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[Alyx]

Bob, I gave up giving you “hints” YEARS ago. However, I would like to point out that it DOES work both ways dear one. Ripping off my clothes I’d eventually have a problem with when laundry days meant only having to wash a sock. I’m not entirely sure where you got the idea that I don’t like being “taken”…but perhaps that’s something I need to correct…in great detail over many, many days, hmmm?

~Alyx~

 

[Bobmi357]

Bob, I gave up giving you “hints” YEARS ago. However, I would like to point out that it DOES work both ways dear one. Ripping off my clothes I’d eventually have a problem with when laundry days meant only having to wash a sock. I’m not entirely sure where you got the idea that I don’t like being “taken”…but perhaps that’s something I need to correct…in great detail over many, many days, hmmm?

~Alyx~

Hmmm I don't know, you'd look mighty sexy dressed only in a sock. It might give the folks in town a reason to turn their head as we drive on by though.....

BTW, I wasn't really thinking about ripping the clothes off, more like just pushing the clothes out of the way if you catch my drift. Some of that stuff costs too much to want to see it end up in the rag bin.

 

[Carnus]

me too baby,, sometimes I get really tired of sitting in my hotel room hoping to find something on tv wondering if I will be able to go to sleep without reading a book for a few hours to make me doze off.

Carnus

God how I love your posts. You've done it again hon. Hope you find what you're looking for.

 

[Alyx]

Hmmm I don't know, you'd look mighty sexy dressed only in a sock. It might give the folks in town a reason to turn their head as we drive on by though.....

BTW, I wasn't really thinking about ripping the clothes off, more like just pushing the clothes out of the way if you catch my drift. Some of that stuff costs too much to want to see it end up in the rag bin.

Turn their heads? Remember where we live. There would be a public lynching!

As for the other… Push away my love…push away!

For those who may be reading, I apologize for the sweetness factor here. It seems silly to reply to my husband’s posts sometimes, but I feel rude when I don’t. You’ll just have to forgive me.


~Alyx~

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Alyx
Turn their heads? Remember where we live. There would be a public lynching!

As for the other… Push away my love…push away!

For those who may be reading, I apologize for the sweetness factor here. It seems silly to reply to my husband’s posts sometimes, but I feel rude when I don’t. You’ll just have to forgive me.


~Alyx~

No need to apologize...just really glad you two have come to an 'understanding'


Personally I like reading when couples respond to each other.

 

[CelticFrog]

Personally I like reading when couples respond to each other.

I do as well... it indicates that both parties enjoy the wonders of lit. I can only hope that recent developments in partners posting after a long period of lurking spills over into my life. I'd love to see my SO on here!!!
Ang

 

[Bobmi357]

I do as well... it indicates that both parties enjoy the wonders of lit. I can only hope that recent developments in partners posting after a long period of lurking spills over into my life. I'd love to see my SO on here!!!
Ang

Then ask her Celtic. Heck, if it will help, create a couples only thread in GB and see if she can get into that.

 

[RoughPlay]

What I would like more in my sex life.......

well more sex of course, but more than that I would love to have a partner who was not afraid to tell me what she wanted, and be wiling to try things to see what we both found enjoyable.

I dream of a woman whos mind is as versatile as my own, who loves to experience pleasure for the sake of the sensation, someone I could hold at night in my arms as she slept, or take her hard and fast in the morning as we woke up together.

A woman who loves me for who I am, not what I can give them, who loves to listen to me as well as talk to me. Someone who is every inch a lady on my arm when we go out and who has the kind of imagination to entice me as we spend long years together.

I want a lover who is my best friend, my confidant and I am the same for her.

I want a lover who has a kinky bend, who can be submissive in bed but has her own mind and thoughts.

I want a woman who will take care of me when I am sick, hold me when I am scared and make me smile when I am sad, someone who doesn't judge me for my faults but helps me find them and changethem without ever be critical of them or me.

I want a woman who feels secure in who she is, someone who has her head on straight and can carry on a conversation with me.

More than anything I want a woman who wants to be with me, not just because she needs something or wants something but who wants to be with me.

Carnus

You're very good at this. I wish I could write words as charming and as heartfelt as these.

 

[bobsgirl]

OK BG, let me ask one simple question. Have you told him that? No, not hinted, but just told him?

Ladies, in this day and age of woman's lib and domestic battery, we men are sitting here confused.

We men aren't mind readers. Hell, we aren't even good hint takers. You have to come out and say "Honey? FUCK ME ON THE DAMN FLOOR RIGHT NOW!"

