multiple orgasms in one session?

[Diablogrl]

I read a post in another thread and I'm intrigued...I suspect I fall into that category of women who only like to orgasm once in every sexual session. However, I've been involved in marathon sex sessions (at least for me...those that last more than 2 hours).

How physically are these women orgasming 10-15 times each session? (I'd like to do the same, myself).

Does anyone else (women, more specifically) have problems with continuing sex after orgasm? I can't stand the feeling of penetration immediately after orgasming..am I the only one who feels this way? I don't mind if he doesn't move around, but definitely no continued thrusting for me.

Does is bother you guys (or gals, depending on your orientation) that your partner orgasms more than you do each session? I have to admit to feeling guilty if I'm orgasming more than my partner.

The more I hang around Lit, the more I suspect that I'm missing out on a whole lot.

 

[WriterDom]

Does is bother you guys (or gals, depending on your orientation) that your partner orgasms more than you do each session? I have to admit to feeling guilty if I'm orgasming more than my partner.

As long as I get my fill, which is 3 or 4, the more she has the merrier. Everyone is wired a little different though.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

. . . Does is bother you guys (or gals, depending on your orientation) that your partner orgasms more than you do each session? I have to admit to feeling guilty if I'm orgasming more than my partner. . . .

Hiya, dg!

No, it doesn't bother me at all that she can have more orgasms than I. Far from it! I think I derive about as much pleasure from her orgasms as I do from my own. And, hell, if I had more than she did, then I'd start to worry.

 

[Diablogrl]

hiya handsome!

believe it or not, I actually had a lover who would sulk if the ratio of my orgasms to his was not 1:1. We managed to find a lot of fun ways for the one of us to "catch up"...but I keep thinking if I were to find a way to orgasm 10-15 times in one session, sex would've been fewer and far between.

 

[Parklife]

my last girlfriend was exactly as you described. She only wanted one orgasm and that was it. At first, I was actually a bit bothered by it because it was something new for me. I'd always gone out with either girls that could have multiple orgasms or at least with girls who enjoyed keeping things going afterwards. But with the last one, if she orgasmed first, she didn't always want to continue for me...

 

[BTK51]

No Reason To Feel Guilty

hiya handsome!

believe it or not, I actually had a lover who would sulk if the ratio of my orgasms to his was not 1:1. We managed to find a lot of fun ways for the one of us to "catch up"...but I keep thinking if I were to find a way to orgasm 10-15 times in one session, sex would've been fewer and far between.

Though we’re older now, my wife has always preferred one orgasm together with me, to multiples. She too feels guilty which I just can’t understand, because I find her orgasms such a HUGE turn-on and have told her so for years. She can and has had multiples but still, she says that she actually greatly prefers just one – maybe 2 at most.

After an orgasm, she usually has to stop for a short while before we can continue which I think takes a little edge off the passion for her. Generally speaking, subsequent orgasms are also not as intense. She has never had 10-15 and I always thought that if she just did it once, that she would get hooked. We’ve gotten close to that number and she wasn’t as fulfilled as I thought she would be. This was a classic case of me not listening because I wasn’t hearing what I wanted to hear. Lesson learned!

As with everything else, what works for you is right for you. One thing that Lit has taught me is that everyone is different and what works for some doesn’t work for others. At least I look at it that way and hey, that’s okay. We both feel that we have always had an excellent sex life and that’s what really counts. We have actually been going through a renaissance in our sex lives and we’ve come to realize how great our sex life is, has been and how much it adds to our relationship. I also realize that some of the things that I beleived I was missing weren’t a great as I had previously thought.

Doesn’t sound to me like your former “tit-for-tat” lover was being all that fair and may be the source of your guilt. I believe that true lovers assist their partner in achieving their desires. This is a mutual give-and-take. The vast majority of men revel in getting their partner off and doing what pleases them as much as what pleases themselves. If not, I wouldn’t really put them in the “lover” category anyway. Sorry if that sounds harsh.

