my Master and hypnotism

[jennyleigh]

i have to tell about the latest thing that my Master and i enjoy. i am wondering if anyone else does this successfully? i must say He is beyond my wildest dreams! He has been able to hypnotize me completely, give me false memories that seem truly real, make me believe that i am someone else in RP, then bring me back to myself. it just blows my mind. another thing is, He completely controls my orgasms. when He says that i won't feel the need to cum, i literally won't. or, He could be really giving it to me and i won't need to cum, but by His mere suggestion when He kisses me, i will cum a ton! He is able to put me under quite easily, and i just love love love the total control He has over me, being able to delve into my conscious and sub conscious. and yes, for nay-sayers out there, this is a very trusting LTR with much love and respect. He would do nothing to harm me, i have no doubt in that. so, please tell, any other hypnonists/people that love being hypnotized?

 

[subtleone]

My master has hypnotised* me a few times, a few times he hypnotised me to sleep and at other times it works brilliantly. He has used it mainly for assistance with training and for a little fun - like you say total control is fab!! I too am in a completely trusting LTR - I guess that help a little with the ability to go under.

* He has no former experience at hypnotism so it is all self taught and practiced on me, so when it works it is a bit of beginners luck. I would love it if you shared your tips so that I might help him become more accomplished.

 

[jennyleigh]

Master will be reading this, i'm sure, and i will ask if He will post some as well. i'm so glad that there are others out there that love this as much as He and i do!!!

 

[subtleone]

Master will be reading this, i'm sure, and i will ask if He will post some as well. i'm so glad that there are others out there that love this as much as He and i do!!!

Thank's Jen will look back in on this thread later

 

[Netzach]

I have a passing and beginning interest in hypnotism and NLP. I've learned most of what I know about induction from Yoga class, actually.

 

[Cassiel670]

Well, first of all, I do have to admit that I'm lucky, and my kitten is very easy to hypnotize. However, from what I know (and i'll freely admit, I'm just an educated beginner), since you've already been hypnotized by your master once, subtleone, it should get progressively easier to do it again each time.

IMHO, a M/s relationship is the perfect setup for hypnosis, because that underlying trust and obedience is already there. The first time I gave Jenny suggestions, she had already just naturally gone into a trance just from my tone of voice and touch. Granted, that's not going to happen for everyone, but bear in mind that it could... you just have to learn what signs to watch for.

If the person doing it has no formal training, I highly suggest (if they haven't already) going to the library and getting a few books on hypnosis. Some of them are too advanced and won't help, but there are quite a few I've found that help with techniques to put the subject under, and I've even seen one with a few session scripts. For the times I've had to put Jenny under, I've never used anything complicated... just making sure to keep your tone of voice calm and soothing, tell them to relax, using some method that makes it a gradual process (creeping up their body, increasing as you count down, etc.). After she's gone under, I usually do something to make sure she's further under, like having her picture herself on a beach, and walking into the water, relaxing more as she gets farther from shore.

There are a number of ways to figure out if it's worked or if you need to go further. I always know Jenny's under if her eyes are closed, with obvious eye movement behind her eyelids. You can test it by giving a simple suggestion, then making sure it sticks. And really, as far as suggestions, the sky is the limit, so long as it's something that your subject would be willing to do. I've given Jenny a number of simple suggestions, such as how things will affect her or not affect her sexually, I've given her phrases that make her incredibly turned on just through hearing them. You just have to be very clear about the instructions, and if you're going to do something liek what I did for the RP, there's no problem with periodically asking the subject if he/she understands.

Again... this is just my experience, and I don't claim to be an expert.

 

[BiBunny]

I don't know much about hypnosis, admittedly, but what I can remember from my undergrad psych classes suggests that it's fairly easy to hypnotize someone who WANTS to be hypnotized. It's supposedly a bitch to put someone under who doesn't want to be hypnotized. So if someone's willing, it's not usually that big a deal.

