My first bi experience

[Escierto]

I’m 60. My first experience was about 6 years ago. Loved it and it opening my eyes to what I’ve been missing from my sex life. Since then I have had a regular thing, a couple times a month, with a few guys where I can satisfy my craving and need to suck a mans cock and get fucked. Now I can say I prefer sex with a man more than a women. I fought the urge for years afraid I might love it and it turns out I do. Anyone whose curious, go for it. Life’s to short. I now enjoy sex as much as I did in my teens and early 20’s.

That’s exactly how I was after my first experience being bottom for a transgender woman. After that I was hooked and I can never go back to cisgender women.

 

[Delawareguy]

I’m 60. My first experience was about 6 years ago. Loved it and it opening my eyes to what I’ve been missing from my sex life. Since then I have had a regular thing, a couple times a month, with a few guys where I can satisfy my craving and need to suck a mans cock and get fucked. Now I can say I prefer sex with a man more than a women. I fought the urge for years afraid I might love it and it turns out I do. Anyone whose curious, go for it. Life’s to short. I now enjoy sex as much as I did in my teens and early 20’s.

My first thought after reading your post was that the women you have been sexual with were uncomfortable with or insecure about themselves, sex or their own sexuality. I think many women are that way. They like sex and enjoy it but are unwilling to be outwardly sexual, for whatever reason. Some women are not comfortable even talking about sex, much less have the ability or will to be sexually overt, provocative or seductive. I think women like this are able to enjoy sex but mostly as a passive participant with a man or woman) who initiates and controls the sexual experience. (I think the popularity of the movie "50 Shades of Grey" gives some support to my assertion here about women and their desire to be passive about sex and to simply enjoy the experience without the need for them to be sexual in any way.)

If this is true of the women you have been with (or are sexual with), would you still PREFER sex with men?

For me, I prefer sex with women but have a desire to suck a nice cock. I am also very curious about and would like to experience being fucked but I would never say I would prefer that over being with a woman. I would prefer being with a woman who likes to be sexual, giving, seductive, creative, and adventurous. Having said that, I will admit that my wife is much like the typical women I have described above and is very insecure and uncomfortable being sexual. She never has a desire to just please me. Sex is very one-way for us. She is very multi orgasmic and loves sex and our sex life but she never sucks me and never just wants to give me a good time without it being mostly about her and her orgasms. She does not enjoy sex just for the experience of being sexual. She treats my cum like nuclear waste rather than as something to enjoy seeing, feeling or tasting. it is something to have to be dealt with after sex, especially if my orgasm was from her jerking me off and not contained inside of her pussy. Her attitude makes sex a less than thrilling experience for me and I would prefer being with a woman who was more comfortable with herself, sex and sexuality, but I would never say that I would prefer being with a man over her or any other woman.

 

[Delawareguy]

That’s exactly how I was after my first experience being bottom for a transgender woman. After that I was hooked and I can never go back to cisgender women.

I would have the same question for you as I but to the previous poster but for me, the fact that you use the term "cisgender" makes whatever point your are trying to make irrelevant. In this case you mean a woman used an artificial penis to fuck you. It makes no difference what gender she thinks she is or wants others to see her as.

The term cisgender reminds me of people who feel the need to tell me what pronouns to use when referring to them. When the first thing someone says is what pronouns they want to be referred to as, I don't really care what they have to say after that. Who wants to have to remember how not to offend someone? Who wants to have anything to do with anyone who thinks they are so fucking important to everyone else that they can demand others use ONLY their preferred terms? No one.

 

[Escierto]

I would have the same question for you as I but to the previous poster but for me, the fact that you use the term "cisgender" makes whatever point your are trying to make irrelevant. In this case you mean a woman used an artificial penis to fuck you. It makes no difference what gender she thinks she is or wants others to see her as.

The term cisgender reminds me of people who feel the need to tell me what pronouns to use when referring to them. When the first thing someone says is what pronouns they want to be referred to as, I don't really care what they have to say after that. Who wants to have to remember how not to offend someone? Who wants to have anything to do with anyone who thinks they are so fucking important to everyone else that they can demand others use ONLY their preferred terms? No one.

