My first bi experience

[oneblueye]

hey ...

I would suggest first suck your first cock, ideally in a 69 position. When you eventually try anal I suggest you clean up with Fleet. Makes everything so much better. When it’s good and you experience a prostrate orgasm from getting fucked it’s absolutely amazing like a whole body orgasm.

Not everyone is amenable to that particular position, especially for a first time because of the intensity of the sensations and how easy it is too lose oneself in the waves of pleasure and lose focus on what your obligations are in that position.

 

[Harley55]

So what’s wrong with losing oneself in waves of pleasure. That’s half the fun.

 

[Lateagain71]

Well I'm still waiting for mine.

 

[Pewe11113]

My first experience was with a 50-year-old mail mail and I was younger we were stroking each other off in public in the car and back to his place as he sucked me off I went looking for him not other way around

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

So what’s wrong with losing oneself in waves of pleasure. That’s half the fun.

LOL!
while that is true --, there is another individual to be considered that's (presumably)
working hard at pleasing their partner and not receiving while the other one is lost.

 

[slideboy]

Try and leave labels alone too. I say I am gay and I am happy with that. I have heard so many 'curious' guys who are afraid of experimenting because they might be labelled 'homosexual' just because they have sucked a cock 'once' or get turned on because their wife has fingered their arse and 'society' says if a man enjoys having his arse played with then he must be a homosexual. That is almost like trying oysters once and then you are forever an Oyster eater when in fact you tried them and found that once a year is enough!

Have fun

Labels are becoming more and more passe, thankfully. Sexuality is a spectrum, and I have got a feeling that most of us are really in the bisexual middle. That might seem unlikely, but when you separate breeding from sexual expression, it doesn't seem so impossible.
This is my first post here so I hope it comes out ok.

 

[Opusrocks]

I am so in the same boat as you!

 

[Wageslave]

With Covid as it is, I don't think I'll get my first bi experience for a long time

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

My first bi experience was years ago. Like some of you, it started while spending the night with a friend. It started while looking at his Dad’s Playboy magazines, each of stroking ourselves it evolved to stroking each other, then sucking each other. Eventually we were discovered by his Dad and we were terrified. Right after graduating high school I stayed one more night at his house. We didn’t do anything, but while relaxing in his parents hot tub his father came out. We were waiting for my friend (I later found out he was watching from inside) when his Dad brought up what we were caught doing. He asked if I’d ever sucked a man’s cock and I said no. He asked if I was interested and I admitted I was. He pulled himself out of the hot tub and bulled down his trunks. I took his cock in my hand and then lowered my mouth onto it. I sucked him to completion and swallowed his load.

I’ve sucked many cocks since then, sometimes with shame and guilt afterwards, sometimes promising myself I’d never do it again. I always go back to doing it, and loving it. I’m still waiting to find the right guy to take my anal cherry, but keep getting stood up when I try to hook up. Sometimes men can be such pricks...lol

 

[SuperSissy]

I’m with Klaus, no labels, please, they cannot encapsulate the complexity of sexuality, and only serve to keep people in artificial cages.

 

[BlackSatinKnight]

I’m with Klaus, no labels, please, they cannot encapsulate the complexity of sexuality, and only serve to keep people in artificial cages.

Agreed!

 

[haventdonethat]

Just a bit of rambling . . .

When younger, there was a group of us guys who would jerk off together. There was lots of cum shooting all over but nothing more.
One of those guys and I became jerk off buddies for a summer; we jerked ourselves and jerked each other. Again there was lots of cum shooting all over but nothing more. I would have sucked him but was petrified about being pointed out as gay. I know, one of those damn labels again!
My first really bi experience actually taking a cock in my mouth was years later with my BFF and my wife.
I loved it, he loved it and she loved it!

 

[AllenJames]

Yeah, what it

Just a bit of rambling . . .

When younger, there was a group of us guys who would jerk off together. There was lots of cum shooting all over but nothing more.
One of those guys and I became jerk off buddies for a summer; we jerked ourselves and jerked each other. Again there was lots of cum shooting all over but nothing more. I would have sucked him but was petrified about being pointed out as gay. I know, one of those damn labels again!
My first really bi experience actually taking a cock in my mouth was years later with my BFF and my wife.
I loved it, he loved it and she loved it!

I am pretty sure I walked away from a couple of those sessions - now, of course, I wonder if I should have stayed!

 

[AlexBailey]

I am pretty sure I walked away from a couple of those sessions - now, of course, I wonder if I should have stayed!

That just reminded me of a moment I haven't thought of for many years: I was hanging out with a male friend when I 'walked away'. I was quite young but I remember thinking about how I left because I was not attracted to -him-, not because I was concerned that he was a boy. That might be my first memory of being aware of my bisexuality, earlier than my previous memory. Thanks!


Cross dressing is different. Those memories go back further than I can remember.

 

[Hitchiker69]

"I’ve sucked many cocks since then, sometimes with shame and guilt afterwards, sometimes promising myself I’d never do it again. I always go back to doing it, and loving it"

I can relate 100%. Once I tried cock, even though the experience wasn't always great, the act of sucking cock is heavenly. Sometimes I got used or lied to, but I can't quit. Cock is addicting

 

[ConradBird]

I can relate

"I’ve sucked many cocks since then, sometimes with shame and guilt afterwards, sometimes promising myself I’d never do it again. I always go back to doing it, and loving it"

Yes. There have been times in the past where I've sucked cock, and even though I loved it at the time I felt tremendous guilt afterwards. I sucked a guy off in a motel once and he told me that try as we might, and even though the desire seems to wane sometimes, the urge NEVER goes away. He was right. I've wanted it to, but the desire is there, Sometimes tolerable, and sometimes so intense that it drives me crazy.

