My girlfreind i think is into this stuff, But am i?

[Footballboy]

My girlfreind likes to be dominant in bed and i usual get out of it and do the usual. I want to make her happy. I want someone to help me get a good look at a life with a dominant girlfreind in bed. I think i might like it but you can never tell. Please someone give me a good idea of what BDSM is really like. Thank you

 

[bunny bondage]

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[Netzach]

It so depends.

Life with a woman who's dominant in bed might mean you just periodically have to let her have her way.

Won't kill you, assuming her way isn't homicidal. I'd talk to her about what she wants to you find out if it is.

Life with a girlfriend who's dominant in and out of bed might be a little different.

You might find yourself wanting to please her more and more, doing things and saying things you wouldn't do or say under any other circumstances. It's kind of up to her to create that magic though, and it only happens when you grow to trust her implicitly, which often takes time.

You might find yourself pretty annoyed and turned off by that whole prospect. Not everyone is submissive.

(Sadly, kinda)

 

[BlueSugar]

Not everyone is submissive.

(Sadly, kinda)

::little giggle::

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Does she want to tie you up and torture your balls?

or does she want to be on top and have you her way?

I think we need a tad bit more info to help your cause

 

[serpentofthefog]

hmmm, sounds like the problem that I am having with my boyfriend right now, he doesnt like to be dominated anymore either. Like what has been said, if she just wants to dominate in bed that's completely different than taking outside of the bedroom. D/s is all about trust. Do you really trust her strapping you to the bed or a chair and having her way with you? If so, why don't you just go with it? It could be fun.....

 

[IdRiNk2mUcH]

i tell my bitch what she can do...and she does it well!

 

[Dionysus2003]

Communication - that's what it's all about. To the bitter end. But as people have pointed out - there is a big difference between her being dominant once in a while in bed, and the D/s lifestyle. You just have to talk it over with her, and find out what she wants, and if that is compatible with your desires.

Good luck

 

[Saint_Sinner]

See if she can take as good as she gives,..........she just might be trying to give you a hint