What is so hard about treating people how they want to be treated? What if I constantly referred to you as she or her? Or referred to you as an old white man exercising his privilege to lord it over everyone else? You probably wouldn’t like it.

 

[OldFred65]

My first bi experience was at age 42. After our kids left home my wife, a former prostitute, suggested we become home nudists, and then invited some of our friends to join us when they came to visit. Nudity with friends led eventually to swinging, but only straight swapping at that time. One Saturday we went out for a walk and dropped in on an older gentleman who's wife had passed away several weeks earlier. When we asked how he was doing, he told us that one thing that he missed was that even after his wife had gotten sick and couldn't have regular sex, she still helped him out by giving him hand jobs and/or blow jobs. My wife asked if she could help him out and he, and I, both approved. Watching her sucking and stroking him, I started stroking myself and when my wife saw me she asked if I wanted to suck him. I was on my knees taking him in my mouth immediately and then she started sucking me. We both came at almost the same time and he had a huge load saved up which I swallowed. We stayed the rest of the day and eventually my wife suggested that he and I try fucking each other. I was hooked immediately and have not stopped sucking cock or getting fucked ever since.

 

[meflash]

My first bi experience was at age 42. After our kids left home my wife, a former prostitute, suggested we become home nudists, and then invited some of our friends to join us when they came to visit. Nudity with friends led eventually to swinging, but only straight swapping at that time. One Saturday we went out for a walk and dropped in on an older gentleman who's wife had passed away several weeks earlier. When we asked how he was doing, he told us that one thing that he missed was that even after his wife had gotten sick and couldn't have regular sex, she still helped him out by giving him hand jobs and/or blow jobs. My wife asked if she could help him out and he, and I, both approved. Watching her sucking and stroking him, I started stroking myself and when my wife saw me she asked if I wanted to suck him. I was on my knees taking him in my mouth immediately and then she started sucking me. We both came at almost the same time and he had a huge load saved up which I swallowed. We stayed the rest of the day and eventually my wife suggested that he and I try fucking each other. I was hooked immediately and have not stopped sucking cock or getting fucked ever since.

WOW!!! Great wife your lucky to have her and a nice steady friend to suck!

 

[Delawareguy]

What is so hard about treating people how they want to be treated? What if I constantly referred to you as she or her? Or referred to you as an old white man exercising his privilege to lord it over everyone else? You probably wouldn’t like it.

I treat all people the same, and that is with kindness, respect and honesty. I think that is how people would want to be treated. I do not find it "hard" to do that. What I do find hard to do is having to remember what everyone expects to be referred to as, especially when the pronoun they prefer does not match their biological sex and/or their outward appearance (which is usually the case for anyone who feels the need to tell me what pronouns they demand I use for them). And of course if someone should use the "wrong" pronoun they take the opportunity to make an issue of it....instead of just letting it go and not making a big deal about it...because for them it HAS to be ALL about THEM. Their gender identity must be first and foremost over everything else. Honestly, I couldn't care less what gender someone wants to think they are. They can think they are a walrus for all I care. It does not matter to me, nor should it. But they want to try to make it matter to me. That's when it becomes an problem.

You can use any pronoun you feel you have to when referring to me. I am definitely male and appear male by any standards but if you want to refer to me with "she", you go right ahead. Whatever term you use does not change my gender. I will not be offended by the term you want to use, or take issue with it. But please allow me to think you are a jackass and also a egocentric, self-righteous fool who has self-esteem issues, much the same as I view men who insist on having everyone think they are women and vice-versa.

"Old white man, exercising my privilege".......I should have seen that coming. And again, you can call me what you like. But I will laugh at you. Because you are a deluded fool.

Stay a clown my friend. Live a long life of delusion and think the opinions of everyone else are wrong and unworthy, simply because they aren't progressive enough and (of course) don't match yours. See how far that gets you in life.