The psych major in me, though, has to warn everyone to be very careful playing with this. I don't know much about it, but I do know that anyone who uses it clinically has to be licensed. Make sure everyone involved is aware of the risks beforehand because I think it's possible to really fuck somebody up if you don't know what you're doing. I'm not saying don't do it, but be aware of the risks, k?

 

[Marquis]

This is something I've always wanted to get into.

I've hypnotized people before, with limited success. I've seen it done by others in some truly amazing ways.

Can you recommend any good resources?

 

[Cassiel670]

I haven't explored resources enough to be able to give good recommendations, but I've found that local libraries have surprisingly good selections of hypnotism books. The ones that are best (not focused to actual medical purposes) fall around 154.7 on the DD system. Those are the ones I've found that give good 'how to' instructions.

 

[Nameless_Rose]

self-hypnosis

I've always been really interested in hypnosis, both erotic and otherwise. A few months ago I stumbled on this website called **********.com, which is full of downloadable mp3s, most of which are BDSM oriented, and quite a few of them free. I loaded a bunch onto my ipod and experimented. To be honest, I haven't had much success with them, but I think that was because until recently I was living at school and had a roommate who was always going in and out of the room. It was hard to completely relax with her always walking in on me. I did get a whole bunch of fun mp3's from this site though, and now that I 'm home for the summer and have a room all to myself I'm going to give them another try. You or your Master might want to check the site out. Even if you don't use the recordings, it might give you some cool ideas and the site also has some nice inductions. Good luck with everything!

http://**********.com/index.php

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

I find this concept fascinating, although I've never done this myself. The one time a therapist tried to hypnotize me I was very young and reluctant so it did not work. I would also like to learn more about Neuro-Linguistic Programming. These links may have been posted on Lit before but here goes:

I found a link to this author who wrote a book called Look Into My Eyes: How to Use Hypnosis to Bring out the Best in Your Sex Life:
http://www.peter-masters.com/peter_masters/

I also found an essay by him called Understanding Submission here:
http://www.peter-masters.com/articles/undersub.html
It's long but worth it. He gives an explanation on three types of subs which helped me clarify my thinking on the matter. BTW, I think I'm the psychological sub that he speaks of. He does point out that he is just defining his framework that he works with and he understands there are many definitions out there.

Ivy

 

[Sir_Winston54]

... getting a few books on hypnosis. Some of them are too advanced and won't help, but there are quite a few I've found that help with techniques to put the subject under, and I've even seen one with a few session scripts.

If you wouldn't mind, some specific title/author suggestions would be helpful to those of use who are interested. Thanks in advance!

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

I've always been really interested in hypnosis, both erotic and otherwise. A few months ago I stumbled on this website called **********.com, which is full of downloadable mp3s, most of which are BDSM oriented, and quite a few of them free...

http://**********.com/index.php

That looks like a great resource. Thanks.

Ivy

 

[cobblestonefog]

I've always been really interested in hypnosis, both erotic and otherwise. A few months ago I stumbled on this website called **********.com, which is full of downloadable mp3s, most of which are BDSM oriented, and quite a few of them free. I loaded a bunch onto my ipod and experimented. To be honest, I haven't had much success with them, but I think that was because until recently I was living at school and had a roommate who was always going in and out of the room. It was hard to completely relax with her always walking in on me. I did get a whole bunch of fun mp3's from this site though, and now that I 'm home for the summer and have a room all to myself I'm going to give them another try. You or your Master might want to check the site out. Even if you don't use the recordings, it might give you some cool ideas and the site also has some nice inductions. Good luck with everything!

http://**********.com/index.php

Wow, what a great resource.
I'll definitely be trying this.

