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I am madly in love with a woman with MS. We are at the stage were I feel we want to make love. I know she cant bend her legs, so I would like suggestions on how to please her. Both orally and physically
 
Why don't you try asking her? I have a friend with MS, and she is sexually active (more so than many of my other friends).
 
I wish I had some answers for you but unfortunately I don't. Just make sure that she is comfortable and in a position that does not make her spasm too much. Put a pillow under her buttocks maybe to lift her up. I feel for you and her both.
My grandfather had MS... My dad does too, and now they think my brother. You and she are both in my prayers...
Dusty
 
Ask her.....

....what feels good. It sounds like her spastisity is pretty bad.....so be gentle. Also, she may have decreased sensation and/or complete numbness in certain areas of her body. Ask her where she has sensation...what feels good.

Another unfortunate side effect of the spastisity is painful spasms brought on by orgasm. A male friend of mine suffered from this. You friend may not, but be aware that it could happen.

Talk to her while making love. Let her know how desirable she is...how much you love her. She may be alittle self concience because of the changes in her body brough on by the MS.

Enjoy....

bluemuse
 
Yes, talk openly with her! And remember that there may be a real need for lubricant-ky jelly.

You are in my prayers. My mom had Ms and I myself am seeking tests to rule it out.... anyway. Wish you luck, endurance, patients and most of all Perserverance.
 
thanks to all of you. i am a little naive. why the KY jelly?
 
KY just in case she doesn't get wet, so you have some sort of lubricant. It is the safest and doesn't break down a barrier.
Good luck to you, and you're both in my prayers.
 
Dont know if you will find this intresting but the Ex drummer of the rock group Iron Maiden Has ms and is infortunatly getting worse and to try to hilight the issue Iron Maiden are playing 3 nights as a charity benifit.
there will be about 4500 of us each night and all of the ticket sales are going to the Clive Burr ms fund thats aprox £112500
to start with plus the ticket agency are donating part of the booking fee and also Maiden are releasing a single again proceeds to the fund along with the merchandise sold at the venue
for more info see here
http://213.86.53.186/ironmaiden/news/news_090102.shtml

and i must see about joining the lit board been lurking for a while
 
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