multiple orgasms

[trembal]

I've tried to give my gf multiple orgasms but after she has the first orgasm, she says its way to sensative for me to touch. Is multiple orgasms for everyone? If so, could I get some advice on how to do it?

 

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[aka Lusty]

I've tried to give my gf multiple orgasms but after she has the first orgasm, she says its way to sensative for me to touch. Is multiple orgasms for everyone? If so, could I get some advice on how to do it?

Not every woman is multi-orgasmic, but I have read that with self-practice we can teach ourselves how to be. I'm not sure how much fun it would be going solo but...

I do agree with not worrying too much about it. To me (and I'm sure many women would agree), quality is far more important than quantity.

 

[Guest]

I've tried to give my gf multiple orgasms but after she has the first orgasm, she says its way to sensative for me to touch. Is multiple orgasms for everyone? If so, could I get some advice on how to do it?

It might also be a matter of interpretation. Orgasms (at least for me) come in many varieties from a variety or combinations of stimulation, and sometimes it is possible to have an orgasm from one kind of stimulation and then have another from a different kind. (for example, playing with my vibrator gives a different result from playing with my husband, and I like them both individually and together).

As someone else advised, don't get too fixated on the multiple thing, and don't get too fixated on the clitoris as the only place to stimulate all the time. And sometimes "multiple" doen't mean one every 20 seconds :> Getting three or four in a couple of hours of good sex is all positive (as far as I'm concerned, at least).

 

[Michibilly]

My wife was always "one and done" when we first met. Over time she has become extremely multiple. Be patient and gentle. We never talked about it or really thought it was something we needed to do but managed to work our way up to it.
Work slowly up to it, nice kisses and touches in her other spots, concentrate on relaxing her and getting her real warmed up before starting on clittoral stimulation. When you get her off, back of from direct contact but keep your hand near her, kind of cupping her or keeping a finget in but not on her spot. Kiss her some more and tell her much you love to feel her cum, how sexy she is when she cums or that you would like to taste her after she cums.
Be patient and gentle and she may learn how to "let her clitty take over".
Don't get discouraged if it never happens for her, some people just can't. There are more important things in the relationship.

 

[LadyJeanne]

I've tried to give my gf multiple orgasms but after she has the first orgasm, she says its way to sensative for me to touch. Is multiple orgasms for everyone? If so, could I get some advice on how to do it?

If you want to give her more than one orgasm, there's no need to try do it one right after another. Clit sensitivity after orgasm only lasts a a few minutes - you can touch other parts of her while the sensitivity in her clit subsides, and then go back to her clit.

 

[leZilla]

I can only have multiple orgasms if I let everything settle back down after having my first one. No way can I have them one right after the other, it's too sensitive still.

I think you should just take your time, don't try to force it or it won't happen.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I've tried to give my gf multiple orgasms but after she has the first orgasm, she says its way to sensative for me to touch. Is multiple orgasms for everyone? If so, could I get some advice on how to do it?

First off, Scalywag's right. If she isn't asking you to try, don't DWELL on it. Sensitivity is a real physical repsonse and seems to be an issue for about 50% of the ladies who post here in some form or another. Now I get it, I really do, because I find nothing sexier than my wife having an orgasm and I could watch it for hours. Sometimes though I can go overboard trying to make that happen.

Something that I've learned is that women who are sensitive after they cum are also more aroused by non-clitoral stimulation. Take it down a notch, slow it up and kiss her neck, her breasts, somewhere far from her clit. Sometimes maybe avoid clitoral stimulation but try stimulating her g-spot. Maybe even switch to anal play if she's into that. The thing is to not focus so much on her clit, but keep the arousal level up there by timulating her in other ways. Then once she's calmed down you can take her back up again.

This over and over, up and down, is just as coolas a full on rolling string of multiple orgasms.

 

[Eilan]

Generally, when I have multiples, they're from G-spot stimulation. The other night, however, I had two in a row using my trusty vibe on my clit. That's the exception and not the rule for me. I'm usually way too sensitive to have more than one orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

Other ladies' mileage may vary.