Multiple male orgasms?

[cat3100]

Okay, here's another question have for everyone. My bf and I have great sex, he brings me to multiple orgasms every time. We have pretty much figured out everything about each other, there is one thing we are having trouble with. He wants me to be able to give him multiple orgasms as he does me. He is just to sensitive for me to even touch him after he has one. We have tried with me bringing him to orgasm orally and then him going down on me until he is ready again, but that always turns out that he thinks about it to much and it always takes him a really long time to cum, and he says even then he's not really having an orgasm.
So the question is this: Does anyone have any advice on how I can bring him to multiple orgasms other than trying what I already stated above?

 

[drummer34]

I can only speak for myself off course but basically you are right, a man needs a short period to "cool off" after the orgasm. My dick becomes so sensitive that touching it can almost be painfull. BUT i have never had any trouble starting again after 5-10min. My second orgasm is seldom as powerfull as the first but it has happened.
I think much of it is in the mind. A man's mind changes dramatically after the orgasm and for many years i really had no sex drive. I forced myself and i succeded but it is sort of a "mental blocade".

 

[SweetErika]

Check out this article/website . You can also do a google search for "male multiple orgasms" or related terms.

 

[drummer34]

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A mans wiew: I have tried that but it is VERY tecnical and requires a lot of practice (which can be fun off course ) but realistically i would recommend taking a break between the lovemaking, the last thing a man wants it to stop just before he is cumming.

Another good way of prolonging the session is that the man uses all available means to make the woman cum 2-3 times before they start fucking serious. That way the woman gets really hot and personally i get a lot of satisfaction from feeling my wife cumming.

I pity any man that hasn't tried giving his GF/Wife a g-spot orgasm

 

[phoenix1224]

From another guy...

Chances are that you'll NEVER get him to have 'multiples'...

While you women are designed to cum over and over again, us guys just AREN'T (unfortunately for us)...

You have to understand that us guys are genetically programmed to spread our seed as far and wide as possible, while women are genetically programmed to 'nest'...

So if we were physically able to do it over and over again, that's all we'd ever do... We'd just keep going and going until we either dropped dead of exhaustion or of starvation... And that would kinda suck...

 

[cat3100]

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That generally defeats the purpose he wants to ejaculate multiple times. Not neccesarily one right after the other as women can do. Just more than one ejaculatoty orgasm per "session".

Originally posted by drummer34
Another good way of prolonging the session is that the man uses all available means to make the woman cum 2-3 times before they start fucking serious. That way the woman gets really hot and personally i get a lot of satisfaction from feeling my wife cumming.

He usually does this, and it doesn't really make any difference either way.
I guess what I really need to know is there anyway to make him less sensitive after he ejaculates the first time?

 

[SweetErika]

That generally defeats the purpose he wants to ejaculate multiple times. Not neccesarily one right after the other as women can do. Just more than one ejaculatoty orgasm per "session".

He usually does this, and it doesn't really make any difference either way.
I guess what I really need to know is there anyway to make him less sensitive after he ejaculates the first time?

I believe ejaculation and orgasm are different things. Yes, they can happen almost concurrently, but one can happen without the other as well. When we talk about men having multiple orgasms, the idea is usually to hold off ejaculation while the orgasms are happening. So your bf wants to have multiple ejaculations in one session, not necessarily "multiple orgasms."

Everyone has a different refractory period, and I believe it varies with age. At 25, my husband is desensitized and ready to go again in 5-10 minutes. He said he found out the painful way that it's not a fun thing to force ejaculation before his body had time to recover and regenerate. If it takes your bf an extremely long time to desensitize, perhaps you could try a numbing cream. Otherwise, I'd go with nature.

Why exactly does he want to ejaculate so much?

 

[Selena_Kitt]

My husband has multiples... he can stay hard in between, too... sometimes 2-3 times in an hour... I was flabbergasted the first time it happened... I'm used to it now <grin> I had no idea men *could* do that... but I think he's pretty rare...

