My ex wants me back.....!

[Guest]

I'll spare you the gory details, but in the end, he hurt me a lot. Not that I hadn't been hurt before, but this was pretty different.

I go away, move to a place I didn't really want to go, had a hell of a time finding a job, dipped into depression till I could finally find a shitty one, lick my wounds, begin to feel better, but still not happy where I am, and.....!

HE calls to announce his undieing love, and wishes there's some way we can 'work it out'.

Sheesh.....will it ever end? I mean the confusion.

Yes I still love him.

Yes I'd love to move back.

No, I can't move back to the way things were before.

I just wrote him a letter. Snail mail. It'll be a while before I hear results.

I'm glad I like things slow, or this would be driving me more crazy than it already is.

Nuff said.

Thanks for the vent.

Moon

 

[Spinaroonie]

Negotiate. I'd come back for 4 thousand dollars and a first post.

 

[marksgirl]

If it were me I'd tell him to FUCK OFF!

 

[lisalove]

Oh my.

It's good you like things slow. Please don't make any hasty decisions. I don't know any of the details but my gut instinct is saying No No No.

 

[Guest]

 

[cybergirly]

K, Moon you know your strong enough and better off with out him. Just remember that.

 

[Guest]

Negotiate. I'd come back for 4 thousand dollars and a first post.

I thought about that.....but I think I'm gonna make him court me first..... then I may

/snip: tell him to FUCK OFF!

 

[Guest]

Oh my.

It's good you like things slow. Please don't make any hasty decisions. I don't know any of the details but my gut instinct is saying No No No.

yea, my instincts are saying the same thing.....

Thanks,

Moon

 

[bored1]

I'll spare you the gory details, but in the end, he hurt me a lot. Not that I hadn't been hurt before, but this was pretty different.

I go away, move to a place I didn't really want to go, had a hell of a time finding a job, dipped into depression till I could finally find a shitty one, lick my wounds, begin to feel better, but still not happy where I am, and.....!

HE calls to announce his undieing love, and wishes there's some way we can 'work it out'.

Sheesh.....will it ever end? I mean the confusion.

Yes I still love him.

Yes I'd love to move back.

No, I can't move back to the way things were before.

I just wrote him a letter. Snail mail. It'll be a while before I hear results.

I'm glad I like things slow, or this would be driving me more crazy than it already is.

Nuff said.

Thanks for the vent.

Moon

My ex wanted me back too. I fell for it hook,line and sinker. It didnt take long to realize that behaviors just dont change,You fall back into whatever routine that you had established. It didnt work for that very reason. I still love her though and I know she loves me. We just cant be together. The old saying that "you cant go back" rang true with me. Good Luck

 

[Guest]

I hope that letter had all your needs and expectations underlined in RED ! Whatever you do, don't settle and sell yourself short. Your needs are important.

No, not red, but I TYPED them and presented them in a very professional manner, as if I were writing to a President of some big corporation. Very little emotions, to let him I'm quite guarded right now.

He's gonna have to bend over backwards to 'prove' this 'love' he allegedly has for me.

Thanks for the support.

Moon

 

[Guest]

K, Moon you know your strong enough and better off with out him. Just remember that.

Yes Ma'am!

*salutes*

Moon

 

[cybergirly]

Yes Ma'am!

*salutes*

Moon

Then if you do decide to try again, it'll be on your terms.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: My ex wants me back.....!

My ex wanted me back too. I fell for it hook,line and sinker. It didnt take long to realize that behaviors just dont change,You fall back into whatever routine that you had established. It didnt work for that very reason. I still love her though and I know she loves me. We just cant be together. The old saying that "you cant go back" rang true with me. Good Luck

I've tried going back before too, and it never worked. It just kills me that something once so beautiful turned to such bad shit.

Moon

 

[Guest]

Then if you do decide to try again, it'll be on your terms.

That's basically what my letter sez.

Moon

 

[cybergirly]

That's basically what my letter sez.

Moon

*hugs* Moon.

Good luck, I hope everything works out for you one way or the other.

girly

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: My ex wants me back.....!

 

[marksgirl]

Maybe I should express my self better. FUCK OFF AND DIE!

 

[Guest]

*hugs* Moon.

Good luck, I hope everything works out for you one way or the other.

girly

Thanks. You are pretty compassionate and considerate. You should go far in life.

Moon

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: Re: My ex wants me back.....!

My dear sweet one. Once it has turned, it will never be the same. I know.

Of course it won't. I know too. That's why I'm so cautious.

I expressed a lot of things in this snail mail letter that I never did before. It will be different, and correct, or it will never happen.

Moon

PS, It'll probably never happen, but it's a good ego booster he wants me back anyway.....

 

[Guest]

Maybe I should express my self better. FUCK OFF AND DIE!

Thanks for your support, but I refuse to feel this negative about him or what happened between us. That kind of negative energy is too wearing on the soul and I'm better than that.

What has happened to you, that you feel this way? You can let it go here, if you feel the need.

Moon

 

[Guest]

 

[marksgirl]

Let me put it this way, I've been married for 16+ years and if my husband ever put me through that it would be FUCK OFF AND DIE because I've been way to good to him and I would never desire that. It has never happened to me but if it did that is just what I would do.

 

[Ice Cold]

Just remeber moon, a wolf can hide in sheeps clothing for awhile... sometimes the change is only short lived... just be prepared and take caution no mateer what you do. Best wishes.

 

[Guest]

Moon, it sounds to me like you have it all together. *hugs*

Keep that positive energy flowing and you will be surrounded with it.

I don't have it all together.....but I'm working on it.....

Thanks for the hug.....I needed it.

Moon
allowing positive energy flow around every particle of my body

damn I'm horny.....!

OOOOOPS did I say that?

 

[Guest]

Let me put it this way, I've been married for 16+ years and if my husband ever put me through that it would be FUCK OFF AND DIE because I've been way to good to him and I would never desire that. It has never happened to me but if it did that is just what I would do.

It's really difficult when you let someone go cause of "INSERT BAD THING THEY DO HERE" then they realize how wrong they were. Be glad it hasn't happened to you, but it isn't so cut and dry as you want.

Actually it becomes VERY confusing, go matter how together you think you are.....

Thanks for your replies, though.....I really appreciate them.

Moon