But then again, that's what you live for, isn't it? Making sure you let everyone know you are better than them and more righteous!!!

 

[Escierto]

I treat all people the same, and that is with kindness, respect and honesty. I think that is how people would want to be treated. I do not find it "hard" to do that. What I do find hard to do is having to remember what everyone expects to be referred to as, especially when the pronoun they prefer does not match their biological sex and/or their outward appearance (which is usually the case for anyone who feels the need to tell me what pronouns they demand I use for them). And of course if someone should use the "wrong" pronoun they take the opportunity to make an issue of it....instead of just letting it go and not making a big deal about it...because for them it HAS to be ALL about THEM. Their gender identity must be first and foremost over everything else. Honestly, I couldn't care less what gender someone wants to think they are. They can think they are a walrus for all I care. It does not matter to me, nor should it. But they want to try to make it matter to me. That's when it becomes an problem.

You can use any pronoun you feel you have to when referring to me. I am definitely male and appear male by any standards but if you want to refer to me with "she", you go right ahead. Whatever term you use does not change my gender. I will not be offended by the term you want to use, or take issue with it. But please allow me to think you are a jackass and also a egocentric, self-righteous fool who has self-esteem issues, much the same as I view men who insist on having everyone think they are women and vice-versa.

"Old white man, exercising my privilege".......I should have seen that coming. And again, you can call me what you like. But I will laugh at you. Because you are a deluded fool.

Stay a clown my friend. Live a long life of delusion and think the opinions of everyone else are wrong and unworthy, simply because they aren't progressive enough and (of course) don't match yours. See how far that gets you in life.

But then again, that's what you live for, isn't it? Making sure you let everyone know you are better than them and more righteous!!!

Here you are having a meltdown because I used the word cisgender. Hmmmmm, a word comes to mind, starts with snow....

 

[tml20]

A while back finally had the opportunity to have my first bi experience. Couldn’t believe how tuff and long it took to achieve but safety was priority.

Of course nervous as hell but so excited! He made it easy, undressed me caressed and stroked my cock, licked, sucked it till it was so hard and ready to burst! Warned him so he backed of and just sucked on my balls and licking my sack down to my crack, oh hell I was in heaven, he be rubbing and pinching my nipples, actually enjoying that surprisingly. He went back to sucking my dick and balls and started to play around my anus, my reaction surprised me but wanted him to be inside me.

He wanted me to fuck his mouth so who was I not to oblige him! Sliding my cock down his throat, pressing my balls against his chin, he would lick my balls!! Omg he was a good cock sucker! Wasn’t long after that I blew my cum down his throat and he sucked me dry and cleaned me up.

Rolled me over and got my first rim job, that was enjoyable, never would have thought that, ran his cock up and down my crack but no condom so disappointed wanted that so bad.

He went back to sucking my cock, and got to see my first cock in person, oh my it was scary but exciting. It was huge 8”, maybe more, decent girth I was so tempted to suck it but I didn’t, he wanted to jerk our cocks of together which felt great and he came all over my cock, balls and stomach. He licked his cum off me and sucked me dry one more time.

Afterwards I felt indifferent, weird I think, but afterwards I didn’t have the urge to try again. Not sure if I was just trying to process or what. But now I jerk off to that all the time, especially him rimming me or pressing his cock against my hole. But this time I imagine him inside me balls pressed against mine and his hand stroking me while fucking me.

Thanks had to talk about it finally

OMG so hot, thanks for sharing!

 

[milkandhoney27]

With a friend. We didn't consider it bi or gay. Far from it. We hadn't had sex with women yet and were trying to find out what it would be like: blow jobs and fucking. We used to lie on our sides and 69 each other, being careful to not cum because neither one of us wanted the other guy's cum in our mouths. So we'd work each other up. There is nothing to condition you to love sucking dick than having someone's mouth simultaneously working on your own hard-on. I remember twice he didn't stop in time and came. It shot out so hard and fast I felt like I couldn't keep up. Both times I ran to the bathroom, gagging, and spit out the mouthful, as he apologized profusely. We also tried fucking each other in the ass, but we didn't know about lube. This was back before the internet. I couldn't even get my cock into his ass. His asshole just wouldn't give. He, however, managed to get his dick up my ass several times. And it hurt like hell. But I only remember him cumming once in my ass. If I could go back in time knowing then what I know now, I would have sat him down, blown him and gratefully swallowed his load, and...I would have gotten us some lube!

