More of.

[RoughPlay]

Is there anything you would like to have more of in your sex life ?

 

[Jenny _S]

Is there anything you would like to have more of in your sex life ?

Ummm... Yes... SEX

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Sleep overs! We don't get to have sleep overs very often.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

.....

 

[bobsgirl]

Hub and I make love often, but sometimes I'd just love to be taken, with no gentleness, or sweetness. Just basic fucking, and the harder the better. I wish I could get him to lose control like that. **sigh**

 

[BirdsWife]

Hub and I make love often, but sometimes I'd just love to be taken, with no gentleness, or sweetness. Just basic fucking, and the harder the better. I wish I could get him to lose control like that. **sigh**

What she said.

 

[Bobmi357]

Hub and I make love often, but sometimes I'd just love to be taken, with no gentleness, or sweetness. Just basic fucking, and the harder the better. I wish I could get him to lose control like that. **sigh**

OK BG, let me ask one simple question. Have you told him that? No, not hinted, but just told him?

Ladies, in this day and age of woman's lib and domestic battery, we men are sitting here confused.

We men aren't mind readers. Hell, we aren't even good hint takers. You have to come out and say "Honey? FUCK ME ON THE DAMN FLOOR RIGHT NOW!"

I came of age in the late 70's. Back then women wanted their man "sensitive", the idea of a woman wanting it to get rough would have been shocking to me at the time. Sure there have been more than a few times when I would have loved to grab my wife, shove her pants down and take her right there. But to be frank, I'd probably end up in a major fight with the wife. Its not her cup of tea, or at least I don't think it is, and if she's ever dropped any hints to that effect they have been way too subtle to register on my radar.

And IF you're going to come out and tell your man that the caveman routine is ok, you better be prepared for him to overdo it. Sooner or later he's going to pull that routine when you really don't feel like it.

The idea here is simple ladies, we want to please you, but we are really simple beasts, our instincts are primal in nature, some of us are still adjusting to the concept of woman enjoying sex! (Not me fortunately) So come out and say what you want. You'll probably get it.

ps. Wife I know you read these posts, so this means you too!

 

[ReadyOne]

To just come up behind a special person and push them up against a wall or bend them over a table or push them onto their knees, pin their arms, pull off whatever covers their body, and then after a little spit and fingers, fuck them hard and try to hold off cuming as long as I can.

Romance is nice. Getting someone really turned on before the clothes come off is nice. Teasing them into super high arousal before the first orgasms is nice.

But every now and then I just want to be a caveman and dominate the hell out of a woman.

 

[ReadyOne]

Oh...

And I'd also like to just play lots of different ways with my SO, as in places, toys, scenes, and fetishes. My experience is kind of wide and she clings hard to her much smaller comfort zone. Expanding it takes persistence and goes slowly.

Saw a cartoon once, two vultures setting on a tree limb looking over the desert with a few animals about. The caption was "Patients my ass -- I want to kill something!"

 

[Bobmi357]

But every now and then I just want to be a caveman and dominate the hell out of a woman.

So would I, but I'd never even attempt it without first finding out if it were ok to do so.

Every person has limits, and even after 10 years of being together, you still don't know all of them.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

damn!

To just come up behind a special person and push them up against a wall or bend them over a table or push them onto their knees, pin their arms, pull off whatever covers their body, and then after a little spit and fingers, fuck them hard and try to hold off cuming as long as I can.

Romance is nice. Getting someone really turned on before the clothes come off is nice. Teasing them into super high arousal before the first orgasms is nice.

But every now and then I just want to be a caveman and dominate the hell out of a woman.

I want some more of THAT!

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Bobmi357
OK BG, let me ask one simple question. Have you told him that? No, not hinted, but just told him?

Ladies, in this day and age of woman's lib and domestic battery, we men are sitting here confused.

We men aren't mind readers. Hell, we aren't even good hint takers. You have to come out and say "Honey? FUCK ME ON THE DAMN FLOOR RIGHT NOW!"

I came of age in the late 70's. Back then women wanted their man "sensitive", the idea of a woman wanting it to get rough would have been shocking to me at the time. Sure there have been more than a few times when I would have loved to grab my wife, shove her pants down and take her right there. But to be frank, I'd probably end up in a major fight with the wife. Its not her cup of tea, or at least I don't think it is, and if she's ever dropped any hints to that effect they have been way too subtle to register on my radar.

And IF you're going to come out and tell your man that the caveman routine is ok, you better be prepared for him to overdo it. Sooner or later he's going to pull that routine when you really don't feel like it.

The idea here is simple ladies, we want to please you, but we are really simple beasts, our instincts are primal in nature, some of us are still adjusting to the concept of woman enjoying sex! (Not me fortunately) So come out and say what you want. You'll probably get it.

ps. Wife I know you read these posts, so this means you too!

True true true.....especially like the note to your wife.

btw I don't think I've ever told you but I really like reading your posts..honest, straight forward, to the point and just damn good advice and comments. Thanks hon.

 

[Wickid Cherry Pie]

As some others said, I would just like more sex. Morning sex in particular. That's always a good way to start the day.

