Momma's Kitchen

[Jewelz]

Hello Momma and Jewelz

Peeking in again in between loads of laundry..

I hear you about the men. When Hubby and I opened up our marriage to date others, I kinda went a little wild myself. Our sex life is good, don't get me wrong, but after 12 years, I wanted to taste the variety.

I have to say, though, that there's something to be said for him..he's the only one that's ever been able to make me "O" in a certain way, and though others have tried, no one else has been able to do it for me. I wonder if it's a comfort factor or something?

And don't get me wrong, others have been able to push me over the brink, just not in one particular area. I must just be a hard woman to please, huh?

grin...

I have to give credit where credit is due my darling! I just am not sure I could be as open to allow him to go out and be with others while we are married and wouldnt expect him to allow me either. BUT, gosh, it sounds sooo exciting!! I have dated alot before him, but have only had sex with one other person besides him. He has never been with or done anything with ANYONE other than me. I keep teasing and asking if he wonders whats out there and he says "no, i got what i want"......sweet eh? but im the slut...lol...i flirt so bad...and i just know if i were to meet up with some people from here......well......i wouldnt be as easily controlled......

 

[pipercatt]

I have to give credit where credit is due my darling! I just am not sure I could be as open to allow him to go out and be with others while we are married and wouldnt expect him to allow me either. BUT, gosh, it sounds sooo exciting!! I have dated alot before him, but have only had sex with one other person besides him. He has never been with or done anything with ANYONE other than me. I keep teasing and asking if he wonders whats out there and he says "no, i got what i want"......sweet eh? but im the slut...lol...i flirt so bad...and i just know if i were to meet up with some people from here......well......i wouldnt be as easily controlled......

I hear you, Jewelz...I used to be that way. Hubby and I are both natural flirts, and it used to bother me when he flirted with others. I kinda realized that my jealousy stemmed from a low self esteem, and worked on it.

I used to have a job that meant that I got to meet hundreds of people I knew from online. Being away from home so much, and bring a natural flirt, I came to realize that if Hubby were to be intimate with someone, it wouldnt bother me. Hubby didn't believe me when I told him that...LOL. But that was a few years ago. Now, neither one of us has a lot of jealousy issues..except when we feel like we aren't spending a lot of time with one another. Then we know we need some "our" time.

Whoooo...that was quite a ramble...huh? I'll return you all to your regularly scheduled program....

 

[Jewelz]

Dont be sorry for rambling! I got alot from your post and I appreciate you being so forthright! I can see the self esteem issue coming into play cuz I would just be crushed if he was to go out and actually be with someone! I dont care if he does the net thing and finds someone very special....i think....lol...sometimes that emotional bond is more hurtful than the physical.......BUT he doesnt even come online to do that sort of thing. In fact, doesnt chat at all anywhere. He is very comfortable, content and happy with being with me and just me. I on the other hand am all those things with him, BUT as I said many times before, there are urges, desires, thoughts, dreams, hopes,........and I am telling you.....I KNOW I could not be in the same room with ......ehem.....and not do anything....if we met! sigh!

 

[pipercatt]

(snip)

and I am telling you.....I KNOW I could not be in the same room with ......ehem.....and not do anything....if we met! sigh!

I know what you mean, Jewelz. There are a few people on Lit that I could do some damage to, should we were to meet. But then again, there are some people that I *have* met from Lit that I have done some damage with...

Oh jeez...did I say that out loud?

<---- Shutting up now...

 

[Jewelz]

I know what you mean, Jewelz. There are a few people on Lit that I could do some damage to, should we were to meet. But then again, there are some people that I *have* met from Lit that I have done some damage with...

Oh jeez...did I say that out loud?

<---- Shutting up now...

LMAO!!!!!!!! yup yup sugarbear, i heard it!! Woohoooooo way to damage the goods girlie!! *slurpzzzzzzzzz*

 

[wildrose70]

Re: Re: Re: Good morning

We were together over 13 years.
To me she was as sexy the last night we were together as the first time........
She deserted me Spet 29...are ninth wedding anversary was Dec 12

"Leather and lace" by Stevie Nicks

I hear you Richard...I was married for 49 years and our divorce was final the day of our anniversary....I don't know the reasons for yours...but if you have read my posts....you will understand mine a little....but we have a great friendship now...just don't live together...

 

[wildrose70]

Well the only one I "do" is my husband. Aside from the phone...and that hasnt happened for almost a week. *pouts* And of course, a few select people have gotten to me in our private chats.. ....but I am woman, hear me roar! LOL

And damn straight momma! If I had no sex for that long, I would have got myself a nice sampling too!!!!!!

Believe me Jewelz....I did sample....and went totally hog-wild!!!But some of the edge has been taken off..now I can settle and only do the ones I want too

 

[wildrose70]

Hello Momma and Jewelz

Peeking in again in between loads of laundry..