 

[Delawareguy]

Here you are having a meltdown because I used the word cisgender. Hmmmmm, a word comes to mind, starts with snow....

Meltdown? Like I said, I don't care what words you use. But the words you use say something about you, so I was not surprised you also use the phrase 'white privilege'. I guess you miss my point, but that's okay.

I am hardly a snowflake. Only people who get their feeling hurt easily can be referred to as snowflakes. People that use the term 'cisgender' often fall into that category, it seems.

 

[J1biboi]

With a friend. We didn't consider it bi or gay. Far from it. We hadn't had sex with women yet and were trying to find out what it would be like: blow jobs and fucking. We used to lie on our sides and 69 each other, being careful to not cum because neither one of us wanted the other guy's cum in our mouths. So we'd work each other up. There is nothing to condition you to love sucking dick than having someone's mouth simultaneously working on your own hard-on. I remember twice he didn't stop in time and came. It shot out so hard and fast I felt like I couldn't keep up. Both times I ran to the bathroom, gagging, and spit out the mouthful, as he apologized profusely. We also tried fucking each other in the ass, but we didn't know about lube. This was back before the internet. I couldn't even get my cock into his ass. His asshole just wouldn't give. He, however, managed to get his dick up my ass several times. And it hurt like hell. But I only remember him cumming once in my ass. If I could go back in time knowing then what I know now, I would have sat him down, blown him and gratefully swallowed his load, and...I would have gotten us some lube!

I think a lot of us would love to be able to go back knowing what we know now, I surely would. I would have loved to have had a friend like you had when I was younger.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

The term cisgender reminds me of people who feel the need to tell me what pronouns to use when referring to them. When the first thing someone says is what pronouns they want to be referred to as, I don't really care what they have to say after that. Who wants to have to remember how not to offend someone? Who wants to have anything to do with anyone who thinks they are so fucking important to everyone else that they can demand others use ONLY their preferred terms? No one.

Wow, there's a bucketload of anger to dump on the boards.

 

[Delawareguy]

Wow, there's a bucketload of anger to dump on the boards.

Bob, dont you have a flashlight or two that need the batteries replaced? Mind your business.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

I can't talk about my first bi experience on here. Lit rules.

 

[OldFred65]

WOW!!! Great wife your lucky to have her and a nice steady friend to suck!

Actually, I/we only got together a couple times after that. He got a young gay guy to move in with him as his "caregiver". But, my wife told our swinging/swapping friends that I had become a first rate cock-sucker and butt fuckee, and the husbands all wanted to fuck my face and ass while the wives played with my wife. Eventually they decided that if I could do it, they could too, and our swinging/swapping parties became bisexual orgies.

 

[oneblueye]

hey ...

I can't talk about my first bi experience on here. Lit rules.

yeah, when you have to describe something like that you have to use BROAD concepts and ideas to get the picture across to someone and the story doesn't lend itself to terms as broad as you and I have to use to describe some of our experiences.

 

[Andi37]

Question

So what should a guy do to prep for anal sex? (Receiving) I have heard of enemas but have no idea how/what that’s all about. Can anyone enlighten me on how to prepare for anal sex??

 

[mijbob79]

first bi experience

I have not had my first yet, but have been thinking about it for a couple of years
We have not dreamed of this years ago but now the drive to try is getting stronger. I am looking forward to it, just need to fine the right guy. I often wonder what it will feel like taking the first cock in my mouth. To feel it's warmth as I take the head between my lips. I wonder how much of it I will be able to take down my throat. I want to hear the noise that he makes as I work his cock over in my mouth. I want to feel him get harder and as his ball get tighter just before he cums and fills my mouth with his wondeful hot cum. To hear his breathing get faster and faster as he gets closer to cumming.An dto be able to drink it all down getting every last drop of his love.

