My Gay Freind

[BiCuriousGeorge]

where to start... im 23 and bicurious. ive never really done anything with a guy, but i find myself sometimes thinking of what it would be like to do certain things with a guy. at first it was just a passing thought but the older i get the more i think about it and have recently begun honestly considering hooking up with someone, even if for nothing else than to scratch an itch. i recently met a guy who is gay. he has commented about thinks i like, like tv shows or movies, saying, "you know, most people that like that are closet gay". i truly dont beleive im gay, i perfer women to men, but i cant say im not curious. is my meeting him a sign? could this be the guy i experiment with? and how would something like that even begin? how do you expail you are only interested in certain things, and that this could all be entirely a one time thing? ive got so many questions...
i am at the mercy or your collective wisdon and experience. thnx

 

[caela]

I can't really tell you how to handle your sexuality but as someone that falls into the "curious" category herself I can tell you that if you decide to experiment that you need to be totally honest with the other person. It's not fair to them to let them think that you might be able to give them more than you can so you owe it to them to be up front and let them know that you're both inexperienced with members of the same sex and that there are only certain activities you may wish to engage in.

You may get shot down quite often but being up front and honest will also help to ensure that when you do meet someone willing to experiment with you that neither they, nor yourself, will be hurt.

 

[Betticus]

Might try the GLBT forum. They would be able to give you better advice.

 

[WriterDom]

BDSM stands for Bi Dick Sucking Male?