Don’t feel guilty in the least at going for 100 orgasms. As long as you’re also pleasing your partner there is absolutely NO reason to feel guilty.

 

[Bandit58]

I've never had more than one orgasm in a session, and sometimes it doesn't happen at all, but I'm definitely not missing out That's how I'm wired, and I'm happy with it and if my partner wishes I can carry on and still get more enjoyment even if I don't have another orgasm.

Mind you I now have a new partner who has all these toys and techniques so I could end up surprising myself.....

 

[lovechild27]

I havent come just once in years. When I start I dont stop until he does.

 

[Color Me Crazy]

Hey Diablo-

Okay, so admittedly I haven't actually had "real" sex before, but I've had oral, and while I used to only orgasm once and then want to stop (more after I came always just seemed irritating) now I can have 2 or 3 in one session. My partners have never minded. The secret?

Masturbation. When I was a wee little girl, just starting out on the journey of self-pleasure, my goal was to be a multiple orgasm-mer. I've been masturbating for about 2 years now. Usually once a day. Practice doesn't make perfect, but it sure as hell doesn't hurt any, either. I don't know how high-speed your sex life might be, but if you have a lot of off-nights from the whole sex thing, I would consider masturbating. Usually in between orgasms I have to stop for about 20 seconds before starting up again. It's not just a one after another without any stops thing. Gotta give the body rest, I always say.

Good luck! Hope that was relevant to what you were wondering. If not... well... yeah.

 

[Diablogrl]

my last girlfriend was exactly as you described. She only wanted one orgasm and that was it. At first, I was actually a bit bothered by it because it was something new for me. I'd always gone out with either girls that could have multiple orgasms or at least with girls who enjoyed keeping things going afterwards. But with the last one, if she orgasmed first, she didn't always want to continue for me...

Actually, I don't have any problems doing other things to make sure my lovers have a good time...and actually, I enjoy making sure my lovers do orgasm during a session. I have never had a multiple orgasm...maybe I should look for a thread on this subject...much less the 10-15 multiples in one 2 hour session cited by another thread. I do feel some residual guilt about ensuring that my lovers orgasm at least once...but that's only because I truly live by the matra in bed "do unto others..."

The point I was trying to make was that I suspect if I ever multiple-orgasmed, my poor ex would probably want me to make sure he 1) multipled himself or 2) got off several times before he did. We had one night when things just weren't working so well for him...but they were good for me, and well, lets just say I spent a large part of the next day trying to make it up to him.

 

[Diablogrl]

Masturbation.

CMC - please don't get me wrong here...I masturbate (as in, hi, my name is DG, and I'm a masturbateur...) Its just even when I'm pleasing myself or with a lover, once seems to be completely satisfactory to me...plus, I'm lazy when I'm by myself. Admittedly, I've never tried to go to multiples with just myself, and maybe, truly, like several other posters to this thread, I'm just not meant to multiple. However, should I find a lover so inclined, I'm wondering what I need to do to prepare myself for my first multiple.

Bandit - let me know if those toys work out for you (getting to multiples), and of course, that wonderful new partner of yours...

 

[BirdsWife]

Multiples

My record for two hours is 9 orgasms.

The trick for me is that they are g-spot orgasms. When I have a clit orgasm, my body gets so hypersensitive that I don't want to be touched for the next ten or fifteen minutes. G-spot orgasms are the complete opposite. If I get a finger or a perfectly angled cock hitting that nice little spot I can go from one intense orgasm to the next with very little time in between. The only thing that stops me from having more is that my sides start to hurt from all the deep breathing I end up doing.

Luckily I have only ever had sex with men who loved making me orgasm just as much as they enjoyed orgasming themselves. Sex is supposed to be about giving your partner pleasure, not keeping score and pouting about not getting the same number of orgasms. If I were to run across a man like that, he would quickly be an ex-, too.

