My bi urges

[Topher1972]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

 

[J1biboi]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

I think you will find that there are a lot of us that can relate. I know I sure can!

 

[cdstefi]

You're hetero-romantic but bisexual. Your preference is women but men or aspects of them turn you on too (cock, ass, directness of sexual drive).

Simple as that, and as I believe a vast amount of the population is, way more than would ever admit it.

My first couple of meets with men, I was fairly insistent on no kissing, because I've always associated that with romance and what I feel about women, and I guess wanted to keep gay sex in its own box, where it's just pure lust, all about the cock and a need to get off really hard and nothing else. Then my last meet, the guy was very keen on kissing and I did, even with his beard, and it added a different dimension. Believe me, having a guy's tongue in your mouth when you each have the other's erect penis in your hands is next level. I still didn't get romantic feels from it like with a woman but it was extremely arousing.

 

[Sgts19]

I'd just like to try giving a BJ to see what its all about, my wife seems to enjoy it..really enjoy it. Pretty much have done everything else I wanted to try. Might like it might hate it but at least I'd know

 

[cdstefi]

I'd just like to try giving a BJ to see what its all about, my wife seems to enjoy it..really enjoy it. Pretty much have done everything else I wanted to try. Might like it might hate it but at least I'd know

It's fucking awesome

And you will want more.

You know how it turns you on when you're masturbating and feeling yourself about to cum then watching your semen pumping? Imagine that but it's another human, and you're making them cum for you, or over you. Last guy I met absolutely exploded all over my bra and torso while I was wanking him hard. It was so beautiful I couldn't stop playing with his cum once he'd done, rubbing it all over my nipples and chest.

 

[J1biboi]

I'd just like to try giving a BJ to see what its all about, my wife seems to enjoy it..really enjoy it. Pretty much have done everything else I wanted to try. Might like it might hate it but at least I'd know

As the old commercial ad line goes; try it you'll like it! I'll say you are a lucky man to have a wife that really likes to suck cock!!

 

[Topher1972]

You're hetero-romantic but bisexual. Your preference is women but men or aspects of them turn you on too (cock, ass, directness of sexual drive).

Simple as that, and as I believe a vast amount of the population is, way more than would ever admit it.

My first couple of meets with men, I was fairly insistent on no kissing, because I've always associated that with romance and what I feel about women, and I guess wanted to keep gay sex in its own box, where it's just pure lust, all about the cock and a need to get off really hard and nothing else. Then my last meet, the guy was very keen on kissing and I did, even with his beard, and it added a different dimension. Believe me, having a guy's tongue in your mouth when you each have the other's erect penis in your hands is next level. I still didn't get romantic feels from it like with a woman but it was extremely arousing.

hetero-romantic but bisexual, cool. I like that, lol. Yeah, it definitely seems as though we’re plentiful and everywhere. I just wish I’d meet more bi men. I know many if not most are in the closet as am I so I understand why it’s hard to find others alike out in public.

 

[Britva415]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

There's a label for it: Bisexual but heteroromantic.

 

[Britva415]

I know many if not most are in the closet as am I so I understand why it’s hard to find others alike out in public.

Even ones who aren't actively closeted are still hard to see because we kind of pass for straight by default, through no effort of our own. Hell, half the time we are met with skepticism - by both straight and queer people - when we unselfconsciously reveal that we're bi.

 

[Topher1972]

Yes, unfortunately a good portion of society isn’t ready to accept us.

 

[cdstefi]

hetero-romantic but bisexual, cool. I like that, lol. Yeah, it definitely seems as though we’re plentiful and everywhere. I just wish I’d meet more bi men. I know many if not most are in the closet as am I so I understand why it’s hard to find others alike out in public.

I've said it many times but there's a reason the money shot is a thing and it's nothing much to do with women. Men like watching cocks and semen.

 

[Topher1972]

Lol, that we do. I think a lot more men are or would be willing to play with another man than most know.