I hear you about the men. When Hubby and I opened up our marriage to date others, I kinda went a little wild myself. Our sex life is good, don't get me wrong, but after 12 years, I wanted to taste the variety.

I have to say, though, that there's something to be said for him..he's the only one that's ever been able to make me "O" in a certain way, and though others have tried, no one else has been able to do it for me. I wonder if it's a comfort factor or something?

And don't get me wrong, others have been able to push me over the brink, just not in one particular area. I must just be a hard woman to please, huh?

grin...

yes it's probably that comfort factor...and if my ex would have agreed to someone else giving me what he no longer cared too....I would still be there..I tried to tell him I would be discreet...but he comes from that old school...one man....one woman...and now he's the one lonely...it sure "ain't" me!!!!

 

[wildrose70]

Re: Good morning

mmm sweet Rose
and the lovely Jewelz
Pi,mmmmmmmmmmm
hi richard
approaching my 1000th post
what do I do to celebrate ladies?

MMMMMMMm that you are and I just looked and saw I have gone past 1500...wow how did I do that?? I think it's time for a big party!!

Your place or mine???

 

[pipercatt]

yes it's probably that comfort factor...and if my ex would have agreed to someone else giving me what he no longer cared too....I would still be there..I tried to tell him I would be discreet...but he comes from that old school...one man....one woman...and now he's the one lonely...it sure "ain't" me!!!!

MommaRose, I am so glad that you appear to be happy with your situation. And that you can be such good friends with your Ex. I wish more people could be that way as well..

 

[wildrose70]

MommaRose, I am so glad that you appear to be happy with your situation. And that you can be such good friends with your Ex. I wish more people could be that way as well..

Well you know 49 yrs is a long time..4 kids, 9 grandkids, 6 greatgrandkids...but you know the grandkids accepted this better than the kids...but I haven't regretted it and yes it's nice to be good friends...that's basically what we were for the last 15 yrs...

 

[Jewelz]

Believe me Jewelz....I did sample....and went totally hog-wild!!!But some of the edge has been taken off..now I can settle and only do the ones I want too

Yes darlin, now you can definately pick and choose cuz they are all drooling and wanting you.....what a rush!

 

[wildrose70]

Yes darlin, now you can definately pick and choose cuz they are all drooling and wanting you.....what a rush!

Well thank you honey...your such a sweet daughter..how did I get so lucky to have so many great friends on here...warms my heart for sure....

You think they are?? LOl.....if only they were closer...woohooo I haven't had this much fun in years.....

BTW pleasureu...if your sending our roses dont forget the one that loves roses!!!!

 

[Jewelz]

Well thank you honey...your such a sweet daughter..how did I get so lucky to have so many great friends on here...warms my heart for sure....

You think they are?? LOl.....if only they were closer...woohooo I haven't had this much fun in years.....

BTW pleasureu...if your sending our roses dont forget the one that loves roses!!!!

You are welcome momma! And we are just who YOU taught us to be!! We learn from a wonderful example! I love this place and cant imagine not having ya'll there!

And yes, of course they are! You would rock their worlds in such a huge way!! woohoooooooo!!! and Im so glad you are having this much fun! You deserve it!!

Ehem...yeah pleasureu love, imjust like my momma, i love roses too!

 

[wildrose70]

You are welcome momma! And we are just who YOU taught us to be!! We learn from a wonderful example! I love this place and cant imagine not having ya'll there!

And yes, of course they are! You would rock their worlds in such a huge way!! woohoooooooo!!! and Im so glad you are having this much fun! You deserve it!!

Ehem...yeah pleasureu love, imjust like my momma, i love roses too!

Well then I have done my job well...who woudl have ever "thunk" when I first tiptoed on here and looked around that I would end up with so many wonderful friends...seems like I have been here forever...now and then I stayed away....but now it's become so addictive..LOL......it's my outlet...my pleasure palace...and hey it's so dammed much fun rocking their worlds..if only "VR" just think what would happen in "RL" LOL....


Yeah lets get those roses cumming along here.......

 

[Richard49]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Good morning

I hear you Richard...I was married for 49 years and our divorce was final the day of our anniversary....I don't know the reasons for yours...but if you have read my posts....you will understand mine a little....but we have a great friendship now...just don't live together...

I wish I could wish for
1) that she and I could be freinds
2) that some peace and love could come into my life

 

[Jewelz]

Well then I have done my job well...who woudl have ever "thunk" when I first tiptoed on here and looked around that I would end up with so many wonderful friends...seems like I have been here forever...now and then I stayed away....but now it's become so addictive..LOL......it's my outlet...my pleasure palace...and hey it's so dammed much fun rocking their worlds..if only "VR" just think what would happen in "RL" LOL....