 

[Bobmi357]

True true true.....especially like the note to your wife.

btw I don't think I've ever told you but I really like reading your posts..honest, straight forward, to the point and just damn good advice and comments. Thanks hon.

Awwwww now you've got me blushing, and I haven't blushed in forever.

But seriously, I just try to inject a note of common sense. Its one thing to want to grab your woman and tear off her clothes. But she might be a bit pissed off at you for ruining 200 bucks of outfit in your haste to strip her. I'm all for wild raunchy sex, but sometimes I like to spend an hour or two cuddling before we get down to business also.

One other thing guys, if you really want to get into the caveman routine and your woman has any history of sexual abuse in her past. Sit her down and talk about it first. The last thing you want to do is dredge up bad memories, or you might end up sleeping on the couch for the next year.

 

[shescurious]

Is there anything you would like to have more of in your sex life ?

A partner

 

[warrior queen]

i adore my s/o, and am totally happy being with him, but.......

i sooooooooooo need to find myself a regular female partner!
someone who's into 'occasional' sex, and doesn't want to become all 'dykey' on me.
(nothing worse than a casual that wants more.)

but having recently moved to one of the more conservative areas of Oz, that may take a while to find.

 

[RoughPlay]

Re: Re: More of.

Ummm... Yes... SEX

How much would you like to have each week ?

 

[RoughPlay]

What she said.

Are you getting enough good hard ass fucks these days ?

 

[RoughPlay]

Hub and I make love often, but sometimes I'd just love to be taken, with no gentleness, or sweetness. Just basic fucking, and the harder the better. I wish I could get him to lose control like that. **sigh**

Oooh I'd like more of this too except that I like to do the taking.

 

[RoughPlay]

To just come up behind a special person and push them up against a wall or bend them over a table or push them onto their knees, pin their arms, pull off whatever covers their body, and then after a little spit and fingers, fuck them hard and try to hold off cuming as long as I can.

Romance is nice. Getting someone really turned on before the clothes come off is nice. Teasing them into super high arousal before the first orgasms is nice.

But every now and then I just want to be a caveman and dominate the hell out of a woman.

I want some more of THAT too!

 

[Chuckwrox]

I'm not getting enough of ANYTHING these days. So, yeah: I could go for considerably more quantity, a little more quality, and a little more variety!

I think it's a pretty common marital problem, the disparity in sex drives, isn't it? Doesn't make it any easier to deal with though, does it?

 

[CelticFrog]

I'm not getting enough of ANYTHING these days. So, yeah: I could go for considerably more quantity, a little more quality, and a little more variety!

I think it's a pretty common marital problem, the disparity in sex drives, isn't it? Doesn't make it any easier to deal with though, does it?

Chuck, I have to agree with you wholeheartedly...

*I* want more quantity... definitely. More quality, sure!!! Why not? But most definitely, more VARIETY!!! MORE TALKING!!! MORE EXPERIMENTATION!!! And then, more TIME to have sex.

Ang

 

[Carnus]

What I would like more in my sex life.......

well more sex of course, but more than that I would love to have a partner who was not afraid to tell me what she wanted, and be wiling to try things to see what we both found enjoyable.

I dream of a woman whos mind is as versatile as my own, who loves to experience pleasure for the sake of the sensation, someone I could hold at night in my arms as she slept, or take her hard and fast in the morning as we woke up together.

A woman who loves me for who I am, not what I can give them, who loves to listen to me as well as talk to me. Someone who is every inch a lady on my arm when we go out and who has the kind of imagination to entice me as we spend long years together.

I want a lover who is my best friend, my confidant and I am the same for her.

I want a lover who has a kinky bend, who can be submissive in bed but has her own mind and thoughts.

I want a woman who will take care of me when I am sick, hold me when I am scared and make me smile when I am sad, someone who doesn't judge me for my faults but helps me find them and changethem without ever be critical of them or me.

I want a woman who feels secure in who she is, someone who has her head on straight and can carry on a conversation with me.

More than anything I want a woman who wants to be with me, not just because she needs something or wants something but who wants to be with me.

Carnus

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by Carnus
What I would like more in my sex life.......

well more sex of course, but more than that I would love to have a partner who was not afraid to tell me what she wanted, and be wiling to try things to see what we both found enjoyable.

I dream of a woman whos mind is as versatile as my own, who loves to experience pleasure for the sake of the sensation, someone I could hold at night in my arms as she slept, or take her hard and fast in the morning as we woke up together.

A woman who loves me for who I am, not what I can give them, who loves to listen to me as well as talk to me. Someone who is every inch a lady on my arm when we go out and who has the kind of imagination to entice me as we spend long years together.

I want a lover who is my best friend, my confidant and I am the same for her.

I want a lover who has a kinky bend, who can be submissive in bed but has her own mind and thoughts.

I want a woman who will take care of me when I am sick, hold me when I am scared and make me smile when I am sad, someone who doesn't judge me for my faults but helps me find them and changethem without ever be critical of them or me.

I want a woman who feels secure in who she is, someone who has her head on straight and can carry on a conversation with me.

More than anything I want a woman who wants to be with me, not just because she needs something or wants something but who wants to be with me.

Carnus

God how I love your posts. You've done it again hon. Hope you find what you're looking for.