 

[bhurry]

I have not had my first yet, but have been thinking about it for a couple of years
We have not dreamed of this years ago but now the drive to try is getting stronger. I am looking forward to it, just need to fine the right guy. I often wonder what it will feel like taking the first cock in my mouth. To feel it's warmth as I take the head between my lips. I wonder how much of it I will be able to take down my throat. I want to hear the noise that he makes as I work his cock over in my mouth. I want to feel him get harder and as his ball get tighter just before he cums and fills my mouth with his wondeful hot cum. To hear his breathing get faster and faster as he gets closer to cumming.An dto be able to drink it all down getting every last drop of his love.

Morning. Just north of you in the Stevens Point area. Be more than happy to discuss anything you care to know about that (first) time. Just been there. Well a little while back Dam. Give me a shout

 

[Harley55]

I have not had my first yet, but have been thinking about it for a couple of years
We have not dreamed of this years ago but now the drive to try is getting stronger. I am looking forward to it, just need to fine the right guy. I often wonder what it will feel like taking the first cock in my mouth. To feel it's warmth as I take the head between my lips. I wonder how much of it I will be able to take down my throat. I want to hear the noise that he makes as I work his cock over in my mouth. I want to feel him get harder and as his ball get tighter just before he cums and fills my mouth with his wondeful hot cum. To hear his breathing get faster and faster as he gets closer to cumming.An dto be able to drink it all down getting every last drop of his love.

You pretty much described my first experience which was about 5 years ago after many years of being curious. It was great and only regret is I waited so long. Am now a full fledged cock sucker and bottom. Can’t get enough of sucking cock and getting fucked. A whole new way for a guy to enjoy sex. Hope you find the right guy for your first time.

 

[Delawareguy]

I have not had my first yet, but have been thinking about it for a couple of years
We have not dreamed of this years ago but now the drive to try is getting stronger. I am looking forward to it, just need to fine the right guy. I often wonder what it will feel like taking the first cock in my mouth. To feel it's warmth as I take the head between my lips. I wonder how much of it I will be able to take down my throat. I want to hear the noise that he makes as I work his cock over in my mouth. I want to feel him get harder and as his ball get tighter just before he cums and fills my mouth with his wondeful hot cum. To hear his breathing get faster and faster as he gets closer to cumming.An dto be able to drink it all down getting every last drop of his love.

You say you have never sucked a cock but it seems you have a very vivid imagination of the experience you want to have with one.

"Every last drop of his love"....makes it sound like you want to marry the guy and not just suck his cock.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Though I've never done an enema I do recommend it before anal sex. I've had guys fuck me when my colon was full, and it ruined the experience. He couldn't penetrate hardly at all. But it was a spontaneous, spur of the moment thing, so I couldn't have prepped if I wanted to.

I just googled 'how to do an enema', and there's lots of info there. Maybe you could buy a kit and practice at home.

Also, I suggest some lube or lotion once you're ready to take his cock. Makes for easier entry.

Good luck and enjoy!

 

[ColoradoCurious43]

They are out there. On apps like Tinder and Grindr and if you have a taste for a foreign flavor, Pinalove and ThaiFriendly. My girl is a beautiful Filipina transgender.

Thanks for the ideas, definitely have a taste for everything, wish on my trip to Phuket I was open minded for a experience like this

 

[ColoradoCurious43]

Question for the original poster ColoradoCurious43

Im still pretty new to this and so Im pretty cautious

What websites and such have you found work out here in Colorado (Im in louisville).

What has worked for you?

I have tried
adam4adam - just too much advertisements.
Squirt.com - met two guys (never went that far..Im cautious and still learning), seems like the most reliable
Silverdaddies - like the site, just not much action
Doublelist - lots of weirdos and deadends here ( I have tried several posts for mutual oral)

Took quite a few years to achieve, tried a lot of those sites as well with no luck will pm ya