My Husband's Best Friend: Menage a Trois

[davenjenn]

I have always been a cheater and at college loved nothing better than to have sex with other men when my husband wasn't watching. Every so often I did have boyfriends who did like to watch literally. All this stopped when I met Dave. He knew from the start I was a slut and didn't mind at all, especially if I told him all about my affairs or let him buy me clothes for a particularly hot date. I think I have a bit of a clothes fetish

In the past few weeks Dave's and my relationship has been taken to new heights since Steve has moved in with us. Steve is Dave's best friend and has just broken up with his wife. From the start Dave encouraged me to have an affair with Steve and now the three of us live together and I sleep with both the guys.

Dave thought the guys on Lit would like to hear more and I think the women would too. I would also like to hear from anyone (women especially) who have similar relationships

Jennifer

 

[Hipshot1554]

I have always been a cheater and at college loved nothing better than to have sex with other men when my husband wasn't watching. Every so often I did have boyfriends who did like to watch literally. All this stopped when I met Dave. He knew from the start I was a slut and didn't mind at all, especially if I told him all about my affairs or let him buy me clothes for a particularly hot date. I think I have a bit of a clothes fetish

In the past few weeks Dave's and my relationship has been taken to new heights since Steve has moved in with us. Steve is Dave's best friend and has just broken up with his wife. From the start Dave encouraged me to have an affair with Steve and now the three of us live together and I sleep with both the guys.

Dave thought the guys on Lit would like to hear more and I think the women would too. I would also like to hear from anyone (women especially) who have similar relationships

Jennifer

I did. With a married couple but it was only for a short time.

 

[cowboyup6977]

My BFF for a while I love to watch my husband with her before I join in

 

[Mtnmike]

You three are lucky to have understanding SO. Hope it all continues down the good path.

 

[policywank]

When I was in first year university two of the guys I hooked up with periodically were friends with one another and we all lived in the same Dorm. They both knew. It was all casual with no issues.

In 2nd year they moved in with another guy who dropped out late in the first semester. At the time I wasn't really liking my living arrangements so I moved in with them. Almost right away, I resumed hooking up with both of them. I would just go into one of their bedrooms (or they into mine) and crawl into bed with them. Sometimes I stayed there for the night and sometimes I went back to my own room. But the intimacy always stayed in the bedroom. We didn't really hang out other than at home and even at home it was mostly platonic without even much in the way of displays of intimacy. Again they both knew about it and didn't seem to care. We all dated other people and just kept quiet about the fact that I fucked both of the regularly.

One of the guys was more of a lady's man while the other was quite reserved. Interestingly, the lady's man was actually what I would call almost a bit squeamish. He didn't like to hear about any other guys and for the most part only wanted to be with me if I hadn't already been with someone else that day/night. If he did make an exception it would be only for vaginal penetration. Meanwhile the other guy loved going down on me - before, after or during sex - and seem to be even more enthusiastic about it if I had just fucked another guy (be it a date or the other roommate). In general the idea of sloppy seconds seemed to get him going. I suspect that if it had been up to him and I there would have been regular threesomes (sadly there were none).

At times it was sort of surreal. I could bring a date home and my roommates were friendly and generous and nobody would ever know anything was up. I could go to my room with my date and have unbridled sex and the minute he left I often crawled into bed with the reserved roommate who anxiously await the opportunity to eat my pussy and fuck me a couple more times. To this day he remains one of my favourite lovers and I would say that he was the first one who made me aware of the diversity in men. Too often we slip into a stereotypical view of what men do or don't want and while both were interested in sex it wasn't as straightforward as that. Moreover the reserved guy - who was neither squeamish nor possessive - was arguably a much more generous lover and person.

 

[musher1]

I have always been a cheater and at college loved nothing better than to have sex with other men when my husband wasn't watching. Every so often I did have boyfriends who did like to watch literally. All this stopped when I met Dave. He knew from the start I was a slut and didn't mind at all, especially if I told him all about my affairs or let him buy me clothes for a particularly hot date. I think I have a bit of a clothes fetish

In the past few weeks Dave's and my relationship has been taken to new heights since Steve has moved in with us. Steve is Dave's best friend and has just broken up with his wife. From the start Dave encouraged me to have an affair with Steve and now the three of us live together and I sleep with both the guys.

Dave thought the guys on Lit would like to hear more and I think the women would too. I would also like to hear from anyone (women especially) who have similar relationships

Jennifer

Picture please a good slit should always have prof

 

[Nylonian]

I have always been a cheater and at college loved nothing better than to have sex with other men when my husband wasn't watching. Every so often I did have boyfriends who did like to watch literally. All this stopped when I met Dave. He knew from the start I was a slut and didn't mind at all, especially if I told him all about my affairs or let him buy me clothes for a particularly hot date. I think I have a bit of a clothes fetish

In the past few weeks Dave's and my relationship has been taken to new heights since Steve has moved in with us. Steve is Dave's best friend and has just broken up with his wife. From the start Dave encouraged me to have an affair with Steve and now the three of us live together and I sleep with both the guys.