 

[WriterDom]

I stay hard after the first one. I don't like stimulation while I'm cuming and a little after, but then I am good to go. After the second I go down, but rubbing my cockhead on pussy lips gets me hard again. I came 5 times in a row once. Now that I'm more into "play" I might have 3 in 3 hours, and 2 more that night.

 

[Bobmi357]

I believe ejaculation and orgasm are different things. Yes, they can happen almost concurrently, but one can happen without the other as well. When we talk about men having multiple orgasms, the idea is usually to hold off ejaculation while the orgasms are happening. So your bf wants to have multiple ejaculations in one session, not necessarily "multiple orgasms."

You can believe what you want, but since you're lacking the equipment, you're also lacking first hand knowledge of the topic.

The technique suggested by that website and so many others out there is nothing compared to a full blown ejaculatory orgasm. Its a minigasm. Its phone sex vs the real thing. And it involves the same refractory period as does a reqular orgasm (or at least for me it does).

For a lot of guys, especially as they get older, there is a reason why they call an orgasm a climax. Because it is, its over, fini, ended. That doesn't mean its over for the night, but it does mean that for now, and perhaps for as much as several hours (the time will vary, but will grow longer with age), he needs to recharge.

My wife is multi-orgasmic and I envy her that ability. I could have perhaps 2-4 full blown orgasms per night, she can have 2-4 orgasms within a span of minutes. He will never be capable of matching your abilities in that regard. And no technique, or no amount of wishing will allow that.

What you can do is pace out an evening of lovemaking if thats your wish so that he can come more than once. The period of extreme sensitivity lasts only a few minutes. So giving him 10 minutes after an orgasm and he will be no longer painful to touch. Each subsequent orgasm for him will take extra time, and work from both of you.

And unfortunately for him, he'll find each subsequent orgasm will not be as strong nor quite as good as the first one. But they are still orgasms.

Part of the problem is that orgasms after the first one take longer, and your boyfriend is spending too much time concentrating on trying to have one that he's diminishing the experience for himself. Make the first time around last, then use his "downtime" for a little personal attention. Spend time cuddling while he's too sensitive to touch, and when the sensitivity has gone, use a moist warm wash cloth to clean him up, take your time, make it a part of the foreplay, he'll probably get hard again in short order doing that, or maybe you can help him along with a blowjob. But once he's hard, give him a breather by climbing onto him. Take most of the load off his shoulders so to speak and let yourself do the driving for a while. This way you can pace him out and enjoy it at yourself.

 

[cat3100]

Well I guess that's about all the advice I'm going to get. But I would like to say thanks to everyone that posted. We'll see what we can do.

 

[rl_dylan]

Check out this article/website . You can also do a google search for "male multiple orgasms" or related terms.

Great site that you recommended. Maybe you should go by Dr. Erika - Sweet sex advise!

Have to try these myself

 

[Mogwai7]

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[Mrcanada]

I have to agree with Mogwai7 on this subject. I can do the exact same thing as Mogwai7, but all my friends complain that they can not. Apparently there are a select few that can achieve this state. We are among the lucky few.

 

[English Lady]

My husband can have multiple orgasms(and ejaculations) but they do not happen all the time. I can't really say it happens once a month or once every 6 months as its not as regular as that but all in all he usually has just one orgasm and thats it...but sometimes he can go on to about 4 or 5 and I have often felt him throbbing inside me as he cums. They tend to happen about 5-10 minutes apart and the last one is MASSIVE. My hubby is normally fairly quiet.....but when he has the last of a set of multiple ejaculations/orgasms he roars like a lion. Very sexy.

I think it maybe is just something some men can do....I know hubby cannot control when it happens to him though.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

^_^ well I can't exactly have multiple orgasms but my downtime seems to be a bit less then most men so it doesn't interrupt the fun too much.

Then again my darling gets the same 'too sensative to touch' feeling after orgasm for about as long as it DOES take for me to be ready for fun again, so it works out perfectly ^_^

-Zergplex