Munches and Play Parties...WWYD?

[CutieMouse]

No bodily fluids.
No knife/blade play.
No exposed genitals.
No penetration.
No physical contact with genitals.

My three main kinks are....knives, blood, and fisting as both a Top and a bottom.

Soooooo women (and men, although it sounds like this is a pretty male-dom/female-sub crowd) can get topless and tied up and/or flogged (to get the male-doms all hot and bothered), or.... Yeah. Alrighty then!

 

[BiBunny]

Soooooo women (and men, although it sounds like this is a pretty male-dom/female-sub crowd) can get topless and tied up and/or flogged (to get the male-doms all hot and bothered), or.... Yeah. Alrighty then!

Well, they had to make sure there was no chance of CBT, you know....

 

[HottieMama]

Soooooo women (and men, although it sounds like this is a pretty male-dom/female-sub crowd) can get topless and tied up and/or flogged (to get the male-doms all hot and bothered), or.... Yeah. Alrighty then!

Yeah, there was not one male bottom there.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

That sounds intensely boring.

 

[twister947]

No bodily fluids.
No knife/blade play.
No exposed genitals.
No penetration.
No physical contact with genitals.

So...what's the point? Sounds like OK..***** in the Bible Belt...And you're going back? Really? Yet another triumph of hope over experience?

 

[HottieMama]

So...what's the point? Sounds like OK..***** in the Bible Belt...And you're going back? Really? Yet another triumph of hope over experience?

twister..you're in OK? LOL. I have been to a few OK groups and some are not this reserved...LOL. Yeah..it's hope over reality or something like that...

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

My three main kinks are....knives, blood, and fisting as both a Top and a bottom.

Are you sure you haven't been talking to my slave?

Admittedly she only discovered how much she loves those things after we got together

 

[HottieMama]

Are you sure you haven't been talking to my slave?

Have you noticed you ask that question a lot????

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

Have you noticed you ask that question a lot????

Well then stop making comments that make it seem like it!

 

[Primalex]

No bodily fluids.
No knife/blade play.
No exposed genitals.
No penetration.
No physical contact with genitals.

The S in BDSM is not Sex, you know...

Except the "no exposed genitals" rule I don't see something particular annoying. And I guess that rule just exists to make it easier to have the last two rules enforced more or less automatically.

 

[Lilac_Sky]

Have you noticed you ask that question a lot????

Great minds and all that crap!

 

[HottieMama]

The S in BDSM is not Sex, you know...

Except the "no exposed genitals" rule I don't see something particular annoying. And I guess that rule just exists to make it easier to have the last two rules enforced more or less automatically.

If my chief kinks are knives and fisting, I see all those rules as particularly annoying.

 

[Primalex]

If my chief kinks are knives and fisting, I see all those rules as particularly annoying.

Well, there are plenty of swinger clubs out there to get fucked, even fisted.

 

[HottieMama]

Well, there are plenty of swinger clubs out there to get fucked, even fisted.

Am I talking about being fucked??? Have I EVER said I was a swinger? No, I haven't. I can get fucked any time I want, I don't need to go to a munch to do so.

There aren't a lot of "clubs" period where I can play with knives and fist a willing guy/girl all in a space of 90 minutes. One of the "hazards" of being what is considered an "edge player" here in the Midwest. ('Cause lord knows where I discovered kink...knives and fisting were FAR from edgeplay.)

 

[BiBunny]

Wanna swap munch groups? Yours still sounds better than mine. The first time I went, the conversation went something like this.

Organizer Dude: Are you into spanking?

Me: Not really. It's ok, I guess.

Him: Flogging?

Me: Sometimes.

Him: Caning?

Me: It's all right.

Him: Oh, so you're one of those people into that sensual stuff.

Me: ....

I spent the rest of the night trying not to die laughing. Apparently there, if your kinks aren't spanking, bondage, blowjobs, and anal, you're not hardcore enough.

Which is amusing because I could tell them all stories that'd make their toes curl. But whatever.

ETA: I just remembered that a month or so after that particular munch, there was "What are your top 5 favorite kinks?" thread that showed up in their Fetlife group. Predictably, they all picked spanking, bondage, blowjobs, and anal, and their fifth ones varied between, like, flogging or breathplay.

It was a serious thread-killer when I rolled in and was like, "Ageplay, punching, emotional masochism, rough breast/nipple torture, and genital torture/fisting."

 

[Stella_Omega]

Wanna swap munch groups? Yours still sounds better than mine. The first time I went, the conversation went something like this.

Organizer Dude: Are you into spanking?

Me: Not really. It's ok, I guess.

Him: Flogging?

Me: Sometimes.

Him: Caning?

Me: It's all right.

Him: Oh, so you're one of those people into that sensual stuff.

Me: ....

I spent the rest of the night trying not to die laughing. Apparently there, if your kinks aren't spanking, bondage, blowjobs, and anal, you're not hardcore enough.

Which is amusing because I could tell them all stories that'd make their toes curl. But whatever.

ETA: I just remembered that a month or so after that particular munch, there was "What are your top 5 favorite kinks?" thread that showed up in their Fetlife group. Predictably, they all picked spanking, bondage, blowjobs, and anal, and their fifth ones varied between, like, flogging or breathplay.

It was a serious thread-killer when I rolled in and was like, "Ageplay, punching, emotional masochism, rough breast/nipple torture, and genital torture/fisting."

I'd be totally intimidated, yeah.

except for the genital torture part.

 

[BiBunny]

I'd be totally intimidated, yeah.

except for the genital torture part.

I totally don't think I'm more badass than anyone else, and I definitely don't try to make people feel uncomfortable with my kinks, as a rule. But I just thought they had that one coming, LOL.

 

[HottieMama]

ETA: I just remembered that a month or so after that particular munch, there was "What are your top 5 favorite kinks?" thread that showed up in their Fetlife group. Predictably, they all picked spanking, bondage, blowjobs, and anal, and their fifth ones varied between, like, flogging or breathplay.

It was a serious thread-killer when I rolled in and was like, "Ageplay, punching, emotional masochism, rough breast/nipple torture, and genital torture/fisting."

Ohhhh... I forgot about the "joys of punching..." Mmmhhhmmmm.... Rough body play is general is just fantastic....