Dave thought the guys on Lit would like to hear more and I think the women would too. I would also like to hear from anyone (women especially) who have similar relationships

Jennifer

Definitely. I would love to read stories about the experiences you guys have had. Any threesomes yet? My partner and I have an open relationship but we haven't had any serious flings with anyone lately due to life. I am a bit envious of your situation actually.

 

[davenjenn]

Picture please a good slit should always have prof

Picture please a good slit should always have prof

I don't do pics. I am in my 40s, about 110lbs with shortish dark hair (at least these days)

 

[drobert44]

When I was in first year university two of the guys I hooked up with periodically were friends with one another and we all lived in the same Dorm. They both knew. It was all casual with no issues.

In 2nd year they moved in with another guy who dropped out late in the first semester. At the time I wasn't really liking my living arrangements so I moved in with them. Almost right away, I resumed hooking up with both of them. I would just go into one of their bedrooms (or they into mine) and crawl into bed with them. Sometimes I stayed there for the night and sometimes I went back to my own room. But the intimacy always stayed in the bedroom. We didn't really hang out other than at home and even at home it was mostly platonic without even much in the way of displays of intimacy. Again they both knew about it and didn't seem to care. We all dated other people and just kept quiet about the fact that I fucked both of the regularly.

One of the guys was more of a lady's man while the other was quite reserved. Interestingly, the lady's man was actually what I would call almost a bit squeamish. He didn't like to hear about any other guys and for the most part only wanted to be with me if I hadn't already been with someone else that day/night. If he did make an exception it would be only for vaginal penetration. Meanwhile the other guy loved going down on me - before, after or during sex - and seem to be even more enthusiastic about it if I had just fucked another guy (be it a date or the other roommate). In general the idea of sloppy seconds seemed to get him going. I suspect that if it had been up to him and I there would have been regular threesomes (sadly there were none).

At times it was sort of surreal. I could bring a date home and my roommates were friendly and generous and nobody would ever know anything was up. I could go to my room with my date and have unbridled sex and the minute he left I often crawled into bed with the reserved roommate who anxiously await the opportunity to eat my pussy and fuck me a couple more times. To this day he remains one of my favourite lovers and I would say that he was the first one who made me aware of the diversity in men. Too often we slip into a stereotypical view of what men do or don't want and while both were interested in sex it wasn't as straightforward as that. Moreover the reserved guy - who was neither squeamish nor possessive - was arguably a much more generous lover and person.

Yes, men can be complicated too.......

 

[policywank]

Yes, men can be complicated too.......

I don't think I ever adopted the simplistic notion that "all men are the same" or "all men want the same thing", but I would say that it was a reasonable prevalent perspective at that time and remains so today. And as is so often the case with these types of things the people who espoused those notions didn't seem to have much basis for it - they were just often repeated assumptions which people didn't both to question or explore. Many of my most satisfying sexual experience have been with men who don't fit those stereotypes. In a way they are the hidden gems and selfishly I am just as happy if other women don't really it.

 

[drobert44]

I don't think I ever adopted the simplistic notion that "all men are the same" or "all men want the same thing", but I would say that it was a reasonable prevalent perspective at that time and remains so today. And as is so often the case with these types of things the people who espoused those notions didn't seem to have much basis for it - they were just often repeated assumptions which people didn't both to question or explore. Many of my most satisfying sexual experience have been with men who don't fit those stereotypes. In a way they are the hidden gems and selfishly I am just as happy if other women don't really it.

"don't really -----it?"

Thanks, I do believe you are right.

 

[Islander55]

I hope this thread keeps going. I find the topic very interesting. I have never lived with two men but I have dated several men at the same time. I am thinking this could work quite well with older people. I think almost any woman can take care of two men and there could be a lot of advantages in daily life to have an extra person around.

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

May this thread never die.

 

[sterculius]

When I was in first year university two of the guys I hooked up with periodically were friends with one another and we all lived in the same Dorm. They both knew. It was all casual with no issues.

In 2nd year they moved in with another guy who dropped out late in the first semester. At the time I wasn't really liking my living arrangements so I moved in with them. Almost right away, I resumed hooking up with both of them. I would just go into one of their bedrooms (or they into mine) and crawl into bed with them. Sometimes I stayed there for the night and sometimes I went back to my own room. But the intimacy always stayed in the bedroom. We didn't really hang out other than at home and even at home it was mostly platonic without even much in the way of displays of intimacy. Again they both knew about it and didn't seem to care. We all dated other people and just kept quiet about the fact that I fucked both of the regularly.

One of the guys was more of a lady's man while the other was quite reserved. Interestingly, the lady's man was actually what I would call almost a bit squeamish. He didn't like to hear about any other guys and for the most part only wanted to be with me if I hadn't already been with someone else that day/night. If he did make an exception it would be only for vaginal penetration. Meanwhile the other guy loved going down on me - before, after or during sex - and seem to be even more enthusiastic about it if I had just fucked another guy (be it a date or the other roommate). In general the idea of sloppy seconds seemed to get him going. I suspect that if it had been up to him and I there would have been regular threesomes (sadly there were none).