Gay porn only intensifies that desire. I try to stop watching that, too, but can't seem to stop.

 

[ColoradoCurious43]

Once you get past the challenge of having your first encounter keep exploring. I was curious for years had my first encounter about 5 years ago. Felt a bit surreal afterwards processing it but eventually wanted it again. Fast forward to today, I’ve been with about 10 other guys since one a gay guy I’ve had a regular thing with for about 4 years. I’m not only a full fledged cock sucker but I have been having anal - getting fucked and love that too. I’m married, wife has no idea that I now love sex with a man more than a women. I’ve had a couple group sessions with 2 to 3 other guys. One of my fond memories is kneeling on the floor taking turns sucking 3 cocks and trying to get all 3 in my mouth at once. It’s amazing when I look back and think that I went from just being curious about 5 years ago to now consumed with wanting to have sex with a man. COVID has certainly limited things unfortunately.

Thanks, I’m jealous....would consider myself vers not that I have the experience yet to qualify but hopefully soon, enjoy watching 3ways imagined being in the middle has to be a hell of sensation override, or to find a trans woman, best parts of a woman but than add her surprise omg just getting hard thinking of those beautiful girls

 

[ColoradoCurious43]

You want my mouth or my cherry ass? Just asking so I know what to tell the other guy.

Your mouth!!

 

[ColoradoCurious43]

That's very much my point of view too

Agree on that as well, wish I had a woman who was into it!

 

[ColoradoCurious43]

Once upon a time I would have agreed with you but after experiencing cock with transgender women, I will take a transgender woman any day over a cisgender woman. Sucking her cock and getting fucked is the supreme sexual experience.

Ultimate fantasy if only could find one of those unicorns

 

[ColoradoCurious43]

Interesting reading the stories and thanks for sharing.

If you are really stuck and want to find out what it is like to touch a man, as mans cock, or try anything else; I suggest you try an erotic massage/escort with a man who allows you to touch him in return. At least you can get to touch a man without all the pressure of having to see them again and the shame one might feel or a whole lot of other emotions about expressing oneself sexually. Using google to find 'erotic man to man massage in [name of city/town] and hopefully they will take cash if you don't want it to show on your credit card/bank account. I suggest this because you might be afraid, married, single and wondering. At least this way, hopefully, no one gets hurt (deliberately anyway) and then you have the opportunity to continue on your curious way.

Try and leave labels alone too. I say I am gay and I am happy with that. I have heard so many 'curious' guys who are afraid of experimenting because they might be labelled 'homosexual' just because they have sucked a cock 'once' or get turned on because their wife has fingered their arse and 'society' says if a man enjoys having his arse played with then he must be a homosexual. That is almost like trying oysters once and then you are forever an Oyster eater when in fact you tried them and found that once a year is enough!

I hope my post is taken in the spirit that I wanted to put across as I am not always good with my words: enjoy the pleasure that the male body can give and receive and enjoy and with whom ever you get pleasure from! Relax and take it as slow as you need in order to discover that you are a human being with all sorts of wants, needs and desires.

Have fun

Thanks for the advice, like the idea of massage going into more big fantasy for me! Labels aren’t for me to judge others, I’ve always thought live your life the way you want as long as it don’t negatively affect others who cares, but I’ve got to hide and do this in secret

 

[Escierto]

Ultimate fantasy if only could find one of those unicorns

They are out there. On apps like Tinder and Grindr and if you have a taste for a foreign flavor, Pinalove and ThaiFriendly. My girl is a beautiful Filipina transgender.

 

[bi_musings]

My first bi experience was years ago. Like some of you, it started while spending the night with a friend. It started while looking at his Dad’s Playboy magazines, each of stroking ourselves it evolved to stroking each other, then sucking each other.

I can relate to this part. Not so much the other - but I do admit to finding it hot.

I've not experienced more since then - but have been thinking about it of late.

 

[Delawareguy]

My first experience was with a 50-year-old mail mail and I was younger we were stroking each other off in public in the car and back to his place as he sucked me off I went looking for him not other way around

A run-on sentence that has multiple misspellings and makes little to no sense. Why even bother to write that mess?

 

[Delawareguy]

Labels are becoming more and more passe, thankfully. Sexuality is a spectrum, and I have got a feeling that most of us are really in the bisexual middle. That might seem unlikely, but when you separate breeding from sexual expression, it doesn't seem so impossible.
This is my first post here so I hope it comes out ok.

"Bisexual", "breeding", and "sexual expression" are all different things. They do not require being separated. They are already separate and unique. A man wanting to have a sexual experience with another man is much different than a man who wants to have a romantic, intimate and loving relationship with a man. Gay men want the latter. Most men who just want to experience sucking a cock want no parts of that.

Labels aren't passe. Gay still means gay and straight still means straight. But the term "bisexual"gets used to define too many different things. The term bisexual is often used as an easy and convenient shorthand (of a kind) to define a sexual experience with someone of the same sex. But it really is more than that. A person who is truly bisexual is open to more than just a sexual experience with someone of either sex. They want (or are open to) an intimate and loving relationship with either sex, that includes kissing, cuddling, romance and a joined lifestyle. I doubt most men who say they are "curious about sucking cock" want any of those things. They aren't bisexual. They just find something arousing about the idea of sucking a cock.

To put it another way, a man isn't gay simply because he likes to suck cock. (As if that is the only defining characteristic of a gay man.) It's far more than that. He is gay because he wants to love a man and be loved by a man. Who ever says they are curious about that? No one.