 

[July06]

I've always been really interested in hypnosis, both erotic and otherwise. A few months ago I stumbled on this website called **********.com, which is full of downloadable mp3s, most of which are BDSM oriented, and quite a few of them free. I loaded a bunch onto my ipod and experimented. To be honest, I haven't had much success with them, but I think that was because until recently I was living at school and had a roommate who was always going in and out of the room. It was hard to completely relax with her always walking in on me. I did get a whole bunch of fun mp3's from this site though, and now that I 'm home for the summer and have a room all to myself I'm going to give them another try. You or your Master might want to check the site out. Even if you don't use the recordings, it might give you some cool ideas and the site also has some nice inductions. Good luck with everything!

http://**********.com/index.php

i agree, thanks for the link

 

[Nameless_Rose]

I'm glad I could be of some help. I actually found the link to ********** on a site called Gallahad's Safe Haven, a sort of info site for both Doms and subs. I would highly recommend the site to anyone. It has a ton of articles and a huge list of BDSM links.

http://www.gallahadssafehaven.com/

 

[wenchhh]

whew! GREAT references and reading! I have bookmarked this site, and think that every new sub, and dom, for that matter, should read this stuff. It was wierd to identify myself (psychological submissive here too, Ivy. ) but helped me understand my needs and reactions. Thanks!

I find this concept fascinating, although I've never done this myself. The one time a therapist tried to hypnotize me I was very young and reluctant so it did not work. I would also like to learn more about Neuro-Linguistic Programming. These links may have been posted on Lit before but here goes:

I found a link to this author who wrote a book called Look Into My Eyes: How to Use Hypnosis to Bring out the Best in Your Sex Life:
http://www.peter-masters.com/peter_masters/

I also found an essay by him called Understanding Submission here:
http://www.peter-masters.com/articles/undersub.html
It's long but worth it. He gives an explanation on three types of subs which helped me clarify my thinking on the matter. BTW, I think I'm the psychological sub that he speaks of. He does point out that he is just defining his framework that he works with and he understands there are many definitions out there.

Ivy

 

[jennyleigh]

If you wouldn't mind, some specific title/author suggestions would be helpful to those of use who are interested. Thanks in advance!

As long as it gives 'how to' advice, really any book will do. I'll take a look at the book I've been using once I run across it tonight and post it here, but honestly any book with 'how to' information will do. The real key is to try, and to try again.


~~~this post was done by my Master while He was over just to clarify~~~

 

[Barbara_Talbot]

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[SweetErika]

I'm reading The Secrets of Self Hypnosis by Bruce Goldberg. I've discovered the hypnotherapy I've had in the past hasn't worked well because I didn't like the induction technique, so I'm pleased this book offers quite a few other options and lots of highly adaptable scripts.

I'll be damned if I didn't start to go under just reading some of the scripts a few times! Although I think I'm an especially easy target because I truly believe it's a powerful tool, really want to use it in my life, and am familiar with similar techniques like meditation and affirmations.

I don't have enough knowledge to feel comfortable using hypnosis on someone else, though. While people won't do anything they're strongly opposed to while hypnotized, it can bring some serious issues to the forefront that I don't feel equipped to deal with in the healthiest way.

 

[subtleone]

Thanks Cassiel670 & Jen
I shall pass the thread on to my Master - he doesnt normally frequent Lit as he sees it as my haven but there are so many good links on here I reckon I must!

 

[Nameless_Rose]

a new link

I found a really good link just now. It's more for self-hypnosis, but I suppose it could be applied to the other kind. Reading this made me feel a lot better, because I haven't yet really gotten into a hypnotic state. Now I know thjat it just takes practice

http://www.bcx.net/hypnosis/induct.htm

 

[subtleone]

My Master has just asked if we can attach pdf files as he has a few saved but cannot remember original source. I've never seen a pdf attachment, is it possible?

Ok after a few moments searching the net I found this site containing several free books - one of which was in my Master's library, hope it proves useful
http://www.hypno1.co.uk/

Still wouldn't mind an answer re pdf's though.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Thought this bump might be appreciated...