My own personal comment about Lesbians...

[MaddyBaby]

I have been reading over the boards the past few days, trying to get into posting more and making friends. One topic I came across really interested me, and intrigued me to respond. I hope I am not beating a dead horse, but someone made a post about not seeing how girls could be lesbians.

Since I am bi, and with a woman right now, I can easily answer that. Well... answer it from my opinion, anyway. Being only 20, you wouldn't think I would have much experience with love, but I have had more than I want. I have had many boyfriends, which have all turned out to be crumby. Some would say I have bad taste or bad intuition... or maybe even just bad luck, but I would tend to disagree.

My girlfriend I have now is the best thing that has ever happened to me. She has helped me through so many stupid and big obsticles in my life... I could never thank her enough. It's not just about "having pussy" for me... it's about an emotional bond... stronger than I have ever had with any guy. I have come to the conclusion in my life, that I will never find a man (no offense guys!) that will emotionally fullfill me like a woman does. Even though I am bi, I could easily stick with women the rest of my life... It is hard for some people to understand, but to all you women out there... I know that you know what I mean. Anyway... enough of my blab!


Mads

 

[cymbidia]

Welcome to Lit, Mads.
We're always glad to have a new and sure voice among us.

Just so you don't feel lonely, there are *many* bisexual women here, and a number of lesbians, too. As long as you're reasonably tolerant of our individual quirks and kinks, we will be tolerant of yours... as long as you give us details. Lots of juicy, slippery, fingers thrusting, bodies sliding, lips whispering down breasts shiny with the small daubs of sweat that sexual arousal brings kinda details... oh, and pics are good too.

 

[SweetBrat73]

Well I guess it just depends on they type of man/woman. I've never met a woman that could emotionally fullfill me. My SO (who is a man btw LoL) has so emotionally fullfilled me. I didn't think I'd ever meet a man that could do that either Goes to show ya that there is someone for everyone

Welcome to Lit MaddyBaby!!! Hope you enjoy yourself here!!!


Brat

 

[snneze]

I am a happily married woman, yet I am very bi-curious. I have been this way as long as I can remember. Only I grew up in a family in which it was never an option for me. So now I am here on lit exploring it more. I am sory you have been hurt by love, but it sounds like you have found someone to help you heal and the sex can't hurt. lol

 

[MaddyBaby]

Whoa.

*Is blushing heavily* Weeeeeell... I'll be able to give some awesome details in about a month! I would love to tell you all of my... escapades? LOL! I need more bi and les friends, seriously... In the town I live in..I have no one. Seriously. It sucks. *sigh* I love all you peeps! I now have a new home.


Mads

 

[MaddyBaby]

Livin' in a small town...

Well, where I live has a lot to do with my problems.. I am moving the Omaha NE area soon... into a BIG city.. with lots of options! Yeah, it's still the midwest, but hey... I know some people up there, and I feel like I can branch out.

 

[WhiteRose]

Male or female?

I wish I could have one of each. Men and women are very different, and they both have traits that appeal to me. The closest I've come so far to being with a woman is a kiss. It was so soft and so welcoming and so different from a man's kiss (which I also love for its strength and passion).

 

[MaddyBaby]

Oooh...

Kissing a woman... is just so... romantic.. and inviting! And... and... and... Man. I could go on and on about it. Kissing is a major thing for me. And my girlfriend... she is the best kisser in the entire world! It's so much more sensual.... *melts*

 

[WhiteRose]

Re: Oooh...

Kissing a woman... is just so... romantic.. and inviting! And... and... and... Man. I could go on and on about it. Kissing is a major thing for me. And my girlfriend... she is the best kisser in the entire world! It's so much more sensual.... *melts*

 

[MaddyBaby]

Cym..

You see, I should go on in detail about kissing for Cym.... it seems the best thing to do after her rant about wanting so much detail!

 

[HotXBunz]

MaddyBaby, welcome to Lit. You have found a great bunch of people here. I really felt what you were sharing about women.

My confession, I have been married three times, all for different reasons but male female bonded none the less. I have always (since I figured it all out when I was 13) in my heart considered myself a lesbian. I don't want to open the bi/lesbian definition debate here. What I am sharing is as confusing to me as to anyone.

My marriages were not sexless and sterile. I like cock. (have a box full of em) I like men. Two of my exes are still very very good friends. For 16 years (during two marriages) I had a lesbian lover. Sometimes she was close but more often over the years it was a long distance relationship. We made love a total of four times in those long years.

My heart and soul belonged to this woman. I was very upfront with the men in my life about her. There were times I could not have survived without her in my life.
For me it really isn't about who I have sex with. It is definitely a heart thing, who I love. A woman makes me feel complete. A woman gives me joy. It just feels right.

 

[MaddyBaby]

HotXBunz...

I officially love you now. Who cares about the marriages? You sound like my poor sister. *sigh* I completely understand about your situation... well, not about the marriage, but about the woman parts. I love women. But I still am very attracted to men, don't get me wrong. My girlfriend tells me I can't turn lesbian - "It'd be like a lesbian wanting to be a little straight!" LOL!!


Mads - to you HotXBunz

 

[alltherage]

Let me add my two lips to the others who said welcome. I am a bi woman and accept my attraction for and involvement with women as a necessary and beautiful part of my life. I don't waste my time explaining these feelings to people who don't have them. All I expect is to be respected as a person. There is nothing in the world that thrills me more than to have my lover orgasm on my tongue and fingers. The only thing that competes with that is having her draw the same response from me.

 

[MaddyBaby]

All...

You sound just like my girlfriend.... are you my girlfriend? Hahaha! Just kiddin'.

 

[Natalie Nessus]

We can not choose who we love, love chooses you


http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=67426

 

[MaddyBaby]

Ooo..

That was good, Nessus. And I agree. Which is why even when my girlfriend and I hadn't talked for months on end..... we ended up finding each other again.

 

[HotXBunz]

Kisses to you too MaddyBaby. The "turning Lesbian" thing always makes me laugh. Like it was something a fruit did, turning colors as it ripened or a bruise that turns as it heals. It reminds me of getting cooties. Oh My God! I ate pussy I am going to turn, what, ripe, or black and blue, or lesbian!

I know it is convoluted but it makes sense to me here in the wee hours.

The marriages...who knows about those. I joke about being the perfect training ground for husbands. I get them, train them and turn them loose to be good husbands to some nice deserving woman. What my husbands learned in bed would be enough to make most women think they had found heaven.

 

[MaddyBaby]

Hm... Help me, HotXBunz? LOL

Uhm... yeah. I need some reeeeeally personal advice. Perhaps you could like... help me out... give me some tips... PM me? Wait.. I'll PM you.... *goes to do it*