 

[judge not]

How physically are these women orgasming 10-15 times each session? (I'd like to do the same, myself).

I have been with only one woman who could achieve this. She had to be really worked up before the first one but after that the orgasms were easy. Made me feel like that Titanic guy: "I'm the king of the world!"



Does is bother you guys (or gals, depending on your orientation) that your partner orgasms more than you do each session? I have to admit to feeling guilty if I'm orgasming more than my partner.

It doesn't bother me. I can usually orgasm four times or so before I have to give out. But if she can orgasm twice as much or more...well, see Titanic quote above.

If I had more than her, I would simply make up for it next time.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

1) never feel guilty for feeling pleasure, if no one is being hurt by it.

2) I'm one of those women that orgasms a bunch. This afternoon, I masturbated for an hour and a half, and orgasmed about every 5 or 10 minutes. It gets super-sensitive, yes, but it's all about knowing how to touch, or your partner learning how to touch you after an orgasm. If I'm playing with my clit, for example, and I have a clitoral orgasm, I immediately move my finger up a bit, and play with the clit HOOD, which means my clit gets played with, but indirectly... when I feel I can take it more, I move my finger back.

I've never had problems with multipling during sex, so I can't help you there... I advise Lube. It sometimes dulls sensations enough that you feel, but not too much.

 

[someplace]

Orgasms for me are like climbing a staircase with each building on the previous and taking me higher and higher. Depending on how long it's been since I last had sex, and how worked up I am, I tend to get pretty high pretty quickly. This usually involves making quite a mess, what with squirting and gushing. I have found that each orgasm tends to turn my partner on more, taking us both higher and higher. My hardest orgasms are when HE comes and we both jump off the top of the staircase together and fly into the night. It's all good.

I once had a partner time/count my orgasms without telling me. I think he lost count (his attention drifted) at something like 20 in 13 minutes. But then he came twice in about 2 minutes too, which was very cool!

I like being multi-orgasmic if you must put a label on it. Actually though, I just love sex and all it entails. It's about sharing and being close just as much as finding your peak. Enjoy it and let it carry you along without worrying so much about how many times you get there.

 

[Diablogrl]

Orgasms for me are like climbing a staircase with each building on the previous and taking me higher and higher. Depending on how long it's been since I last had sex, and how worked up I am, I tend to get pretty high pretty quickly. This usually involves making quite a mess, what with squirting and gushing. I have found that each orgasm tends to turn my partner on more, taking us both higher and higher. My hardest orgasms are when HE comes and we both jump off the top of the staircase together and fly into the night. It's all good.

I once had a partner time/count my orgasms without telling me. I think he lost count (his attention drifted) at something like 20 in 13 minutes. But then he came twice in about 2 minutes too, which was very cool!

I like being multi-orgasmic if you must put a label on it. Actually though, I just love sex and all it entails. It's about sharing and being close just as much as finding your peak. Enjoy it and let it carry you along without worrying so much about how many times you get there.

someplace...that is such a nice way of putting orgasming and sex. I absolutely agree with you about enjoying sex, my reason for this thread was to see exactly how I might possibly enjoy it anymore.

 

[Skitten]

I guess in threory is what makes you and your partner happy. I have had more than 1 orgasm during a 2 hour session. It does all depend on how you are wired and what works for you. But having multiple orgasms is quite wonderful and he loves it just as much as I do. He does not feel that we should both have the same amount or get upset because I had more than he everyone is different.

 

[Limbhugger]

I hate to cum before Wife. Well unless she wants me to. Generally Wife cums at least twice and often three times. The first two just kind of flow together. She has a hard body-wracking orgasm then slowly eases down for a few moments and then has a deep hard rolling orgasm.

Timing is key to her orgasms.

 

[stepdaddy]

When I was younger, 3-4 orgasms each time were the norm, my record was six in one session. When I got a little older I learned men were only "supposed" to have 1, or at least that's what was in my mind at the time. So, I stopped after the first orgasm the next time, and again and again and here I am. Funny what you can do when you don't know any better LOL

 

[Mr.G]

have any of you guys....

read my TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread?