Yeah lets get those roses cumming along here.......

I know, I have had my days when I didnt care if I missed what was going on...still do occasionally...but more times than not, I love coming here basically cuz its a place that brings me lots of laughter ....I really need to have fun and everyone here that Ive met is just way too much fun. I cant even begin to imagine if we held a Lit picnic!! woohooooooooo! Wonders if it would just be a one huge orgy....hmmm LOL

Its definately my outlet. I am with my kids 24/7 and little time for a social life outside the house. My hubby works long hours....so I love it! And he doesnt mind me being here!

Kisses!

 

[wildrose70]

I know, I have had my days when I didnt care if I missed what was going on...still do occasionally...but more times than not, I love coming here basically cuz its a place that brings me lots of laughter ....I really need to have fun and everyone here that Ive met is just way too much fun. I cant even begin to imagine if we held a Lit picnic!! woohooooooooo! Wonders if it would just be a one huge orgy....hmmm LOL

Its definately my outlet. I am with my kids 24/7 and little time for a social life outside the house. My hubby works long hours....so I love it! And he doesnt mind me being here!

Kisses!

Well thats great that he understands..and being tied down with kids 24/7 can drive anyone nuts!!!

OMG..the possibilites of a Lit picnic...actually I think some of these guys are reall "pussy" cats...hehe....

Everybody needs fun in their lives..thats what keeps us young at heart....

 

[wildrose70]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Good morning

I wish I could wish for
1) that she and I could be freinds
2) that some peace and love could come into my life

I wish that too for you Richard with all my like I said I dont know the circumstances that led to this...but it's sad I know...
Sending you a big warm hug>>>>

 

[Jewelz]

Well thats great that he understands..and being tied down with kids 24/7 can drive anyone nuts!!!

OMG..the possibilites of a Lit picnic...actually I think some of these guys are reall "pussy" cats...hehe....

Everybody needs fun in their lives..thats what keeps us young at heart....

Have I told you lately how much I adore you??????????????? Admire you?????

 

[Jewelz]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Good morning

I wish that too for you Richard with all my like I said I dont know the circumstances that led to this...but it's sad I know...
Sending you a big warm hug>>>>

Likewise here sweetheart......With all sincerity!!

 

[wildrose70]

Have I told you lately how much I adore you??????????????? Admire you?????

yes you have..but hey I never get tired of hearing it....doesnt every woman like to hear that whether it's from another gal, a guy...or even my loving cats.....hey you have to go check out the pic I put on personals under Thats a good way to satisfy ...I think thats the name...lol Piper and I have been posting on there...
Your making me *blush* but I love it...

 

[Jewelz]

I truly dont know how you and Piper move from thread to thread so quickly??? I have trouble keeping up and I hate that!!!!!!!! LOL

Ohh but, it could be I have 3 kids here trying to get me to take care of them in between posting!!!! hahahahah!!!!

Yes, we all love to hear that others love us!

I will check out that thread then.....M' baby is crying now, and the girls want lunch.....I gotta pee, I am doing Piper and Chewey in another thread........CALGON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *giggle*

 

[pipercatt]

I truly dont know how you and Piper move from thread to thread so quickly??? I have trouble keeping up and I hate that!!!!!!!! LOL

Ohh but, it could be I have 3 kids here trying to get me to take care of them in between posting!!!! hahahahah!!!!

Yes, we all love to hear that others love us!

I will check out that thread then.....M' baby is crying now, and the girls want lunch.....I gotta pee, I am doing Piper and Chewey in another thread........CALGON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *giggle*

LOL, I hear ya, Jewelz. I have my MSN turned on, and Lit emails me when I get responses to the threads I've posted on. Damn thing goes off every 5 seconds! But then I go to my control panel and see who it is, and respond as quickly as I can.

Mind you, I am doing all that while running loads of laundry out to the other side of the house, and cleaning...

Ah, the things we do for our Lit addiction.

BTW, Chewey's getting pretty hot over there on the Movie date thread...should I make him wait till after the floors are washed???

Muhahahahaaaaa

 

[wildrose70]

I truly dont know how you and Piper move from thread to thread so quickly??? I have trouble keeping up and I hate that!!!!!!!! LOL

Ohh but, it could be I have 3 kids here trying to get me to take care of them in between posting!!!! hahahahah!!!!

Yes, we all love to hear that others love us!

I will check out that thread then.....M' baby is crying now, and the girls want lunch.....I gotta pee, I am doing Piper and Chewey in another thread........CALGON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *giggle*

LOL you poor baby well Piper and I dont have all those distratctions....is it cocktail hour yet??? LOL feed those kids, go pee...and try to stay sane!!!!!!

You gotta be busy to stay up with Momma....hehe