My bi urges

[LusciousLili]

More guys should explore this stuff and not worry about the labels so much. I'm sure a lot of young men have "experimented."

 

[MaturemanAJ]

So people have posted signs of being this that or the other thing, wearing a bandana on your belt loop, different colors and different sides mean different things.
Geesch, I don't want to carry a manual around to decipher all that crap.
Can't we just pick a type of baseball style cap or something that let's guys know you are at least bi interested and you can talk from there?

 

[Rodlicker57]

The urges are strong. When I see another man’s cock and I get excited and hope that we can play. I love oral sex with both men and women. Women are beautiful and sexy. But my love of penis has become stronger. I love touching a cock as it gets hard!

 

[Vaslim74]

I have that curiosity. I don't mind seeing a good looking cock or a good looking ass on a man. I do get the urge to suck a cock from time to time.

 

[Tattoofl]

Yes you are far from alone in this boat. I to wish it was easier to find/ let another guy know you'd be up for having some fun. Not into kissing either but I've also never done it so who knows.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I’m the same. I am outwardly straight.
When I was at Uni I became more curious about what it would be like to have sex with another man.
It wasn’t until I was in my 30’s and married with kids that I finally took the plunge with someone I met on a business trip.
I found kissing another man a real turn on.
It was also the animal passion that was overwhelming. Neither of us wanted to have a relationship or fall in love. It was all about the sex. No emotional complications just pure sex.

Indeed. I’m a surfer too. Been getting good waves the last few days.

 

[brett19m]

During my morning jack off sessions, I seem to always gravitate toward MMF porn videos where the man and woman are married or are a couple and encouragement is expressed by the woman for MM oral and/or anal. My wife doesn't know of my bi-urges either.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

MMF threesomes seem so hot sharing and pleasing all yummy

 

[cdstefi]

The urges are strong. When I see another man’s cock and I get excited and hope that we can play. I love oral sex with both men and women. Women are beautiful and sexy. But my love of penis has become stronger. I love touching a cock as it gets hard!

My last meet, I felt the thickness of his cock in my hand, first while we were kissing then later as we 69ed and I couldn't help but wank him off hard till he erupted his cum all over me before even he expected it. A hard cock is a thing of beauty and beautiful to play with.

 

[OldSoldier96]

No its not something she'd be interested in. I'd love an all in 3 way, him filling her, me cleaning him until he filled my throat, him really giving it to me while she jacks me off. Ive thought this through LOL

Jacks you off? Not you getting it doggie with your face between her legs? Options are limitless.

 

[Harry sach]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

Yep, can totally relate to that. I just don't get to experience the best of both worlds anymore unfortunately - on both sides!

 

[roxank9]

I like a well hung guy and love a long tongued Girl

 

[roxank9]

MMF threesomes seem so hot sharing and pleasing all yummy

unlike FFM which often turns out as a man disappointing two women at the same time

 

[badonkadoku]

If society did not so judge harshly, we could just come out and ask...."Hey, I am bi, would you like to get naked and see if the vibe between us is fun..?".....

Shite, I'd be happy if the ones I've already made contact with (in unambiguous forums, with unambiguous pre-arrangement) would not flake out and suddenly start ghosting me.

 

[badonkadoku]

unlike FFM which often turns out as a man disappointing two women at the same time

Comedienne Wanda Sykes had a bit about this very dilemma! . "Why would you want two women pissed off at you at the same time??"

 

[Pommie2025]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

I am M 74. Love women. Have sucked cock not swallowed yet love haveing my cock sucked

 

[nassauguy_2001]

You're hetero-romantic but bisexual. Your preference is women but men or aspects of them turn you on too (cock, ass, directness of sexual drive).

Simple as that, and as I believe a vast amount of the population is, way more than would ever admit it.

My first couple of meets with men, I was fairly insistent on no kissing, because I've always associated that with romance and what I feel about women, and I guess wanted to keep gay sex in its own box, where it's just pure lust, all about the cock and a need to get off really hard and nothing else. Then my last meet, the guy was very keen on kissing and I did, even with his beard, and it added a different dimension. Believe me, having a guy's tongue in your mouth when you each have the other's erect penis in your hands is next level. I still didn't get romantic feels from it like with a woman but it was extremely arousing.

What a GREAT post, Cdstefi, you hit the nail on the head for me! I always insisted on no kissing when I met a guy. A few years back, one guy older than me by 10+ years asked me the simple question...
Why you you willingly take my cock and cum in your mouth, but not my tongue? I could not give him a good answer except that this whole bisexual thing is still somewhat "new" to me. Yes I had already sucked my first cock 30+ years ago, but I considered myself "new" to the bi lifestyle. Go figure!!!

 

[Britva415]

A few years back, one guy older than me by 10+ years asked me the simple question...
Why you you willingly take my cock and cum in your mouth, but not my tongue?

"F* you, that's why. Go find another mouth"

Jeez. Some people.

 

[yowser]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. ....

Presumably from the thread you now know you're not alone. If you like tales about this sort of thing, you might enjoy a loosely connected series about a couple married guys grappling with these sorts of feelings, Midlife Carnal Crisis is the (almost) intro tale. All of this is potentially complicated and not without difficulties, depending on your situation.

 

[Topher1972]

Presumably from the thread you now know you're not alone. If you like tales about this sort of thing, you might enjoy a loosely connected series about a couple married guys grappling with these sorts of feelings, Midlife Carnal Crisis is the (almost) intro tale. All of this is potentially complicated and not without difficulties, depending on your situation.

Thank you. I’ll check it out. The only real difficulties I’ve had with this is finding a decent, disease free guy to play with. I’ve talked to a lot of guys online but haven’t met with any of them yet as they just didn’t seem right. Although there are a couple that I’m considering. I’m not really worried about my wife finding out as our marriage sucks and will be ending sooner or later. But I don’t need her blabbing about my bi side all over town so I’ll always be careful and stay closeted. I’m not ashamed of what I’ve done or I’m going to do, just don’t need complications. Exploring my bi side has never been problematic or gotten me into trouble. It’s a shame male bisexuality isn’t more widely accepted. I believe sex, be it straight, gay or bisexual is a beautiful and special thing and will enjoy it as I please. It’s all good. I kind of enjoy having
a dirty little secret, lol.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Sharing the cum so slippery

 

[Far1957mer]

I have no desire to kiss a man........I just want to suck a disease free and very discrete guys cock and take it in my tight ass.......I started having these desires early in life and they haven't subsided.......now I just need to be brave enough to follow through........I have been practicing with cock shaped dildo's for a very long time....

 

[Starstruck2020]

I share the same sentiments here. Not romantically attracted to men but sucking or being sucked with a man is hot!

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Hey all need to feel a cock get hard, lick off the pre and feel him pulsing hmmm