 

[OldSoldier96]

Lol, that we do. I think a lot more men are or would be willing to play with another man than most know.

Agree.

 

[XXVIII]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

Can definitely relate. We're far from alone in this world.

 

[TheVegasMark]

Lol, that we do. I think a lot more men are or would be willing to play with another man than most know.

If society did not so judge harshly, we could just come out and ask...."Hey, I am bi, would you like to get naked and see if the vibe between us is fun..?".....

 

[Aveguy]

Lol, that we do. I think a lot more men are or would be willing to play with another man than most know.

Yes your right, many guys just need a nudge in the right direction and have some fun, has to be fun and enjoyment,

 

[TheVegasMark]

Guys just need to know they won't be judged harshly...Its why all the "straight" guys are at the ABS when their gals go out of town....!!

 

[Jcam1980s]

I'm all about my wife, but sometimes when really horny i do fantasised about being used by a guy and filled with his cum

 

[Aveguy]

I'm all about my wife, but sometimes when really horny i do fantasised about being used by a guy and filled with his cum

Chat with her and explain a threesome is the way to explore your curiosity together, she will love to watch you I imagine

 

[Jcam1980s]

Chat with her and explain a threesome is the way to explore your curiosity together, she will love to watch you I imagine

No its not something she'd be interested in. I'd love an all in 3 way, him filling her, me cleaning him until he filled my throat, him really giving it to me while she jacks me off. Ive thought this through LOL

 

[Aveguy]

Maybe try watching some threesome porn together? She might come around ! If not she might let you play? Away? What else you into? Tim

 

[Cabeza]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

Very normal. I’ve never been romantically attracted to a man (although a couple have been attracted to me lol) but have enjoyed sex with a few. Some were short term flings, some lasted a few months. More like FWB than relationships. And i agree with @cdstefi don’t count out kissing. The last guy I was with, we kissed with abandon and it was really hot - but I still didn’t want to date him. You’re definitely among friends here.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

....how normal is this and whom can relate?

I agree with most everything that's been posted here.
1) Bi-sexual, but Hetero-romantic. Other being than sexually undersatisfied, I am happily married. Never tried kissing a guy and still not interested in that or a 'relationship'.
2) I had a personal cocksucker when I was young, a very close '25+ years' older friend and wanted to return the favor, but he had ED; however, I never had interest in romance.
3) Have had quite a few M2M experiences in ABSs. Frotting, mutual masturbation, getting sucked off, but never sucking cock myself. I've had the desire to do it, and would, if I wasn't afraid of disease. Not interested in receiving anal from a guy, but might give it.
4) Although not interested in a 'relationship', and because I don't plan on 'getting to know him and liking him as an individual, I prefer a male sexual partner to be somewhat attractive. I think that sexual attraction is triggered by physical attraction.
5) Would love a 3some - either MMF, FFM or MMM.
6) Watching porn is all about seeing cum - most MF porn without a money shot bores me. I like seeing cocks and semen.
7) I've been much more interested in Bi and Gay porn than Hetero porn.
8) Yeah, I'm in the closet because of my wife's, friends' and family's attitudes. No one of those 'alive' knows of my Bisexual urges, and just one knows about my experiences. My personal cocksucker is deceased.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

Can totally relate. My wife knows my urges and we do fantasize together. Would love to have some more wild sensual experiences in these realms before it’s time to leave! Would love to explore with the right men and include my wife in it all. Would also love to get straight freaky with another man or men. Thanks for sharing brother! Cheers

 

[surfdude1]

I’m the same. I am outwardly straight.
When I was at Uni I became more curious about what it would be like to have sex with another man.
It wasn’t until I was in my 30’s and married with kids that I finally took the plunge with someone I met on a business trip.
I found kissing another man a real turn on.
It was also the animal passion that was overwhelming. Neither of us wanted to have a relationship or fall in love. It was all about the sex. No emotional complications just pure sex.