At times it was sort of surreal. I could bring a date home and my roommates were friendly and generous and nobody would ever know anything was up. I could go to my room with my date and have unbridled sex and the minute he left I often crawled into bed with the reserved roommate who anxiously await the opportunity to eat my pussy and fuck me a couple more times. To this day he remains one of my favourite lovers and I would say that he was the first one who made me aware of the diversity in men. Too often we slip into a stereotypical view of what men do or don't want and while both were interested in sex it wasn't as straightforward as that. Moreover the reserved guy - who was neither squeamish nor possessive - was arguably a much more generous lover and person.

I suspect this was the way humans were before we became "civilized".

 

[policywank]

"don't really -----it?"

Thanks, I do believe you are right.

oops it was supposed to say "don't realize it"

 

[twister947]

I hope this thread keeps going. I find the topic very interesting. I have never lived with two men but I have dated several men at the same time. I am thinking this could work quite well with older people. I think almost any woman can take care of two men and there could be a lot of advantages in daily life to have an extra person around.

Money would be the sticking point for me.

 

[policywank]

I hope this thread keeps going. I find the topic very interesting. I have never lived with two men but I have dated several men at the same time. I am thinking this could work quite well with older people. I think almost any woman can take care of two men and there could be a lot of advantages in daily life to have an extra person around.

Agreed. Both guys knew that they were pretty much free to fuck me any night that I was home and not with someone already. There was never a time that fulfilling their sexual desires was taxing on me. Meanwhile there were frequently times when I'd had sex one of those two men or a date, they had finished and I wanted more. That has nothing to do with their adequacy. They were both good lovers, but female physiology is just different.

I would like to experience it more fully where I have a fully open and intimate relationship with both men. I've done it for brief periods when a friend/lover visits us but that isn't really integrated into our lives as a full poly arrangement.

 

[Islander55]

Money would be the sticking point for me.

I would think money would be an advantage. You would need to work out the details but a 3 way split of expenses should benefit everyone. Something that would need to be worked out in advance and probably in a formal manner. Sex aside, I think many older people would benefit from group living. People to talk with, share chores, etc. I know it becomes difficult to adjust to other people as we get older and set in our ways but there are many advantages. And if you could work out the sexual dynamics, you might even forget about some of those aches and pains.

 

[twister947]

I would think money would be an advantage. You would need to work out the details but a 3 way split of expenses should benefit everyone. Something that would need to be worked out in advance and probably in a formal manner. Sex aside, I think many older people would benefit from group living. People to talk with, share chores, etc. I know it becomes difficult to adjust to other people as we get older and set in our ways but there are many advantages. And if you could work out the sexual dynamics, you might even forget about some of those aches and pains.

I agree, in principle; the devil is in the details.

 

[Islander55]

I agree, in principle; the devil is in the details.

It is always the fine print that gets you. That type of living arrangement could work well. I rather liked it when I was in college or maybe I was happy to be away from parental guidance.

 

[davenjenn]

Definitely. I would love to read stories about the experiences you guys have had. Any threesomes yet? My partner and I have an open relationship but we haven't had any serious flings with anyone lately due to life. I am a bit envious of your situation actually.

We have tried an actually threesome and it didn't go especially well. But what works for me is having so much sex and for them knowing they can have sex just about any time they want

 

[Nylonian]

We have tried an actually threesome and it didn't go especially well. But what works for me is having so much sex and for them knowing they can have sex just about any time they want

Fair enough! I guess a lot goes into making a threesome work. The chemistry and the mood have to be right. As long as you're happy with the arrangement and everyone is happy. Would love to hear more via stories if you choose to write.

 

[twister947]

I really like the idea of polyandry, and have given it a lot of thought, but just can't get past the realization that living with one is hard enough; two (or more) will never work for me.

 

[davenjenn]

I really like the idea of polyandry, and have given it a lot of thought, but just can't get past the realization that living with one is hard enough; two (or more) will never work for me.

Neither Dave nor Steve are very jealous types and we have only been trying this for a couple of months. I have always had an open marriage though

 

[readinggp]

I have always been a cheater and at college loved nothing better than to have sex with other men when my husband wasn't watching. Every so often I did have boyfriends who did like to watch literally. All this stopped when I met Dave. He knew from the start I was a slut and didn't mind at all, especially if I told him all about my affairs or let him buy me clothes for a particularly hot date. I think I have a bit of a clothes fetish

In the past few weeks Dave's and my relationship has been taken to new heights since Steve has moved in with us. Steve is Dave's best friend and has just broken up with his wife. From the start Dave encouraged me to have an affair with Steve and now the three of us live together and I sleep with both the guys.

Dave thought the guys on Lit would like to hear more and I think the women would too. I would also like to hear from anyone (women especially) who have similar relationships

Jennifer

Envious of your situation and glad it’s working well for you all. My gf and fantasize about having a “houseboy” for her pleasure. And clean the house for us when they’re not fucking, lol.