forum guy for him, too.

I suspect your penis forum guys like to blame just about everything on cock size. A lot of people just love the victim mentality and playing that role whenever possible so they don't have to do the hard work or take responsibility for the important things in life. It's a lot easier to say, "she left me for a bigger guy because my small cock didn't do it for her" than face the reality of, 'she left me because I lack confidence, am obsessed with my cock and am so focused on my cock that I'm a lousy lover and partner.'

There are very, very, very few women who would leave a guy for the size of his cock. There are many, many, many who would leave a guy for having a poor attitude, lousy self-esteem, a cock obsession, being a bad lover because he's too focused on his cock, etc.

Hopefully you'll cut ties with your penis forum for your own wellbeing, but if you absolutely have to participate, I'm hoping you'll get honest with yourself and the THOUSANDS of low cock-esteem guys there and stop this 'she left me for a bigger cock' type of nonsense.

 

[DarkBee]

My brother once told me that having a big penis isn't all that great: most of the times you only end up hurting the woman you're with, as you hit her cervix, which isn't comfortable or nice at all, and you always have some centimeters left outside of her. Besides, a small penis is better for anal sex too.

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

Hopefully you'll cut ties with your penis forum for your own wellbeing, but if you absolutely have to participate, I'm hoping you'll get honest with yourself and the THOUSANDS of low cock-esteem guys there and stop this 'she left me for a bigger cock' type of nonsense.

To add to this; how do these men know, for sure, that the woman has left them for a guy with a bigger cock other than what she has said.

I'll tell you what, people will say the most hurtful untruthful things for validation purposes only.

 

[bailadora]

I'm new, so that's sort of irrelevent.

It's like demanding every new member that it's a requirement to read every thread before they speak. That is utterly ridiculous.

I wouldn't say it's a requirement, but IMO - I do think it's a wise move to learn the history of an issue/ board before flying in and telling people to stfu. Given Lit's free speech mantra - you can do exactly as you did, but by the same token we are free to return the favor and tell you that since you didn't bother to do some research, you really have no business making snap judgments.

Then the adult thing to do would be to just not answer his post if his questions have been answered. Don't you think?

Also, with all due respect to senior citizen site members (I mean in membership age.) There are new site members everyday, some can potentionally become regular posters such as myself.

I have never personally seen the guy post a thread, so just because other members have does that mean my opinion doesn't matter and the rest of you need to hound him about it. If he does have a small penis complex the negative responses are of no help to him.

You are free to answer him however you wish, as are the rest of the HT'ers. Since you are a new member and you aren't familiar with the environment, I'll offer a little overview of how the HT boards work. HT'ers are generally some of the most supportive, caring and helpful people I've seen bar none and that's based on lurking all over the Lit forum. But we're not "yes" people and we are very honest. We tell people what we really think, not necessarily what they want to hear. So if that's what you (you in the general sense) are looking for, you are in the wrong place. The man asked for opinions and he's getting them. They are just not the ones you or he think he should receive.

And while you may disagree, I think the majority of the regulars here have shown remarkable restraint and patience with test. Had this topic been on the GB, he'd have been ripped to shreds several times over by now both personally and over the topic. The bottom line is that if you can't handle or don't want the honest truth, you are better off not asking.

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

I wouldn't say it's a requirement, but IMO - I do think it's a wise move to learn the history of an issue/ board before flying in and telling people to stfu. Given Lit's free speech mantra - you can do exactly as you did, but by the same token we are free to return the favor and tell you that since you didn't bother to do some research, you really have no business making snap judgments.



You are free to answer him however you wish, as are the rest of the HT'ers. Since you are a new member and you aren't familiar with the environment, I'll offer a little overview of how the HT boards work. HT'ers are generally some of the most supportive, caring and helpful people I've seen bar none and that's based on lurking all over the Lit forum. But we're not "yes" people and we are very honest. We tell people what we really think, not necessarily what they want to hear. So if that's what you (you in the general sense) are looking for, you are in the wrong place. The man asked for opinions and he's getting them. They are just not the ones you or he think he should receive.

And while you may disagree, I think the majority of the regulars here have shown remarkable restraint and patience with test. Had this topic been on the GB, he'd have been ripped to shreds several times over by now both personally and over the topic. The bottom line is that if you can't handle or don't want the honest truth, you are better off not asking.

Please don't treat me as if I don't know what a forum board is like. They are all the same and consist of the same spectrum of people. I've come across quite a few pleasant people here which is why I stay and am so open to discussion.

As you can tell I'm all for telling people what I really think, that's not what bothers me. What bothers me is people feel the need to pound the nail further into the hole than they already have. Making the point over and over as if someone is a child and doesn't understand. I've seen that more than once here on these boards. If you can't get through to the person you stop trying.

In my experience, once my patience is finished with someone, I am done with them. Why even continue to respond to the guy? What do some of you get from that because certainly you're not doing him any good.

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

I apologize you disagree with harsh suggestion of STFU but some of you need it.

As do I.

/ends conversation here.

 

[bailadora]

I disagree that forums are all the same and since by your own admission you are new here, I gave you the benefit of the doubt and offered friendly advice about the workings of this particular board in order to explain why some posters seem to be have little tolerance with test and the topic. My own guess is that people are feeling the "need" to pound the point because the the he doesn't seem to or want to "get" it. I think people have tried to do well by test and have now lost patience and are responding in kind.You don't agree with they way some are responding, you see no purpose to it and that's perfectly fine. However, I don't think it's reasonable for you to expect others to not say anything just because that's how you choose to handle a particular situation.

And at that, I'll respectfully bow out. If you're inclined to continue debating, you can send me a pm. I've given my opinion already and my apologies to test for the hijack.