I guess not.

I realize this does NOT work on 100% of the female population but it's worked on everybody I've been with and it's worked for probably several 10's of thousands of people who have read about it in here.

Done the right way the GSpot Technique can give almost unlimited orgasms and although giving your woman 30 - 40 - 50 or more screaming orgasms in an evening - EVERY evening - is a joy that goes beyond description ...

I AM SO JEALOUS!!!


Try reading the thread and stop wondering HOW this could be.

 

[SlowGuy]

I had the pleasure of hooking up with a woman on Lit who was hitting her sexual peak. She could have orgasms big and small 20 or 30 times in two hours. Then I'd finger her to another huge one in the cab on the way home.

It was so incredibly erotic, I was hard as a teenager the whole time. I would cum until I was unable to spurt -- 3 or 4 times a session. I used to joke that'd I keeping fucking her until I caught up. "Bring it on," was her response.

My current GF refused to believe she could have multiples. We got a Flex-o-Pleaser vibrator that has a long arm and a small head. One of us rubs it over her clit while we're bumping and grinding until she cums hard. Then we set the vibe aside and kiss and cuddle for few minutes with me still hard inside of her until she ready for me to start some long, slow strokes. Once she's warmed up, we get out the magic wand again and repeat.

I agree with Color Me Crazy, the best way to test (and increase) your capacity for orgasms is a noisy evening of self-love.

As this thread indicates, there are lots of guys who aren't threatened or jealous of a woman's amazing gift for sexual pleasure.

 

[floweringlotus]

My lover and I are both 51 now and we can go for four hours, no problem. I have always been multi-orgasmic and I just love it! I don't think he has ever counted, nor have I, but I must have 20-30 within a 2-hour period, too. it's hard to say, though, because if you include the little ones, or the aftershocks... do those count too? .. Then I have more than that.

As has been said already, if my clit is sensitive, all I need to do or have done, is move up a bit to the hood, or down some, or start having g-spot orgasms. They are SO intense!! Way different than clitoral orgasms or vaginal orgasms that aren't g-spot. Combining clit & g-spot, or clit & anal orgasms is another trip in itself. Aftershocks are awesome! They can go on for up to a 1/2 hour or so, just spasming away.

Then, there is orgasming from just breathing. A beautiful experience! Or from nipple stimulation only. Those are beautiful orgasms too!! But especially from breathing. those are more like full body orgams. I have had several orgasms during a professional massage where I wasn't being stimulated sexually at all. fortunately, I wasn't too embarrassed and the MT was comfortable and supportive about it and didn't get freaked out.

A lot of it is really in the breathwork. If you are interested in that, study Tantric Sex. It teaches you how to extend your orgasm through the breath. Men who are multi-orgasmic, like my lover, have orgasms without ejaculating. That is an awesome experience because he can extend his orgasm and go on for a longer period of time. It is all controlled through the breath.


floweringlotus

 

[floweringlotus]

mulitple orgasms in one session?

Oh, one more thing. I forgot to mention that we have the same experience as some have written before me. My lover thrives on giving me as many orgasms as I can have. It is a goal of his. If I don't have a lot of them, he feels like he hasn't satisfied me completely - we just had a conversation about that today, in fact.

floweringlotus

 

[fantac64]

Personally, I don't think I'm doing my job if my partner doesn't achieve orgasm before I do, and several afterwards. That's the beauty of being a woman, No limitation on number or frequency. a man has to wait for a while to even be ready for a proper climax while a woman rewards me with her "songs of passion," over and over again. My g/f s usually have at least five to my one or two. I love it.

 

[Diablogrl]

Then, there is orgasming from just breathing. A beautiful experience!

I've never heard of such a thing...if this is something I can learn from Tantric sex, I'm running out to the store today.