I came of age in the late 70's. Back then women wanted their man "sensitive", the idea of a woman wanting it to get rough would have been shocking to me at the time. Sure there have been more than a few times when I would have loved to grab my wife, shove her pants down and take her right there. But to be frank, I'd probably end up in a major fight with the wife. Its not her cup of tea, or at least I don't think it is, and if she's ever dropped any hints to that effect they have been way too subtle to register on my radar.

And IF you're going to come out and tell your man that the caveman routine is ok, you better be prepared for him to overdo it. Sooner or later he's going to pull that routine when you really don't feel like it.

The idea here is simple ladies, we want to please you, but we are really simple beasts, our instincts are primal in nature, some of us are still adjusting to the concept of woman enjoying sex! (Not me fortunately) So come out and say what you want. You'll probably get it.

ps. Wife I know you read these posts, so this means you too!

You're right, Bobmi, and we have talked about it some, but when I brought it up, the look of...horror almost on hub's face shut me up fast. He just believes that you don't treat someone you love like that. I also know he would be afraid of hurting me. But still, I would love to be swept away. He very rarely loses his temper or even raises his voice--it would be such a turn-on for me to know he wants me so much, he loses control.

 

[Chuckwrox]

I tried to talk to my wife about our sex life last week, and it went abysmally. She looked like she felt very guilty for not holding up her end of the relationship, and yet I tried so hard to keep it cool and constructive! I didn't want her feeling badly about it, I wanted to come up with some solutions. She's happy with doing it once a week, once every couple of weeks, something like that. But she's just not interested in doing it any more than that. She lends me hand, occasionally, but while I enjoy it, we both know its not the same.

I've got a new tack, though. She loves massages, we all love massages, right? I give a harder massage that she likes, so she's getting more of those. A full body, 45-minute rub that I like, too. When I rub her back or her feet or whatever, I've got enough empathy to enjoy how it probably feels for her.

My thinking is that maybe with more physical intimacy we can expand that into something closer to what I'd like (more often, more variety, more quality).

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I tried to talk to my wife about our sex life last week, and it went abysmally. She looked like she felt very guilty for not holding up her end of the relationship, and yet I tried so hard to keep it cool and constructive! I didn't want her feeling badly about it, I wanted to come up with some solutions. She's happy with doing it once a week, once every couple of weeks, something like that. But she's just not interested in doing it any more than that. She lends me hand, occasionally, but while I enjoy it, we both know its not the same.

I've got a new tack, though. She loves massages, we all love massages, right? I give a harder massage that she likes, so she's getting more of those. A full body, 45-minute rub that I like, too. When I rub her back or her feet or whatever, I've got enough empathy to enjoy how it probably feels for her.

My thinking is that maybe with more physical intimacy we can expand that into something closer to what I'd like (more often, more variety, more quality).

I had a boyfriend once and we would exchange backrubs (from him) for blowjobs (from me) It was the only way I could get him to rub my back! lol It worked great for both of us (I definately got the best of that deal! lol)

 

[Bobmi357]

I've got a new tack, though. She loves massages, we all love massages, right? I give a harder massage that she likes, so she's getting more of those. A full body, 45-minute rub that I like, too. When I rub her back or her feet or whatever, I've got enough empathy to enjoy how it probably feels for her.

My thinking is that maybe with more physical intimacy we can expand that into something closer to what I'd like (more often, more variety, more quality).

LOL! Your lucky, my wife, due to an accident years ago, needs massages to relieve muscle problems. So when I give her a massage, she tends to fall asleep! ROFL!!! Ah well, so much for the art of the sensual massage eh?

Keep up with those conversations Chuck, just don't make it seem like its all HER problem. Those sort of conversations do help, and you both need to see the others viewpoint. As long as she's willing to talk, you can make progress. It may not turn out to be exactly what you want, but you can settle for a happy mid point.

 

[BirdsWife]

You're right, Bobmi, and we have talked about it some, but when I brought it up, the look of...horror almost on hub's face shut me up fast. He just believes that you don't treat someone you love like that. I also know he would be afraid of hurting me. But still, I would love to be swept away. He very rarely loses his temper or even raises his voice--it would be such a turn-on for me to know he wants me so much, he loses control.

Yup, what she said.

 

[Carnus]

Thank you very much, it is how I truly feel

Carnus

You're very good at this. I wish I could write words as charming and as heartfelt as these.